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發表於 07-6-29 15:49 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

下星期四會到威記，應該會報d產前班上下，同埋呢排條氣唔係幾好，可能都會比醫生叫我睇埋威記胸肺科卦......都好o既﹗有充足準備，我仍然希望順產呢﹗

8月頭就會去私家照4D，希望一切順利啦﹗

最近日子不錯，自有小b之後，和老公常一起祈禱讀經，好感恩﹗亦為著生小b的過程祈禱，希望神有最適合的安排。

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YimYee

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發表於 07-6-30 00:38 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

This evening my husband and I went to see the Chinese ec, this was our 3rd visit, this ec is introduced from my friend who got pregrenant after seeing her for 4 months, she told me that she is a very honest dr, if she cannot help you, she will let you know, will not give you unrealistic hope. Today, she said to me, after going through all the reports I gave her, she said it is very little she can do to help my husband's sperms quality. For my side, as I am still young, she can still prescribe medicine to help me. However, she warned us not to put too much hope on the ivf treatment, she is just afraid that our embryo quality will not be very good, even I could get pragnant, I might misscariage later.

She did say, just do whatever we have planned to do, about the result, just leave it to God. It was quite unexpected for me that she would say that. I had tears in my eyes when she was explaining the situation. Both my husband and the ec tried to comfort me a bit, she whispered to me saying that your husband cares you a lot, don't give too much pressure to both of us, especially to my husband.

Venus, I feel the same as you, trying to have Bb is 我有生之來,最困難的時刻。However, I thanks God for giving me a very considerate and caring husband.

Pls pray for my husband, I think what the doctor said is true, he might feel much pressure, but he just does not say.

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哈拿小組　
主辦：香港教會更新運動
對象：經長時間等候生育，經歷懷孕困難的女性（已信主或未信主均可）
日期：每月第二個週六2:00 pm – 4:00 pm

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Gracesywong

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發表於 07-6-30 01:35 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

lic9,
Thanks for your updates, glad to know that everything goes well with you, we really need your good news to cheer us up!

Kelly,
Will pray for you and your husband, hope you both can enjoy a very good time in the camp and your parents-in-law can take care of your son well! Don't worry and enjoy, trust in God.

Venus,
求主堅固妳和丈夫的心，繼續每晚能一起禱告！真好！
有時我都感到慚愧，雖丈夫是傳道人但我們都沒有一起禱告（因他都很忙，常很夜才回來）。

Meimei,
看完妳的分享心裡感到難過，求主安慰妳的心。
願主祝福妳和丈夫之間的關係，因最重要是夫婦之間能互相體量和明白對方的感受。

YimYee,
希望您們都不會感到太大的壓力！盡力但順其自然啦！
Can you pm your Chinese ec to me? Is she a Christian?

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pigpiglau

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發表於 07-6-30 02:48 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Kelly, glad to hear that you are doing well there. Hope your husband be all good before going to the couple camp.

Meimei223, been thinking about you too. Hope you are coping well there. And God gives you all you need for this situation.

Venus, do you have sore/swelling breast? (sorry for asking that, might be too much information) but I remember that when I had miscarriage, this kind of symptom disappear quite quickly. Although we can't be sure but there is always hope. I understand that your worry that the baby will have problem. We pray that God will give you the best. IF baby survive, then he/she is going to be healthy. Are you due for another scan soon? Keep praying for you.

Lic9, thx for your encouragement ! Praying for you as well.

YimYee, sorry to hear the comment from the Chinese EC. I thought with IVF, the best active sperm is chosen?! Sorry I don't have any experience with IVF, but I always thought that IVF can scan bad quality egg/ sperm. And can even test for gene. And there is always 25% success rate?? Correct me if I am not correct. I watched the programme by 鏗鏘集 and it kinda mentioned that there. But what the EC said, leave it to the hands of God is very encouraging indeed.

Grace, how are you doing?

In him,

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發表於 07-6-30 09:18 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

pigpiglau,

你說得很對,這個星期開始,我的胸再沒有之前咁墜,無了之前漲的感覺,但我老公說仍然是大的。不過,很奇怪,我仍然有分泌,且小腹下好似有番少少感覺。我有時都會被這個徵狀的感覺困擾,但我老公話,我們的信不能因為這些symptom,這可能是神要我們學習的,不能倚靠這些symptom.明天早上10:56am會見醫生,現在我真的沒有甚麼可以做,前幾日還上網找資料,現在真的放手了,當然我還會想,得定唔得呢?而老公說,他已經放手,神會給我們合適的路。

yimyee,

不要氣餒,只要做你所能做的,無論是甚麼結果,你總算做過,之後不會後悔,而神亦會為你開一條你能承受的路的。

休養生息中。

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發表於 07-6-30 09:25 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

還有一個很特別的symptom,就是成日打乞痴,一日都有四、五個架!我老公都話我打乞痴比以前多了很多呢!

休養生息中。

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twiggyland7

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發表於 07-6-30 11:10 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

請問基督徒係咪唔可以去睇八字架?

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smileynemo

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發表於 07-6-30 11:20 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

YimYee, sad to hear the comments from the doctor. We are just human and we all have limitations. But don't forget our God that he is mighty! Let him lead us during these hard times and he will arrange the best for us. Will pray for you.

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發表於 07-6-30 11:46 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

twiggyland7,

基督徒當然不可以去睇八字啦!神亦不喜歡我們拜偶像,求神問卜,我們相信神是全知的,除祂以外,別無拯救,無人有能力告訴我們未來。我們要信靠祂,祂便會指引我們的路向。

休養生息中。

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meimei223

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發表於 07-6-30 13:52 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Thanks all of you, after I have wrote message here, I felt recovered my confidence. Since God really told me alot from the bible during these two days. I think God really want to guide me to walk a best way. Even thought I said I rely on Him. But in fact, I really only rely on myself. During IVF, before the preg. testing day, I kept testing at home by myself. Let myself extremely stress. Now, I will try to relax and try to understand God's message.

YimYee, don't upsat, my husband also have some problem on sperm(activability & structure), but before I also can fertilized many eggs (retrieved 13 eggs & fertilized 9), the grading is not too bad, 5 grade 2 and 3 grade 2-. Yes, because they will use the ICSI technology to filter those bad sperms. Just keep yr health in the best conditions. I haven't take care myself after last IVF, too upsat la. But now I will start my spirit again, sisters, we can coping with those difficulties and reach our final goals. I will try my best no matter how difficult the road is. The most important is I will follow God's instruction, not myself.

Before I have attend church, after last IVF, we didn't go anymore. But I will encourage my husband to go with me. In fact, my husband are back to normal and treat me well. Just everytimes I failed from IVF, he seems can't accept this fate and very angry, didn't talk with me. Totally became another person. But as i remember from Church's brother, he told me that I should always consider from his side. After I told my husband I understand his feeling and told him not upsat(normally I must very angry and argue with him), but now I became more gentle from my words.

Thus, the relationships up until now is still ok, just sometimes I think too negative. I will control myself not doing so.

U know as I went to see a chinese Dr. , he told he that my infertility is not due to my health, is due to my home's "Fung Sheung" is not good, espcially my bed. Before I am so scare and want to see "Fung sheung" immediately. But as I know I am a christian, I shouldn't believe that.

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Gracesywong

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發表於 07-6-30 15:32 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

meimei223,
Glad to know that you have more confident with God now and the situation is better than before. The most important is that you consider to go back to Church. 主喜悅我們多去敬拜祂！要記住我們的神是獨一的真神，祂不喜歡我們去睇風水，因那些全部都是撒但的謊言。

求主繼續祝福妳和妳丈夫，願您們都更懂得去互相體諒，關係越來越好，有更多愛在您們中間，放手將一切交給主，主必為您們預備最好的。

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pigpiglau

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發表於 07-6-30 18:43 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Hi Venus, praying hard for you, no matter what's the result, you have the strength to keep going. Thanks God that you have such a caring and considerate husband.

MeiMei, glad to hear from you and knowing that you and your husband are doing well put a smile on my face. <Just burnt my bread as I was typing this....hehe...> Going to church together is great for couple's relationship. Keep that going. And sometimes, man is actually weaker than woman and need a lot of supports from us. It is good that you have find the way to rebuild your relationship. God will guide you all the way. Trust in him.

In him, Karen

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meimei223

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發表於 07-6-30 22:42 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Thanks Gracesy and pigpiglau. Sorry for your bread, he he. Sometimes human is really weak, if no others' support will walk even harder. Everything seems clear now, my private hospital just called me told me more details about the remaining embryos' situation. I am thinking to give up these two embryos due to the situation is not so well and if I do the frozen eggs transfer need to pay around $25000 and the chance is small. If I start another new cycle from Yan on, it only cost me about $50000, but have much higher chance. Sisters, do u think I can give up these embryos? or God doesn't allow us to do so?

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birdyfan

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發表於 07-6-30 23:02 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Sry for a long while w/o leave any message, cuz bit upset w/sisters news and don't know what to say!
I met the doc yesterday but he can find anything wrong from my report. So he'll let me book a scan of womb & fallopian tubes to c what's wrong w/me. I'm quite wry of it, pls help pray for me!

Kelly, Thanks God u r fine home after the op, pls take good rest to let yr body fully recover for next try. Yr faith in God really teach me a lot. Tks.
Venus, Can pray w/hb everynite that's so so great, thanks God. Pls takecare yrself & baby no matter what. God will know what's best for u.
Lic9, Thanks God yr message is so impressive. Thanks so much. Hope u & baby will both lovely & healthy.
YimYee, Sry for yr ec's comment. yr ec is right, yr hb is sweet, so u should treat him better! ;) We can't do anything w/pregnant, that's treasure from God but good hb is another treasure from God. Once we get it, must keep it as best as we can!

Grace, How r u? God really lead us all our way. We can feel & thanks God in no time.
Meimei, hope God will let u know what's the best way for u. Let's depend on God more.

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birdyfan

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發表於 07-6-30 23:10 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Pigpiglau,
I sent u 2 e-mail already. Can u read them?

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YimYee

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發表於 07-7-1 14:43 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Grace,

I have sent you PM, pls check.

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發表於 07-7-1 14:46 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

各位:

我想,我應該是小產了,剛去完覆診,bb size無變,但醫生叫我要驗血確定,還叫我星期三去覆診。

我估這位醫生太「謹慎」了。我想入醫院處理左佢。

我睇番我的保險,原來不包括小產的手術,我不想再花錢了,想去公立醫院做刮宮。但現在我沒有醫生信,我應怎樣才能入醫院做手術呢?

休養生息中。

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pigpiglau

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發表於 07-7-1 18:16 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Hi Venus,

Terribly sorry to hear the news. Praying for you and your husband. Have the strength and peace disregard from the difficult situation.

Your Dr. sounds very 「謹慎」, agreed. About going to public hospital, can you go to your own GP (not specilist one, like normally you see for common cold), and tell him/her that you have a miscar. and asked for a referral letter? OR go straight to emergency room and tell them your situation? Just some suggestions because I don't really know the system in HK, but here, we can do like that.

Birdyfan, didn't received your e-mails .... perhaps I have given you the wrong address. I have send you pm instead.

And meimei, I have pm you also.

Yimyee, how are you keeping there?

How's everyone else?

Due to see my dr. coming Friday. Will know what's next.

Catch up again.

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Kellyaugust2004

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發表於 07-7-3 14:04 |只看該作者

dear all
i'm back yesterday evening. can't login BK and didn't get use to this new format.
venus
miss u and pray for u alot. how 's the check up yesterday?

have lunch now. talk later

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