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Nillie_Mami

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發表於 05-7-25 06:28 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

各位...
我又蒲頭喇....

好掛住各位... 你哋好嗎???

muimui313,
睇咗相喇, 我諗你都check 咗email lu.. ^o^
返工我就諗起你同meeemeee, 我要0500起身, prepare, 攪掂Amanda, as fat bear bear車我返工, 個suburb治安麻麻, fat bear bear唔俾我坐subway轉船, 再轉2轉 subway 返工... 我返0700, 0600一定要出門口呢!

Minimatt, Natalie...

Happy birthday to you,
Happy birthday to you

Happy birthday to you

Happy birthday to you!!!
Hip hip hooray!

Hip hip hooray

Hip hip hooray!

Wendy,
你記住, 你有我哋啊! 你要我電話嗎? 我用verizon, 有好好minutes淨, 每日after eastern zone 3:30pm, 我放工就可以陪你傾電話... ok?

各位,
唔該-->我哋係21世紀媽咪, 個人衛生好重要, 生完BB第2,3日好沖涼喇! 好唔衛生架... 又易infection, especially係人奶媽咪, 又汗又奶, 亞B個鼻要對住你個胸同under arm, 你哋要有啲同情心啊! 而家啲人係關門沖涼架喇, 又唔係30年前要喺天井沖涼...點"攝"親呢! (我講嘢口直心快,得罪晒)

Carinamommy,
你好啲冇? 我哋有幾位BK媽咪住bay area, LA.. 你可以join 吓佢哋啲gathering呢!
阿B 1st month slim咗唔奇, depends on 你餵bottle or breast feed.. breasr feed(你自己又食得好唔好)..
first few months, 個個媽咪都anxious, 因為BB食得小, 食得密, 自已又唔知BB喊乜.. depress在所難免....
你多啲上嚟BK喇...
而我就只可以weekend上一上嚟架咋

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小肥佬

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Nillie_Mami, marble, shiba, muimui313...

THANK YOU, THANK YOU..我代mini-matt 全部收晒..

...

Natmama

我都唔知係唔係因為enfamil,所以亞仔多咗痰..但係我眼見,仲有咁多coupon,我又唔捨得掉晒佢,唔用,覺得好浪費,大大話話個度成幾十蚊架嘛..
我都唔知點解亞仔食番夜奶..唉..
不過,亞仔依家好鍾意, 張手頭上既玩具, 伸長隻手, 跟住比我哋, 我哋會同佢講" thank you." 真係睇住佢,一日一日咁長大, 開始越嚟越唔捨得,點算???????
唔好意思呀,今日無同你講msn 添,因為我二佬嚟咗,佢煮嘢比我食,我要do the dishes 呀..

Nillie

你返工返成點呀? 我個時生完,都忍唔住, 幾日沖涼啦..我老公話,如果我唔沖涼洗頭,唔好攪亞仔同佢.

肥bear bear 好鍚你呀,咁早,都肯同你出門口...

marble,

birthday card 好靚呀..多謝晒...
390 磅咋..我都講咗,mini-matt 都唔駛出塲,我兩公婆加埋,都win 你哋成條街呀..

kyle 仔, 打完針,醫生有無叫佢食藥, 怕佢發燒呀? mini-matt 每次打完, 個ped都叫佢食藥,以防萬一架..

clarab,

我哋又無諗過, 亞仔到時會發癲喎.因為佢daddy 就係一心想佢洗禮咋..我諗到時,佢daddy 會攪點佢啦..呢d嘢,唔駛我担心..但係一諗起下星期開始,我要上堂, 一星期一日, 每次一個鐘..要上足一年..唉...個主持,仲同我老公講,叫我教佢講廣東話添呀..我心諗"我怕我唔明你d英文, 教錯你咋..

"

miumiu,

都算唔係太耐咋喎..咁快就收到.我係costco 影咗passport 相.原來個size 同張form 要求既size 唔同..我要cut 細佢囉. 我老公都想大搞亞仔生日,但我怕煩嘛.都係自己屋企人就算囉..係呀,真係同小黑講啦, 要親依家抱多d Alex 仔, 好似依家咁? mini-matt 只係想係地下行爬咋.唔多肯比我抱呀.

:-( :-( :-(

shiba

你係邊度揾d圖案架? 好靚喎...

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Shiba_Inu

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Clarab and others,

"心情如何? 就生得啦!! "

I begin to get nervous ah! Too many things seem to happen/ will happen..... And I am getting busier, and foresee that I will be even much more busier after bb is born! :-( :-( :-(

Heard about my apartment story? Now we are living in UCLA 1b apt, and we apply for a 2b very early this year. Then suddenly near summer the office says that it holds our application until Oct! I kicked a fuss in the office

but it's no use. Luckily I found a friend who can rent a room for my parents during their stay. :evil:

At least now we know there is enough space for 4 adults and our bb!

Then last Friday I had a phone conversation with a lady who is reviewing my application for an audiologist license/ cert here in US. I had all the U transcripts, passed their exam etc. but I know there is one trouble: they may not take my clinical experience in HK to replace their fellowship year here (like doctors in HK need to get back their 3 yrs fellowship here!

) And last Friday she confirmed that I need to do the fellowship, most probably after my maternity leave. Then means that the coming year will be super busy, less time can be spent with bb.... :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( I still need to discuss with my boss how to arrange between his work and my fellowship req!!!! :cry:

These things... the more I think, the more nervous I get. So these 2 days I go swimming, it feels really good in the water!

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Shiba_Inu

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小肥佬寫道:
但係一諗起下星期開始,我要上堂, 一星期一日, 每次一個鐘..要上足一年..唉...

Religion has to be something from your own heart ah! I was educated in Catholic schools all the while, but I did not go to the religious classes until I was in U. At that time I felt the need myself and 上堂 was really enjoyable because it gave me enlightment! So think about it.....

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CarinaMommy

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SY_Mom,
I thought the plaza (Grand Century) that Marble mentioned was the one on Capitol and McKee. I actually live at Alum Rock and White area. Anyway, you said that your 99 is the major cause of your PPD. I think my 99 is also part the cause of my PPD. One time she saw me washing some dishes and she asked me why I didn’t wear a pair of glove and said I wasn’t suppose to TOUCH the tap water….. holy cow…. Was she out of her mind???? Didn’t she think I didn’t need to brush my teeth, wash my face, wash my hands after going to the bathroom or so on??? Didn’t she think I should use “ginger water” to do the above things??? Anyway, sometimes I just can’t do what other moms say “going in from the left ear and going out from the right ear”….. she really pissed me off.
Regarding my OB, I won’t recommend her to you as she’s not good actually. Anyway, her name is Rebecca Phan. I picked her because she said she spoke Chinese when I saw her info and she’s very close to where I live. But then, we found out that she actually didn’t speak Chinese…. Oh well, that’s not really a problem, so I just used her anyway.

Nillie_Mami,
I’m really happy that you always remember me. I think… I feel better now, only cry once a while. But when I’m crying, my tears are like pouring no matter where. Just like my husband and I went out for a lunch break (bb was with her grandparent) in a restaurant. I was crying like crazy when I told my husband that I had some conflicts deep inside my heart.
I did chat with other moms who live in my area. I know they have a gathering coming up, but I believe I’m not able to join them this time, as the day before is my bb’s 1st month old and we will go out for dinner. I don’t think it’s good for her to go out 2 nights in a row.
If I feed my bb with breastmilk by bottle, can you tell me, as her age (28 days today, around 8.5lb now), what is the suitable amount? She can normally finish 3oz breastmilk every 2.5-3 hrs. Does it sound right? As for myself, maybe because of the depression, I can’t really eat too much. I know I can eat a lot more but I just can’t.

Marble,
Oh, you mean the one on Story. I love to eat the baked pineapple custard bun at Dynasty Restaurant. Have you ever been the one in Valco Mall? The food doesn’t taste as good as the one on Story and it’s more expensive.

Leohannachan,
Have you call Todai about the free birthday meal? I’m afraid I can’t join you this time as I said that the day before is my bb’s 1st month birthday. We will go out to have dinner, so I think it’s not good for her to go out 2 nights in a row. But I really want to meet you before you leave. Hopefully, I can meet you all some time later.

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Nillie, MuiMui, Clarab,
Thanks for your support!! Sometime i dont know what to do, i will be a mother, and my husband hv 2 kids..i will be their step mom..worry! I live with his mom right now, it is very big different..in hk, eat rice everyday, but not here! No chinese market...

Nillie thanks ar...is it long call if i call u in my place? Everytime when im not happy, i will think about your story, u first time to NY..your 99...your story support me alot! Thanks!

Wendy

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Clarab

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wendyyipwy,

你而家同你個99住, 使唔使煮飯呀? 佢對你好唔好呀? 咁你唔食飯食乜呀通常? 你係咪又係飯桶呢? 唔食過飯都唔飽?

Shiba_Inu,

你唔好緊張呀, 開心D, 胎教呀, 第時個B都開心D聽話D架! 不過我呢排都幾受荷爾蒙影响, 成日睇少少感動野就喊咗出黎, 好眼淺, 真係唔掂呀!! 要改善下至得.

係啦, 呢到好多工作都唔接受係美國以外既陪訓(有冇寫錯呢?) 同埋工作經驗! 所以我頭2年真係坐係到無野做, 不過咁, 我都漸漸開始習慣游閒無所事事既生活!! (其她媽咪唔好學我咁廢, 要學就學meeemeee, Nillie咁, 揾下真銀) 哈哈哈哈!!!

小肥佬,

你係咪真? 一星期聽一次耶穌咁堅?不過都係一個鐘啫，去聽下都無壞, 咁你個肥佬睇住個仔, 你都可以當係休息下! 不過要成一年, 時間係長咗少少! 我個佬都無叫我去上堂, 可能佢自己星期日都起唔到身去返教會, 所以佢唔會迫我啦! 哈哈
我老公成日星期六日都掛住訓, 要補眠呀!!!

Nillie,

你就好啦, 揾真銀啦! 你返工返成點啫, 都唔搭下我, 同事好唔好? 環境好唔好? 你咁早起身, 記住早D訓, 唔係變咗熊貓眼!! HEHE!! 你老公真係好, 車你返工!! 開心C啦!!

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whalebb

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Clarab
老公今個星期先嚟呀
我只係近排成日係屋企煲書咪少上嚟
今日開始看心靈雞湯1-4
遲d會忙新屋d野
又要約估價師,風水師同埋裝修師傅
仲有我大女pee pee問題佢上兩個星期自已自動自覺幫自已解決了

我train佢果時死也不pee pee
咁耐佢只係"何"過2次落地下

小肥佬
我覺得每個人也有自已相信的神
要自已去真誠相信一個神是要靠自已
好似我信主是因我自已親身經歷過先信
迫人去會令人討厭
就係咁我從未叫過人去church因我信主會接觸每個人
我未信主前好多人叫我去church我"so"佢也傻
妳明白我意思嗎????

學懂凡事感恩和感謝,孩子終身受用不盡

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小肥佬

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Shiba

Thanks for telling me your story..I understand that religion can make people more moral, positive especially Christian or Catholic always advocate God makes our soul holy. To be honest with you , I heard lots of things about God before, I went to church almost once a week before mini-matt . However, the meaning of God in the bible always makes me feel confused . I've been a Buddhist for at least 25 years.. At this moment, i'm not ready to be a christian , even though I promised my husband when we were in the chapel.. I bought the book " Don't know much about the bible " on e-bay, but I've never read it, if I really go to catholic class for a year, I'm gonna read it..Anyway, I believe the existence of God, just like I believe in Budda..

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小肥佬

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Clarab

我哋唔係去個D,每星期都有個禮拜..係一星期一日, 係夜晚上架.佢同mini-matt 一起同我去架..同其他人一起上堂, 傾吓計..肥佬話, 如果我想做義工,都得...你個時有無洗禮呀? (話時話呀, 有咗亞仔之後, 我哋都小咗去church 囉,因為餵得亞仔嚟,時間,咁就嚟遲到.有好多次都make 唔到,咁就無去囉)

whalebb,

我梗係明白啦.但係我老公係咁問我, "乜你唔想死咗之後, 係埋一起嗎?"

... 我二佬,就係咁同我講"最好唔好啦." 講真, Jesus 又唔係邪教, 我真係無所謂去信佢, 或worship..但係 IT'S NOT THE TIME..

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Natmama

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Whalebb,

"Chicken Soup for the Soul" are really really good books. I got the first one as a gift in high school...really opened my eyes

Shiba,

Don't worry too much, just take one day at a time. Is there a time constraint to complete your fellowship hours? Maybe you can do them slowly.

Marble, Shiba, Nillie,

Thanks for the birthday greetings and lovely singing

I will send out her birthday pictures soon

Muimui313,

It's so weird why the Pediacare with make them hyper and pissed off...makes our life so much harder

Little Fat Man,

I got a few more coupons for the next step formula so I will probably continue to buy them to use them up. I believe they are more nutritrious than whole cow's milk...more vitamins wor :lol: :lol: Mini-Matt is a nice boy, at least he will hand you toys. Natalie will hold up her gerber puffs, tell me "ah ah" (open my mouth), pretend to feed me, and then take it away and put it in her mouth. What kind of naughty baby is that

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Marble

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

ALL :

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http://www.eastbay.com/

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Muimui,
小黑現在不黑了，他越大越似你, 好靚仔啊。你跟你老公很匹配。

For those who provided mothod for me to heal my 飛滋:
Thank you very much!!!

除了用盐的方法外(我怕痛), 我什麼都試過, 飛滋雖然未杜絕，但已沒有那麼囂張了。多謝各位!!!

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greentree

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小肥佬,
你二哥都有女朋友, 你仲介紹女孩給他？

預祝mini-matt生日快樂 !!

natmama,
Happy belated birthday to Natalie!!!
昨天我的仔第一次懂得說"驚驚", 我很開心。

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Zic

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Carinamom & Lidvia
其實我初初都想學中國人咁成個月唔沖涼,剩用薑水抺身. 但嗰晚我返到屋企(生完第3日), 就好似周身唔聚財, 頂唔順. 加上我怕下身傷口發炎, 所以就犯規囉... 我沖完覺得傷口唔痛& breast 舒服好多 (因谷奶), 所有老泥byebye, 好鬼爽, 仲感覺一世難忘

老公都唔知幾開心我嘅決定 (佢係ghostman, 初初我同佢講坐月婆唔會洗頭沖涼, 佢反應係

不過佢都好尊重我哋嘅文化, 所以

...) 後尾我同佢講 :唔得啦, 覺得自己好污糟.... 要去洗白白. 佢話我好勇敢& 聰明, 冇剩係use the old standards to live in nowadays life wor!!

但係我好曳曳, 同阿媽講話自己抺身

Carinamom,
你呢幾日好啲嗎?? 你得閒可以打俾我同我傾計 (check pm)

Lidvia,
Clarence 錫唔錫媽咪??阿仔成日蝦我

nillie,
老公終於開咗佢第一個戶口啦!!

好登佢開心因為 $$$$$$$$$ come come, YEAH!!!!:mrgreen:

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Zic

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智仔媽咪,
因為阿仔好似唔係好夠食 (佢食緊人奶), 要搜集定啲奶粉資料, 以備不時之需. 你女女食開咩牌子??點解你會俾佢食日本牌子奶粉嘅??

leohannahchan,
好呀, 如果我哋有gathering or 你嚟到ny... 我哋大家可以聚一聚...

Wendy,
你一定住得唔慣喇, 但千祈唔好唔開心, 因為your baby can get the emotion from you.. 我都好後悔, 嗰陣我成日都好忟憎, 宜家阿仔都似足我, 唉!!
check pm...我好得閒 & 同nillie 一樣好多minute 剩:mrgreen:

natmama,
你細佬嗰日都有去natalie 生日party, right?? I'm not sure, since I saw one picture has a little boy in it.

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Clarab,
你根本知道, 我PPD時, 冇你嘅支持, 可能我已經掛臘鴨喇...
我點會唔采你, 我點忙都一定睬你, Fat bear bear都要同你鬥"姪"喇!...
我上ward喇, 今日只take care 2個patients, 好easy.. full load係11-12個patients.. (CA係1:5) only, so.... 相比下, 加州工作'他調'好多...
啲病人都冇乜嘢, agency nurse就幾黑人憎... 一見poop poop 尿尿就失踪, 最終我哋同ward manager做晒.

Zic,
同ryan講" 恭喜晒"... yeah!!

各位US媽咪,
[size=small]今日Nillie媽咪滙報完畢

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Nillie_Mami

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Wendy,
Fat bear bear老公話我用手提電話打俾你會平啲, 收local call, 不如你PM你電話俾我, suggest 我幾時call 你喇...
咁可以慳唔少, 反正上網咁慢...

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Carinamommy
I did not call Todai but I forget who tell me if 4 people have dinner and the one have birthday will get free instantly. Anyway, Happy 1 month birthday to Carina and wish you guys enjoy the dinner too.
My mother came to help me after I delivered Chloe and she also said the same thing like your MIL. I got so annoyed too cause she kept remainding me not to take shower, not to touch water....e.t.c
So, I can understand your situation cause I felt so restricted by my own mom. But now when I think back, I know she is caring about me and so I guess your MIL also want to protect you...Anyway, you will free like a bird after tomorrow and you can jump into the water or wash the dishes as much as you want

(Free from Sitting Moon lor!!)
Wish can see you and Carina soon!!

Lidvia
I will defintely miss you and Carinamommy this time but wish to see you guys next time la...
We can have Dim Sum on Dynasty in weekend if you and Carinamommy are ok. Then we can visit Marble cause she live close to Dynasty.

zic
Yes...I am looking forward to join you guys. By the way, You look great in the pictures!!