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亦風


洋房

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發表於 05-7-11 00:48 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

你說你忍了廿年才變心，那麼如果那第三者早幾年些出現，是否你就仍會努力修保跟老婆的關係，不會攪婚外情呢？

你在騎牛搵馬吧！

你太太除了不夠熱情外，我實在找不出任何大缺失，足以令你離開，現在她已表明仍愛你，為何你仍要找藉口令自已心安理得呢？

你投向一個可憐你的人，也太小男人心態吧，為什麼你不可憐一下尚年幼的子女呢？沒有做爸爸的責任感，當初就應免生孩子，傷害少兩個人！
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睡覺


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發表於 05-7-11 09:27 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

klk,klk
我也和你太太一樣...有以這樣的態度對待我老公，我也覺得自己無法好好再去愛他，我們甚至幾年沒有睡在同一張床度，連雙人床都變埋單人碌架床。

之所以我對他沒有興趣...係因為打從結婚開始，他就把我pat埋一二角...只會應酬佢d屋企人。
每每跟他溝通，他就會睡著，但若果是"那一個"呢，馬上清醒哂...
佢俾我感覺只是佢需要那個....除此並不需要我，我只是娶來...但最初我卻需要他....但三年了，直到懷孕...他依然很少關心我，....生了孩子...他的態度更惡劣...可能是壓大太大吧，分歧愈來愈多...。而我突然也清醒過來....了，我不再需要他...心淡了，那種渴望和需要....我知道我是白累的.....「明白當初你太重要，但你始終未盡全力，讓這顆心靜靜逃掉，情也抹掉...」

因此，當你已對一個人很心淡時....他的一舉一動，他的外在內在的缺點通通出哂黎.....當你不再愛一個人時...你不再看到他的優點了...更不想他碰你.....
但我丈夫是有健忘症，雖然已對他說過原由，他很快忘記，依然認為我為何對他的態度為何會如此...他自覺自己已對家庭付出很多.......忘了他長期以來的說話和態度..讓我的心已..逃掉了...........再不想和他溝通甚麼..解釋什麼了...

所以...你真的要搞清楚...你們之間一直以來...到底發生了什麼事，會不會你也有令她對你心淡的理由呢﹗我想箇中一定出了什麼問題.....
誰會直率地說出所認識的真實？有所認識的少數人，愚蠢地不隱蔽自己充實的心，向愚民們說明他們的感情和見識，他們總是被人磔死或燒死。 歌德 <<浮士德>>入來做下test，不同的人對事情有不同的看法和感受﹗
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dummypimp


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發表於 05-7-11 11:23 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

klk.klk,
假設性問題:

不如諗下如果你有左重病會成世冇性生活, 成世全日訓在牀o甘點? 你估你太太會唔會走左去？佢一樣係會冇性生活, 冇人同佢溝通,...你一定說換轉係你也不會走,...何解？不是一樣為責任麼?...

其實什麼責任都不是...這才叫婚姻....無論富貴或貧窮,...健康或疾病....

你連什麼是愛你搞不清!!! 什麼是婚姻又搞不清!!!

是我看穿你有了另一女人的,...請回應下吧！
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ManMan502


洋房

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發表於 05-7-11 12:06 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

看你這個TOPIC，我跟朋友講開，他說如果你能夠一腳踏兩船，玩完就返屋企，或者出外召妓來解決性需要，咁就唔會搞到咁大……，突然覺得，妓女的工作真是神聖呀！你錯在用了真感情呀！傻佬！

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christylai


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發表於 05-7-11 12:19 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

想不到有人會覺得 "一腳踏兩船，玩完就返屋企，" 或 "出外召妓來解決性需要" 是一個方法. 如果我是某位抱著這樣子想法的男人的老婆, 我會哭.

伴侶有第一次的不忠誠, 那可能只是一個開始. 在我的觀點看來, 一次不忠, 百次不用!

ManMan502 寫道:
看你這個TOPIC，我跟朋友講開，他說如果你能夠一腳踏兩船，玩完就返屋企，或者出外召妓來解決性需要，咁就唔會搞到咁大……，突然覺得，妓女的工作真是神聖呀！你錯在用了真感情呀！傻佬！
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ManMan502


洋房

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146#
發表於 05-7-11 12:41 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

咁樣做都未嘗不是一件好事！其實我都知有好多老公係咁！佢地咁樣做，就唔使同老婆分開，繼續為持家庭運作。對於唔鍾意做愛的老婆來講，又唔使「應酬」老公，大家都好呀！
christylai 寫道:
想不到有人會覺得 "一腳踏兩船，玩完就返屋企，" 或 "出外召妓來解決性需要" 是一個方法. 如果我是某位抱著這樣子想法的男人的老婆, 我會哭.

伴侶有第一次的不忠誠, 那可能只是一個開始. 在我的觀點看來, 一次不忠, 百次不用!

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ManMan502 寫道:
看你這個TOPIC，我跟朋友講開，他說如果你能夠一腳踏兩船，玩完就返屋企，或者出外召妓來解決性需要，咁就唔會搞到咁大……，突然覺得，妓女的工作真是神聖呀！你錯在用了真感情呀！傻佬！
[/quote]
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christylai


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發表於 05-7-11 12:55 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

謝謝你告訴我這個可怕的真相. 在嫁之前, 的確要三思.

ManMan502 寫道:
咁樣做都未嘗不是一件好事！其實我都知有好多老公係咁！佢地咁樣做，就唔使同老婆分開，繼續為持家庭運作。對於唔鍾意做愛的老婆來講，又唔使「應酬」老公，大家都好呀！
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ringoivy


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發表於 05-7-11 13:44 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

嘩唔係啩, 我有無睇錯呀, 講講下好似好多人可以容許或接受自己既另一伴有其他性伴侶或叫外賣, 但我相信作為一個人妻萬萬都接受唔到呢個事實的, 唔為自己都為下d屋企人呀, 一個唔覺意佢染到傳染病再傳染左比屋企人或小朋友咁點算, 佢自己一個人就風流快活, 但快活過後要一班人同佢一齊痛苦同受罪 你地d咩理論黎架
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Littleleaf


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發表於 05-7-11 14:30 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

klk klk you have eventually recognized that you have affair! This now calms down the disputes here.

I am still hard to believe what you have responded on 9 July 2005. You are still escaping to respond what we have asked you and have been trying to find excuses to cover up your guilty. You said, you have been suffering pain and are giving up your marriage with your wife, why you did not find ways i.e. to seek professional advice (social workers) to repair your relationship (I asked you this question in my earlier message but you did not respond to it!) but you chose to leave your wife and your family.

If you have given up your marriage, why you did not leave your wife BEFORE you start a new relationship with your new lover but adversely you chose to leave them after you have a new lover? I am sure it is because you wanted to stay with your wife as a "back up" on one hand and stay with your new lover at the same time on the other hand. You are a very selfish man (I agreed with langmiu88's comment in her earlier message).

I fully understand why Moon Moon did not tell everyone the whole story because she wanted to protect you because she loves you. She did not want to comment you on your negative side in front of us. However, you adversely commented her and hurted her very deeply in front us which we all can see here - you actually do not love her. Why Moon Moon needed to protect you? Because she did not want you to be condemned by everyone here. However, you are very hard-hearted and ruthless to comment Moon Moon in order to cover up your fault and please your new lover because you know she would visit this chatroom. YOU ARE A VERY BAD MAN! I believe the men involved in this discussion here felt very shame of what you have done so far.

You have now admitted that you have affair so you are a man of guilty. You are not qualified to seek for justice here. Justice is in all BK friends' heart here. You will never be able to find anything to "fill up a gap" which broke in your heart in order to make yourself comfortable because you have already made a very big mistake which nothing can help to rectify it.

Please do not continue to comment your wife. She has been suffering good enough pain from what you have given her here. Please give her a break. If you want to leave her, please do so immediately. I think this will help to reduce her pain....... Moon Moon, if you would visit this chatroom, please listen to me. Let klk klk go, klk klk will sure finally discover that his wife and the family are important to his life. He will sure be very sorry.....

I am sure God has seen what you have done on her, you will be very sorry in the end of what you have done.

Let's wait and see.
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zipzip


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發表於 05-7-11 14:56 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

klk，你自己都講人哋係可憐你，你到底分唔分得清咩叫”可憐”，咩叫”愛”呀？咁麽如果第三者唔再可憐你的時候，你又有咩搞作呀？

klk，清醒吓啦，當出面嗰段感情係”被鬼迷”，你老婆都話對你的愛係1000%或更多，為小朋友著想，我想如果你肯的話，你哋的愛情感覺係會慢慢再培養出來的。
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yannstan


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發表於 05-7-11 15:52 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

我真係覺得呢位klk klk先生唔死都冇用, 佢真係好過份, 我一開始睇完佢既case都好同情佢, 覺得佢好慘, 男人都要人鍚, 愛護, 點解一個好男人都得唔到呢啲應有既野不特止仲要比人批評和說三道四. 直到佢太太出現, 我先知道我既同情心已經比人"呃"左, 撕成碎片.
to: klk klk,
有外遇已經賤, 仲要上bk伸冤, 大控訴自己太太, 你唔覺得咁樣做對你太太好大傷害咩?? 你出面有女人佢已經好傷心, 何必再喺佢傷口上灑鹽. 定係你想喺你條"可憐你既人"面前做條可憐小羔羊??? 頂, 諗起都想嘔, 你唔好再上黎啦, 你同條女風流快活把啦, 唔好o徙時間交代啦, 我諗冇人再想聽你發up瘋, 唔該.
to: "可憐佢的人",
今日佢愛你, 難保他日佢會用相同既藉口去搵第二個"可憐佢既人", 理得你係200%/1000%去愛佢 (記住, 佢老婆都好愛佢亦得如此下場). 你可能覺得我地唔識你地, 所以唔了解個情況or klk klk有幾慘....anyway, 希望你"幸福"吧, good luck.
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ManMan502


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發表於 05-7-11 16:11 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

所以各位有老公鍾意用condom的話，就要小心！我聽個朋友講，佢有其他性伴，一定會戴套，返到屋企同老波做都會戴套，因為萬一滾到老婆有性病，就不會有人原諒！其實，點會有男人鍾意用套！！！
ringoivy 寫道:
嘩唔係啩, 我有無睇錯呀, 講講下好似好多人可以容許或接受自己既另一伴有其他性伴侶或叫外賣, 但我相信作為一個人妻萬萬都接受唔到呢個事實的, 唔為自己都為下d屋企人呀, 一個唔覺意佢染到傳染病再傳染左比屋企人或小朋友咁點算, 佢自己一個人就風流快活, 但快活過後要一班人同佢一齊痛苦同受罪 你地d咩理論黎架
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ringoivy


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發表於 05-7-11 16:25 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

你好似講緊亞邊個個老公一定要用套嗰個呀
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亦風


洋房

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發表於 05-7-11 16:45 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

我也同意這提議，就當是被鬼迷吧，離婚是最差的選擇，或者今次是你和太太感情的一個試驗，有好的轉機都未定，到時咪皆大歡喜，小孩子又有番個好爸爸囉。

zipzip 寫道:
klk，你自己都講人哋係可憐你，你到底分唔分得清咩叫”可憐”，咩叫”愛”呀？咁麽如果第三者唔再可憐你的時候，你又有咩搞作呀？

klk，清醒吓啦，當出面嗰段感情係”被鬼迷”，你老婆都話對你的愛係1000%或更多，為小朋友著想，我想如果你肯的話，你哋的愛情感覺係會慢慢再培養出來的。
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lamlambaba


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發表於 05-7-11 16:56 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

男人最痛, 有"招"無用武之地! 如果moon moon是愛他的老公, 為什麼一直不願意滿足klk klk的簡單要求? 如果不愛他, 為什麼又要他回來妳身邊?

作為一個男人, 我明白klk klk在這裡說出自己的故事, 是想有人認同他出外尋找"愛" 的做法是被迫的, 是一件理所當然的事(老婆不願意做的事, 惟有找人代勞). 最初我還以為他貼錯地方, 因為這裡的文化是不容許男人有外遇, 要找知心客簡直大海撈針, 後來我才知道他是寫給他老婆看的, 但我不認為他是寫給情人看; 有緣在此看到你們故事, 我有以下建議:

1. 我不贊成你們離婚
klk klk 覺得 moon　moon 過往七年做得不好, 而klk klk最近又做了一件事傷害了moon moon, 那最好互相扯平, 從新開始.

2. 孩子是無辜的
無論你們有什麼決定, 先想想你們的子女, 他們是愛你們的, 而你們亦愛他們, 父母子女之間的愛, 很多時會比夫妻之間的愛更重要. 或者對我來說是.

3. 愛是亙動的
當你覺得對方的愛少了時, 你向對方付出的愛亦會減少, 相反亦然. 何不大家主動一點(特別是男方), 第二春不一定要他求!

我自己其實有與klk klk 的相似遭遇, 但暫時只維持了三年; 不知道會否步klk klk後塵, 其實心裡老早已有偷食的念頭, 可惜苦無良機. 經常懷住一種"妳對我不仁, 我對妳不義"的心態; "就算我出外搵食都是被迫的". klk klk 兄是否有同感? 就算做錯事都比較容易過到自己個關.
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Littleleaf


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156#
發表於 05-7-11 17:14 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

lamlambaba I think you should have read through all the discussions before you made a comment here. In klk klk's wife's statement, she has clearly told us that she was not refusing to make love with klk klk and the fact is that she did not do as good/many as klk klk expects. The reasons are that klk klk's wife needed to take care their children after work and she has been suffering pressure from her work which made her exhausted and loss of interest. In her statement, she told us that she still loves klk klk so she is willing to forgive klk klk and wants him back.

To repair and re-build a relationship, there are many ways to do "if" klk klk is willing to find ways. Unfortunately, his only way was to start a new relationship with a new lover which do you think is the only solution to solve the problems? It is obviously an excuse to klk klk and yourself, lamlambaba.
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lamlambaba


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發表於 05-7-11 17:42 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

Little leaf
In the point of view of a working mom, your comment are right. Moon moon is the victim! Her husband did something to hurt her. But if you were a man, you would understand that moon moon really gave him an excuse to have an affair.

I do not support what klk klk did but I don't blame him because he had a strong reason. As moon moon is waiting for klk klk back, we should encourage klk klk to come home and rebuild the broken relationship. Bygone is bygone. We need to forgive to have a better tomorrow!
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klk.klk


洋房

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158#
發表於 05-7-11 17:46 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

為免再有傷害，我把所有留言都刪除了！以後也不再上來！
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麟媽媽


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發表於 05-7-11 17:47 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

klk.klk,

你需要愛我明白，但你的孩子不需要嗎？一個跟你二十年的女人不需要嗎？
你現在一走了之，換來新女伴、新激情，但好爸爸從此在兒女、妻子內消失。
將來激情過後，你會發現孩子一直長大，他們的日常生活照片中你消失了，他們日常起居飲食你一概不知，值得嗎？
別想爭回仔女，你的新女伴「可憐」你，未必會「可憐」你的仔女，別相信她不會介意你買一送二，我都係女人呀！而且仔女是moon_moon的唯一全部，你諗都唔好諗！
你好好想想，回頭是岸。
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Littleleaf


民房

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160#
發表於 05-7-11 18:02 |只看該作者

Re: 老婆不愛我

lamlambaba

Sorry, I am not convinced to accept that moon moon gave klk klk an excuse to have an affair. I well understand that in a man's philosophy, when things happen, the only solution would be to find a new lover because it is a very "good" and not "strong" reason for him to go out "fever". You are part of the gang, I can tell.

We all here have tried our efforts to convince klk klk to stay with moon moon and the family (if you did read through all comments here), but unfortunately he did not listen and even did not accept our suggestions to find a social worker to help.

When someone (klk klk) makes a mistake, he will try to think of excuses for himself in order to flee from his guilty because this will make him more comfortable. That is what klk klk has been doing.

For your case lamlambaba, I would suggest you to seek advice from the social worker, it will sure be very helpful to you to repair your relationship with your wife. We do not want to see you to be the 2nd klk klk.
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