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發表於 07-6-27 21:01 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Just came back from a trip and was still trying to catch up!
Venus & Kelly, you're in my prayer. Thanks God that you have strong faith in HIM! Hope that his grace and mercy will lead you through these difficult times.
lic9: Take care! If you have asthma, will you still consider "Vaginal Delivery"? My friend also suffers from asthma and I recall during her prenancy, her doctor suggested her not to choose "vaginal delivery" coz it was quite dangerous for both the mother and the baby.

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YimYee

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發表於 07-6-27 21:57 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Hi all sisters,

I was very upset about Kelly and Venus' incident, I felt so bad that I did not know what to say. The only thing I can do is keeping you two in my prayers, hope our holy spirit will lead us to go through the valley. Kelly, hope you can have a smooth operation tomorrow, very glad to hear that your son is getting much better, especially in this difficult time.

We share, pray and support for each others, come and join us!
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主辦：香港教會更新運動
對象：經長時間等候生育，經歷懷孕困難的女性（已信主或未信主均可）
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發表於 07-6-27 22:11 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

YimYee, lic9,smileynemo, grace

thanks for your prayers!

Thanks God the the interview date can be changed to 7 july. i started to nervous about this.

Let's keep a close relationship with our Lord. He will provide us and give us at the best time.

gan ba de all sisters!

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發表於 07-6-27 22:29 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Kelly,
感謝主！主真係利害，看似冇可能的事就變為可能，因主喜悅妳和丈夫一起去夫婦營！

我兒子已經7歲啦！

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meimei223

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發表於 07-6-28 00:04 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Sisters,I really feel upsat & get lost. Before I really believe Jesus just supporting me, after so many difficuty from ectopic pregnancy, 2nd times IVF, and even my husband also want to divorce with me due to my infertility. Before i think if I pray to God, he finally will listen to me. But now, i think he seems not listen to me. I feel it is too bad to think about it, but I really don't know how to tell myself, why God give that much painful to me, my tolerance is not that much. How can I really become a good Christian even though that I have encountering that much painful.

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pigpiglau

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發表於 07-6-28 06:08 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Hi meimei223, I feel terribly sorry to hear what you have been through. Infertiliity issue and your husband reaction about it. Hitting you hard and sore. I know I am in no position to say that things will be alright, but I am sure God loves you and he cares about you. It would be a good idea to talk to someone in church that's close to you or talk to the elder/ Pastor in church. They can pray for you and that will give you more strength. And may God gives you the strength and understanding, and wisdom to handle the situation with your husband. I am praying for you now and will keep praying for you.

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發表於 07-6-28 11:29 |只看該作者

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發表於 07-6-28 12:37 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

meimei223,

明白你現處於困境,人所能做到的,實在沒有甚麼可跨口,我亦不懂說甚麼才好,不過,你即管將你的憂慮說給神聽,祂會為你開路的。

各位:

這個星期真的很難過,似乎沒有甚麼希望似的,我覺得神就是要我經歷祂,我不知道將有何結果,我能做的,只有祈禱,求神給我一條我承受得來的路。

休養生息中。

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GraceLui

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發表於 07-6-28 13:41 |只看該作者

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GraceLui

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發表於 07-6-28 13:44 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

meimei223,

看到你的分享很感受你的傷痛, 但你要堅強, 要靠主, 神知道你的情況, 多些為這事向神傾訴, 都可向教會的牧者或知心的姊妹分享你的難處, 神會開出路. 不育令我們很大壓力, 你都可以多些上來bk分享. 我記得我跟你差不多時間做ivf, 我都經歷了很多的失敗, 亦很灰心, 今次FET成功了但很快就小產了, 我都唔明白神的心意, 唔知到底我能否有機會做媽媽, 不育令我有時唔想見人, 唔想返教會, 但我知神唔想我這樣, 所以你都一樣, 要靠主得力. 禱告記念你.

venus,

無論最後的結果如何, 求主給你力量經過, 好好休息, 保持愉快的心境, 繼續前行. pray for you.

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meimei223

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發表於 07-6-28 14:51 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Thanks Grace, Venus, Pigpig. Thanks for your supporting words, many people are suffering illness & families problems, not only me.

I think I might still too young on spirit life. Don't know how to tell God, how to read God's message. Thus, always use my own thinking to explain. Last night, after I wrote the message & I went back to bed and read Bible. It told me "Can't Give up God",
if u pray for fish, he won't give u scropio. If you pray for eggs, wouldn't give up rocks. Somethings about it. Also, something about if he don't give me now, must have something better to give me later.Then I felt much more peaceful and have a good sleep afterward.

I think i really need God's support, I can't rely on myself's ability to do IVF and arrange my own road.
Yes, we can't give up God's love. No matter how hard the road will be.

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bobochow

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發表於 07-6-28 15:31 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

meimei223,
So sad to hear your situation. For our infertility , it is very difficult to 渡日 and one question will always come out " Why me ? Why me ?" :-( :-(
But, we must have faith in God, HE will give us the best. Trust in HIM la.
"勝敗不在乎你們,乃在乎神" 代下20:15
Dear Venus and other sisters,
我們要倚靠神,宣告衪的能力,衪的榮耀就在我們當中彰顯,叫我們靠衪得勝. Amen !!!
bobochow

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發表於 07-6-28 19:05 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

meimei223

shall remember u in my prayers. Trust in God. He will lead your way

all
back home for two hrs. thanks God that He is with me . i feel dizzy and vomit twice after the operation. i feel better now. hope strength back soon.
my husband start to get cold. he is very weak . and he will be alright to go to couple camp with me

thanks sister.

venus.
i know it's not easy to wait. hope time files and u know what will do next . pray for u

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YimYee

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發表於 07-6-29 09:57 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Hi Meimei,

Very sorry to hear your situation, a lot of sisters here have been trying for a long time, I have been trying for 4 years. Don't give up, I know it is heart breaking. Do you have any Christian friend whom you can talk to? Is your husband a Christian? Have you prayed together for this matter? Having BB is matter of both of you. It is no good if you are the only one facing it.

Kelly, How's your feeling today?

Venus, any update of your BB situtaion.

Chibihamu, Don't be too upset, pray for you, will you try IUI again? Will you try ivf too?

Ksorange, thanks for your sharing, actually, I am thinking the same, what is the max times for myself to try the ivf, i know it is not good to have so many hormone injections too...

Birdyfan, have not heard anything from you for sometime.

pigpiglau, any update of your situtation?

About myself, I have booked Dr Tung in the Union hospital to take second opinion in mid July, to see when I should start the new cycle of ivf. As I have the records there, the nurse did not regard me as a new case, so I do not have to wait for a few months. However, I do not want to do the dr visit in the hopistal again, coz they are too busy, eveyrtime I had to spend more than two hours to finish one visit, most of the time is waiting. I want to go to her own clinic in Shatin, any sister is now seeing Dr Tung? any commets?

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發表於 07-6-29 12:31 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

YimYee,

直到今如,我知道我沒有甚麼可以做,以往每做一件事,都會在我的控制之內,但今次卻不是,這可算是我有生之來,最困難/最難過的時刻。

其實沒有甚麼新進展,一切都要等到今個星期日覆診,唯一的安慰是再沒有流啡或流血的情況,可能是安胎藥的關係。但沒有流啡/流血也不等如一切安好,因為很多小產的case都沒有流啡/流血。我固然希望有奇蹟發生,但我又怕bb發展得咁慢,將來會有甚麼問題呢?我老公說,若過到這關,這個bb將來一定多災多難,我很怕呢!同樣,若bb過不到這關,亦會令我心痛,所以很矛盾,現在我與老公向神的祈禱,是求神給我們和bb一條好的出路。

另一樣令我安慰的,是我可以每晚和老公一起祈禱,這是我們以往想做,即使做亦不長久的事情,希望這個習慣可以一直保持落去。雖然我有要好的朋友和同事,但我都不想講,因為太多未知數,講得太多,日後便要解釋更多。所以現在我常與老公分享感受,他是我如今可以分享、倚靠的人,感謝神,我有這位老公。

休養生息中。

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發表於 07-6-29 12:41 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Yimyee,希望dr tung幫到你。

kelly,好好保重身體,神必與你同在。

其他姊妹,繼續努力,神有祂的時間。

休養生息中。

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發表於 07-6-29 12:47 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Yimyee,希望dr tung幫到你。

kelly,好好保重身體,神必與你同在。

其他姊妹,繼續努力,神有祂的時間。

休養生息中。

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lic9

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發表於 07-6-29 13:01 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Kelly﹕好好休息。在夫婦營願有更多得著。仔仔的interview，順利、平安﹗

venus﹕加油呀﹗常掛住你呢﹗

yimyee﹕平安﹗祂在看顧﹗

meimei﹕神的話確是滿有力量。

姊妹們，不要放棄，因祂從沒放棄我們﹗

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發表於 07-6-29 13:07 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

yimyee , venus, lic9, ruthcsp, grace and all

thanks. i'm doing okay today, lo yeah helped me to take care my son.
e c asked me not to stand too much. thanks God that give me a very caring e c.

venus
God knows our needs. i feel good to hear that u & your husband's relationship get better . it's very nice.
no matter what the result on this Sun .hope u'll have strong faith in Him. keep praying for u

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