樓主,其實你係很愛你的先生所以先忍佢,等佢和幫佢咁多吧。我覺得你老公未必不愛你. He is probably just a spoiled and selfish kid (first by his parents and then u) who never had any reason to grown up.
I think u did the right thing in trying to move out but would also suggest may be taking this time to try out marriage counseling with him. Just felt it must be hard to let go something after 10 years so may be both of u deserves one final last chance to try and make it work?
I did IVF last year and found I was more emotional and need extra love from my husband during that period. Could the hormonial changes be one of the reasons u feel unhappy too?
Just one last thought, get a maid and that would make a huge difference. I would prefer going to work then doing household work anytime!