原文章由 方麗娟 於 08-7-24 00:27 發表 
- 我到而家仲未嚟m, 係咪代表冇排卵? No, don't take a chance if you don't want to have another one now. I have seen a few of moms get pregnant without planning. The fact is that it only means lower chance but not no chance if you still have no period yet. When your ovary recovers (usually takes 3 months after delivery of baby), you can be pregnant again. In the old days of my mom's generation, a lot of women had kids in consecutive years, e.g. my mom had 3 kids in 3 years.
- 餵緊人奶會唔會冇咁易受孕? Yes, less chance but does not mean no chance.
- 假如有咗bb, 會冇奶比大b食嗎? No, you can still breastfeed the older kid. Remember bf is a supply and demand issue. Some BK moms bf the older one until the 3rd trimester. But, I would not suggest that - how can you ensure that you can eat for 3? The outcome is that you are the one who is suffered the most as the nutrition goes to the babies first. One of the major problem is bone loss. That's why I needed to wean my son when I found out that I was pregnant with my daughter when he's 10 months old.
- 會不會宮縮導致小產? Not sure about that but again, you don't want to take a chance even though it's rarely happen.
- 假如有咗而又一路餵到大b, 係咪餵到咁上下(懷孕後期)就冇奶, 直到第二個b出世? Again, it's a question of demand & supply. Usually milk production may reduce after the first 6 months after your son starts to eat solid food. He need to gain nutrition from normal food, not totally depend on your milk any more. And, both of you need to have your own social life; he needs to explore his whole little world. BF is still good for his health but comparatively less important than when he's a baby. Also, you may want to prepare for the next pregnancy. So, I really don't see that it's good to keep breastfeeding when you are pregnant. Plus, it's difficult when your belly grows bigger and you need more rest in the later trimester.
Are you planning to have the 2nd one?
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