five555 發表於 20-6-22 15:51
Be strong, be tough, be happy!
He is just a part of yr life not all, if u choose to forgive, never ...
Thank you so much JM! It’s been awhile since I visited here... I thought he did do what he should do and I decided to forgive but I found out that he still not change and keep telling lie!... he didn’t go out for 1-2 week, I thought he “wake up”, but then I found out he dare of die only because his 肝素高, he needs to check again after 2-3 weeks. After 2 weeks, he resumed normal and still go out with the woman. My heart broken again, i think I would talk to him again (4th time) and I think I have to force him to make decision. I would leave home for some days but leave my son at home with him, I want him to feel how I at home to face only som while waiting for him to be back for dinner every time !
Thank Jm! Talked to my friend ,.. she made me change my thoughts! She said 9 out of 10 men also had affair and she shared her experience to me. She & her husband said if hubby still loves the kid and 有避技,放佢出去,佢玩攰左會返,可能幾個月 or 1 or more year , if I want to keep the kid and I think he still wants and care this family! 我好亂,又覺得啱,因為佢話激情同熱情都會變淡!但我自己個位係未上床越搞越來都變上床就大件事。。。之後我朋友話你當已經發生咗先你當佢出去叫雞,今晚又返嚟瞓識得返屋企就得,要做個聰明女人學識隻眼開隻眼閉。朋友話他朝有一日自己飲唔到係我提出我選擇而唔係佢,損失嗰個係佢。 they made me feeel a little better.