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男爵府

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發表於 05-7-30 14:23 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

小肥佬, 你成日要捉mini-matt, 真係夠哂運動量. 我同小黑講左, 當亞歷仔識行時, 個仔就由佢全權負責, 帶亞仔去行去跑,


洋房

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1662#
發表於 05-7-30 14:53 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

mui_mui:
Yea!! we need each others' support as a working mom, BTW, I received your family photos, very nice pictures, thanks for sharing. Good that you have selected couple posts. We brought our boys to studio when they were younger (and that was the only time), and they were not in mood at that moment, they cry, and looks very nervous in all pictures, and of course no simile. We really cannot select any picture from the set, so we only get 1 post.

Natmama,
Our nanny is a live out nanny. My husband and I prefer to have the privacy, we are not used to have an extra person living with us, and we don't like the feeling of being "watched". Therefore, we choose to have a live out nanny.

My boys are sharing the same room with 2 cribs side-by-side, so they can entertain each other when awake. They seems to like the arrangement, I guess it is because they are so used to each other.


複式洋房

積分: 396


1663#
發表於 05-7-30 21:09 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

leohannahchan,
如果你有見到我宜家個樣 :lol: 俾阿仔玩殘... 你個女女乖唔乖??

shiba,
嗰日去過babiesrus, 佢冇sign話sales. 但望真啲, 如來都有特價嘢掃. 我用咗coupons, 慳咗$25!!!!!!!!! (因可以一齊用manufacturer coupon & babierus coupon. Greentree 教路 :mrgreen: ) 買diaper 好抵!!!!! 所以你要join babiesrus & pampers & huggies... .... ... 咩會都join 啦, many coupons, 發達啦 連老公都叫我 keep going, save as much as coupons you can!!!

特別你買crib, carseat, stoller... 價錢咁貴, 一定會有折啦, 可慳唔少 w/ coupons

Lidvia,
clarence 咁錫媽咪, 仲咁細心&體貼,抵讚!! 阿仔剩係識step 我肚腩& 大脾. 因佢要練腳力 佢超級active... 成日手腳一齊嚟, 我有時都
老公唔係身邊, 你辛唔辛苦?? 冇人幫手揍仔, 又要自己做晒所有嘢.

carinamom,
終於放監
happy birthday to your lovely girl !
you seems more happy now :-P

wendy,
你屋企有冇電飯煲??無可以去target買, 再唔係online purchase... 廿幾蚊咁上下...
我以前住山卡啦地方嗰陣, 都係無啖好食... 日日食豬扒, pasta, mash potato, 沙律...初初都好頂唔順, 啲嘢有唔係新鮮, 有冇魚 & 菜食, 好唔慣...但住咗幾個月之後,都無晒感覺lu, 因為唔晒自己煮, 食得飽就算...
99都有教我用焗爐, 不過我覺得時間太耐, 好煩...但其實鬼佬嘢又好鬼易整, 買樽醬, 買盒seasoning, 跟住個包裝上instructions就搞掂.

muimui,
阿仔成日要attention! 佢坐係個swing到, 我上網. 佢aaaaaaaaa 我呀, 又扮喊. 我一望住佢, 佢就即刻笑 我食飯就即醒, 唔俾我食. 好攰, 冇晒精神, 真係佩服你,仲可以返埋工!

pink0325,
welcome! welcome!
我之前去過 D.C., 住喺朋友到. 所以介紹唔到地方俾你住...
不過你一定要去 "Archives of the United States"... 因為裡面有 REAL copy of (1) Declaration of Independence, (2) Bills of Rights, (3) the Consitutions.... 仲可以見到華盛頓嘅簽名...入到去, 個氣氛真係好正... 唯一一次覺得very proud to be an american (which always contradicts to my belief).
買個 local 地圖 (會show有邊到可以visit 嗰隻) visit嘅景點都係集中埋一堆o架...又可以塔subway. 又好易認路, 全部街都係數目字 + 英文字母.


複式洋房

積分: 396


1664#
發表於 05-7-30 22:05 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

shiba,
1) 我用緊avent手泵, 幾舒服,又方便. 因唔晒換樽, 泵完即餵, 不過我覺得你用電泵好啲 (i) 你要返工, (ii) 有時我都泵到手攰. (but I don't know what brand is good for electric one, sorry!)

2) 要sterilizer, 因bb都要用樽飲水嘛 (some dr. suggests 2 / 3 months 先俾bb飲水). 而且可以臨瞓前sterilize定聽日嘅樽. 我冇用bottle warmer, 因埋身位多.

3) 最好用即棄, 方便 & 衛生. 我用個好多隻唔同牌子嘅nursing pad... johnsons, avent, lansinoh, gerber (super absorb)... 個人認為都係 lansinoh & gerber 最好. (i) 獨立包裝 (ii) 吸得好澈底 (iii)個pad好大塊, 啱啱fit 晒個nursing bra 到, 唔會走位.
我一開始都用super absorb. 初初都唔知, 求其買... 但後尾發覺冇買錯. 因我初初頭兩個星期, 成日流奶, 日流夜流. 成日都要換pad. (因個breast 做得太多奶, 仲成日谷到個石頭咁, 辛苦!!)

4) Nipple cream: 你生完, 醫院應會俾支sample你, 冇就問lactaction consultant 攞. 都可以去rite-aid, cvs 到買. 牌子係 lansinoh, 紫色嘅 (p.s. 其實唔晒買, 因sample已夠用, just in case)
***nillie教我話每次餵完奶, "節"少少奶嚟揸番落個nipples到, 你會見到有層膜封實nipples. 好work o架, nipples會冇咁易裂 & 舒服好多.

希望幫到你啦!


cuttima,
我哋啱啱嗰2個weekends都唔得閒, 所以冇約到你去見baby...下星期六/日(aug 6/7)邊日得閒啲??


複式洋房

積分: 396


1665#
發表於 05-7-30 22:37 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

又係 for Shiba,
你睇下nursing bra 裡面有冇多一塊布, 有啲bra有, 有啲冇. 我有用nursing bra+ pad. 因為唔鍾意濕住 & stick 住nipples.
BREASTFEED, 我支持你!!!!!!!!!!
俾你講中, 真係所有內臟大移位.所以要坐月坐好啲!!
你對手係咪可以放係肚上邊托住呢??

whalebb,
做咩咁唔開心呀?? 係唔係好耐冇見到老公, 一見到佢就唔慣?? 唔好咁啦, 放鬆心情, 再唔係睇下韓在可個樣啦.

natmama,
加油!!就嚟成功o架啦!!

muimui,
你老公都sweet o架!! 因為我相信個instructor剩係叫佢買禮物,冇叫佢買card... 拿! 連card都有, 仲咁有心機寫晒啲甜言呀蜜語咁, 真係好認真o架. 而且仲記得你大肚鍾意食朱古力. 所以唔好覺得"行"貨噃! :mrgreen:

各位,
呢咗美國差唔多一年, 莫講話寫, 連講嘢都開始有問題,啲表達能力非常非常差, 所以大家有咩睇唔明竟就出聲.
仲話搞阿仔中文, 真有啲擔心


別墅

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1666#
發表於 05-7-31 00:35 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

各位


近來少上bk,都追唔晒你哋添 ...原因係,我開始做回mini-matt 真正既煮飯婆. 日頭, 煮粥或飯比佢當lunch 同dinner食. 又唔想成日困住佢係個寵,話晒佢都叫做識行,唔想無晒佢d活動空間..所以上網既時間都少咗lu.. :-(


natmama,

以前亞仔每一次喊,真係好心痛.但係佢近嚟晚晚都torture 我哋,攪到我唔比佢喊番一餐,好似唔對得住自己咁. 但係你諗吓之後,你哋一家就有好日子過,就會好狠心都做得出..可惜,mini-matt 比佢喊咗兩晚,佢既態度照舊..唉..
我終於係禽日同亞仔係target 買咗對sandals (cheeokee) 呀. 減價,連埋稅,都係 5 個幾咋..初初比mini-matt 試著,佢好似唔敢舉起隻腳行咁.買咗返屋企, 比佢practise 吓,佢就行啦..佢都要著成 size 6..係岩岩好個隻..想買size 7,又好似太大咁...唔想佢一開始,著得咁大,反而行得唔好..


miumiu,

依家亞仔識行, 真係好似睇牛咁睇.當我上網,放佢係我間房,或佢間房,佢會周圍攪嘢, 又會由佢間房行去個kitchen.每打一行字,就要捉佢一次..真係好攰,無乜心機打字架.
你老公咁好既,肯同你睇仔..我嗰個,同佢玩,就得, 一見亞仔發癲,就狂叫我, 比番我,有時嬲起上嚟, 唔鬼睬佢架,仲唔駛幾借咗矓耳陳對耳呀..


Shiba_inu

我都係用電動既 evenflo ,我覺得ok 囉..不過,又真係幾嘈吓. 我又係好似miumiu 咁,咁耐以嚟, 都無蒸或烚過奶樽.只係開恒熱水洗奶樽, 一個字囉" lazy"..同埋個時,成日餵人奶, 亞仔個時又唔係咁肯用bottle, 多數都係埋身餵...
係喎, 我之前買咗隻celine dion 既 miracle (因為我鍾意聽佢既歌), 入面係佢唱bb既歌,都唔錯, 我可以copy 一隻比你, 下次出嚟,我比埋你呀..好唔好? :mrgreen:

zic,

你講得岩, 我好多中文字,都唔記得點寫..我同clarab 上msn 講嘢,我有d字,都係同音就算, 唔正確既寫法.因為實在諗嚟諗去, 都唔記得點寫..


whalebb


仲乜嘢呀..唔好咁唔開心啦, 如果你鍾意,你可以隨時call 我啦.."屎"係無用架, 都唔好成日諗呢個字, 要努力呀.肥佬有時都激到我好嬲, 但係我都無諗過要"屎屎", 乜嘢都有解決既方法..記住,得閒call 我啦.

pink0325

hi, nice to meet you, 唔好介意我的"遲來既welcome"..
我個仔同natmama 個女,咁上下大, 佢下星期一就 1-year-old 啦..

Lidvia

多謝你既意見呀..亞仔可能仲細,叫極都係一樣, 但係我會試吓囉.有次佢想攪我chicken嘢, 我喝佢 "no,no", 佢都hesitate 一 吓,就走開咗..但係佢一見到佢既至愛, remote, 一攞到,就即刻走人, 驚屎我同佢搶咁..

sy_mom,'

多謝你既greeting. 代mini-matt 收加送出"kiss kiss".
我老公就想同埋佢d 朋友攪大去, 但係我唔想煩,所以聽日只會同佢亞哥一家,同埋我亞哥係個beach 度 celebrate 囉.都唔會好大攪囉..

greentree

你仔仔點呀? 亞仔依家好鬼馬..我一放佢入自己房,好似同我鬧快咁,衝番出個房,之後,就行去kitchen..咁佢行到kitchen 門口, 就寧轉頭望住我,咁我就大叫" mini-matt, 過嚟,過番嚟." 咁佢大多數都會走番轉頭,唔入kitchen 既..
又鬼屎咁鍾意張佢房入面既公仔, 一隻隻咁攞嚟我間房,之後,就走人,有時都會攞比我既. :mrgreen:


別墅

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1667#
發表於 05-7-31 00:48 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

各位,


今日係小肥佬個daddy, 大肥佬生日, ...係我之前個ex-gf 打比佢, 同佢say 句happy birthday.我叫佢如果你鍾意,你可以打番比佢, 同佢講"thank you." 我老公話"你唔驚 ? " 我話"唔驚,初初就話會jealous, 但係依家都知你心目中,邊個係最重要, 同埋最緊要唔好忙記邊個係最愛." 咁我就係咁指主個電腦, mini-matt 既screen saver 既 一張張唔同年紀既相..咁佢就笑咗出嚟.. 到最後,佢都無call番佢..

我係唔係好大方呢?

不過, 比佢話q 我, 話我身為佢wife ,都唔同佢講一句happy birthday, 無禮物不特止,仲要叫佢睇仔..


別墅

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1668#
發表於 05-7-31 02:26 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Muimui313, Zic,

Thank you for your encouraging words. Yesterday wasn't so bad becuz I was tired and napped with her on "ta ta mi". Last night, we did a mini celebration for her since it was her actual birthdate so she was tired from playing with the family and fell asleep while on the bottle We'll see how she behaves tonight

Little Fat Man,

Applause for your open-mind I would have done the same if my hubby's ex called him. It's better to be "big square"...then jealous. This is what the "dai por" does...hahahah...especially u have bb in hand :lol: :lol: :lol: I need to get Natalie another pair of sandals. I can see her toes touching the front already. I think she is size 5 now ...need to check. But bad girl for not remembering ur hubby's birthday wor

Junw,

I'm so happy to know that you have a live-out nanny. Do you think the work in the evening is difficult? I'm just worried if Natalie doesn't behave well at night, then I'll be in big trouble waking up next morning. Does your live-out nanny take care of bb sitting, cooking, and cleaning? Is there anything that she doesn't do compared to a live-in? Do you feel comfortable leaving the twins with her while you leave the house? Sorry so many questions...I really need some advice from experienced friends :-P :-P :-P Since your twins' beds are side-by-side, I wonder if the one who wakes up first will call the one who's still asleep...hehehe


複式洋房

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1669#
發表於 05-7-31 03:00 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

小肥佬,
當你同老公講完生日快樂, 再幫我補句啦!! mini-matt同爸爸咁近一齊生日, 咁順利成章, 生日禮物就係: "登..登.. mini-matt 啦, 件生日禮物仲識發聲&郁. 你話爽唔爽 " 話晒你咁辛苦,由大肚到開刀, 先生到阿仔噃...
希望你哋一家人開開心心 咁慶祝啦!
happy birthday to mini-matt and big-matt from LANDOLT Family!!
話時話mini-matt叫佢daddy做咩?? 我有問過ryan, 應叫佢做daddy / 爸爸?? 佢話冇所謂, 但我宜家都唔知用邊個好
你咁俾心機煮飯仔俾mini-matt, 抵讚. 繼續啦, 我支持你!!


民房

積分: 26


1670#
發表於 05-7-31 06:50 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Shiba_Inu,
1. What brand of electric pump u use? Do u find it good?
我o個陣時同醫院租o左個 electric pump,其實我都唔係用o左好耐(大約1.5啦!) ,Clarence 一出生己經好硬頸,我試o左好多次埋身喟佢都唔肯飲,佢仲同我鬥大力想推開我,之後我咪為有 pump 出o黎比佢飲o羅!唔知係咪頭一個月太辛苦啦!我次次 pump 完奶都會天旋地轉、面青唇白,我 hubby 見到我次次 pump 完都好似剩低半條人命,佢就叫我唔好 pump 得咁密,可能因為咁我好快就冇奶啦!
:-( :-(

2. Do I need to buy bottle sterilizer and bottle warmer? Or do u think "old grandma method" (ie. use hot/ warm water) still works?
我用 Especially for Baby Steam Sterilizer,而奶樽我用過幾種牌子 (avent, pigeon 同 mother care) ,Clarence 比較麻煩!唔係個個brand 都肯用

3. How about nursing pad? How much for the "intial start"? & 4. Nipple cream? What brand is good?
hehehe 因為醫院有派比我,所以我冇買。
你會唔會去上D產前講坐?

[img align=left]http://lilypie.com/pic/050706/94aef5c.jpg[/img]


民房

積分: 68


1671#
發表於 05-7-31 11:05 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Zic,
Thank you. I really feel better (mentally) now. But, even 終於放監, sometimes I feel not very comfortable going out…. my husband wants to go out with me and let me relax, and leave bb to 99 to take care, but I always miss her…. always want to go home as soon as possible. And then, if we go out with bb, I don’t really feel comfortable too…. I’m afraid she’s not comfortable, or she cries very loud in the restaurant or other places…..

Lidvia,
As you said, “次次 pump 完奶都會天旋地轉….. 好快就冇奶”, do you mind if you can tell me that how long was that actually last (from pumping at the beginning to no milk)? I’m afraid I will be like this one day. Not because I don’t feel good, but I don’t always let my bb to eat at my breasts…. Because I need more rests……..

Muimui313,
Thank you. We went to eat Shanghai food on her 滿月…. The owner there always talk to us as she has 2 boys and would like to have a girl.


別墅

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1672#
發表於 05-7-31 12:48 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

pink0325,

Check PM please!

Clarab


洋房

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1673#
發表於 05-8-2 05:36 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Hihi,

Where are all the pretty moms? It has been so quiet these few days.

Natmama,
I agree that we will need to take care of the babies at night while the nanny left. It is more work for us, but I think we have to do those work anyway. I don't feel comfortable leaving my babies to someone else during the night. I feel that the nanny probably will be impatient to the babies for any midnight work. So, if we have a live in nanny, I think I will still be ending up doing the work myself. Lucky that my boys are not very difficult to take care of during the night, they are sleeping thru the night most of the time.

Regarding leaving babies with the nanny during the day, I am working from home, so I will still be aware of their activities. I haven't really leave the nanny with the babies alone, and leave the house. Sorry that I don't have that experience to share yet. But I don't think I will be comfortable enough to leave the babies with nanny alone, even the nanny seems to be a nice person. I still cannot get over the feeling of worry. I guess I am probably worrying too much.


複式洋房

積分: 396


1674#
發表於 05-8-2 06:41 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Carinamom,
咁咪好囉, 你宜家個人鬆晒. 繼續努力!! :-P
你老公都好體貼噃, 想同你去街街溫馨吓 我隻佬, 幸不得自己娛樂
Carina 真係好得意, 而且仲好識氹人開心. 我睇到張相, 真係覺得佢好搞笑呀. 好有演藝細胞
你成日同佢影相o架??

Natmama,
Natalie 呢兩日乖唔乖??有冇扭計唔瞓覺??


係囉!! 啲靚女去晒邊處呀??


男爵府

積分: 7794


1675#
發表於 05-8-2 07:09 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Carinamom,
放鬆啲啦... SEE!一轉眼Carina已滿月, 唔好咁緊張, 你99肯同你湊住carina, 俾你2公婆去街, 係福份嚟架, 99都凑大你hubby, although係2,30年前嘅事, 但2-3小時break time for 你2公婆係好事呢!

Darrenmama,
I wish that you will read this message, as I am one of the new york mom as well, in New York, we have a group of new york mom, we all support each other! If you want, you can join our gathering if you want!
My name is Nillie, I am a working mom in Wyckoff Heights Medical center at Brooklyn, I have an almost 2 years old daughter Amanda.. ^o^ Living in staten island with my hubby Fat bear bear.
I am sorry to hear about your story and I wish that you will be tough!

各位,
我又過咗1個week 工作, meeemeee, muimui313, I am so proud of you too... Shiba, I am so proud of you,too!!!
working mom真係一啲都唔易做! 但我會努力加油!

Zic,
Amanda 靚女蒲頭喇!!!!

Clara,
我有啲掛住你, once 我"看夜" settle down, 我叫肥bear bear老公車我嚟探你, 我有好多嘢想同你講... especially, Amanda almost 2歲, 出親街都喊... 我好upset, 自己做child care, 識教人凑小朋友但就凑唔掂自已個女 :-( :-(

小肥佬,
Belate birthday wish for big matt lor!!

各位US媽咪,
我終於開始習慣返工lu....


別墅

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發表於 05-8-2 07:23 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Zic,

Natalie has been pretty good for the past 2 days/nights. Once I put her down, she will cry for about 30secs...then calms down. After a few more minutes, she will fall asleep. I think 革命 almost 成 公 :-P :-P :-P

Junw,

I can understand the evening work will mostly be done by my hubby and me anyways. That was the case when we had a live-in nanny. After dinner, we would play with the bb, bath her, then put her down for sleep(in my room)...don't really need the nanny's help. I'm just worry about leaving her with the nanny (live-out or live-in) while I go to work. But I'm so eager to return to work especially since my old boss has been asking me a few times already. I just keep on saying another 6-9 months :-| :-| :-| I guess we'll have to see Natalie's development before I can decide, but we will mostly look for someone by early next year.


民房

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發表於 05-8-2 11:21 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Zic,
I guess it’s because she’s our first bb, we took lots and lots of photos everyday at the first 3 weeks when my husband had his time off at home. Now, we take whenever we see her doing some funny faces, like the one you see now. I think she’s 好搞笑 too. These photos are actually saving my life! Whenever I feel upset or depressed, I would take a look at them and I would smile and feel better.

Nillie_Mami,
Maybe you are right, that’s 福份. But how they are taking care of Carina isn’t really what we want. They would hold her whenever she’s crying, I mean just starts to cry. I know they 緊張 their granddaughter, but that makes her demand to be held more. I really don’t know what to do…..


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發表於 05-8-3 00:10 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

natmama,

I declare that I lost the revolution, the emperor won again :-( :-(
Mini-matt woke up at 1 in the morning, I fed him 4 oz of formula and he went back to sleep right away. Unfortunately, he woke up at 5:45 again. I ignored him and shut the door this time. We waited for him to fall asleep . 30 mins, 1 hour , 1.5 hours later, we still heard that he was screaming at the top of his lungs .. I sneaked into his room and he was standing up in the crib. .. I knew he wouldn't go back to sleep if I didn't pick him up.. I gave up , I picked him up and he went back to sleep in my arm ..
My husband left early today because mini-matt kept him awake .. He wants to kill everyone .


junw,

I agree with you . I won't leave my bb with nanny alone either. I heard a lot of nannies abused babies. Maybe I will wait 'til my bb can talk more or gets older.

CarinaMommy

I'm glad you feel better.
Actually, you should try to bring your bb with when you go out . Just feed her well before you leave and go to family- friendly restaurants and see what'll happen. Maybe she loves being around the noisy places. you never know..
I stopped breastfeeding mini-matt in this few days.. I don't feel bad because I did my best. Sometimes I will let him suck my boobs without milk, just want to smooth over his need. Your health is also so important , just take the rest as much as you can ...Don't worry, the formula is good for bb too.. Natmama's bb girl, Natalie, is a good example. She is healthy and beautiful girl ..
I think you should speak to your parents-in-law or husband about your girl, you guys should compromise on taking care of her...Don't think too much .if you feel they're doing something wrong, just speak out and let them know..
The new pic of your bb is so cute..



Zic

Say " thank you " to your husband for me.
我都係咁同我老公講, " mini-matt 巳經係佢一生人裏面最大既禮物,所以我諗唔到更好禮物比佢."
但係今朝之後, 佢想掉咗份禮物.
講真,我老公唔識中文, 梗係一定學叫"daddy", 但係 Ryan 咁勁, 識中文, 梗係中英,都教晒佢啦. 係外國朋友面前, 叫"爸爸", 都唔知幾威呀..
我個佬,又係自己娛樂都無問題..有時佢仲話" 你咁lazy, 你唔出街,我都要呀.我唔可以全日留係屋企架." 佢都唔細啦, 仲學人周圍去, 頂呀..



Nillie_Mami


多謝晒..我會同我老公講, 網上面既媽咪祝佢生日快樂架啦.
咁咪好囉, 咁快就適應番..咁amanda 有無杻計,要媽咪呀?



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發表於 05-8-3 02:19 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

little fat man, zic:
I think all men are the same :cry:" 又係自己娛樂都無問題" and if I complain a bit, he will tell me I can go out and he will watch the kids but I really don't feel secure to leave the kids to him and go out to have fun myself, motherhood is really a tough job :-( men and women can never be fair

little fat man:
Happy belated birthday to your hubby
If you want to train mini-matt to fall asleep on his own, both you and your hubby need to cooperate, I know is hard because I remember when my son was little, each time after he got sick, I would need to put him back to the training camp (let him cry to sleep)
and usually needed about 3 days then he would be back to normal and slept on his own even though he woke up in the middle of the nights (I never rock him to sleep at all) there are times, my hubby would get up and and almost wanna kill him
Maybe try to tell your hubby to sleep in another room while you are trainning mini-matt since he has to go to work the next day he need his rest too.

natmama:
You are getting there gar la, don't give up!


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發表於 05-8-3 02:38 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

carinamommy:
Baby changes everyday, we took a lot of pic.of our daugher too, carina looks so cute in the pic. :lol: now my daugher is 6 weeks, I have a better idea of her pattern now but she is more cranky than her brother at this age, I guess is girl ?! needs more attention and more attach, but I tried to tell myself not to compare her to her brother all the time and try to enjoy this stage of her life. These few days, she seems like to smile at us when we play with her
She didn't have any vaccination yet, I am bringing her back to her ped. when she is 2 mos old and by that day she will have her first shot, did Carina has her already? Do you breastfeed her only? How is her sleeping schedule now?
After I had my son, I was like crying so easily too, so emotional and I wasn't like before, tried to talk to your friends and family support is very important, after I talked to my friends and seems like most of them have the same feelings after they gave birth, I feel much better and I feel more "normal" and after about 2-3 mos, I was back to myself la. This time, I feel the depression period is shorter and not as strong as the 1st one , I think it was because I was mentally prepare for that and since I am not the 1st time mom now so I have more experience and won't get too nervous as before,that made a lot of difference, so you should try to relax a bit, when you feel down and wanna cry, just take a deep breathe, walk away from the baby and try to tell yourself is okay, see it can help or not

zic,
Let me talk to my hubby and see what the plan for this weekend first and I'll let you guys know

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