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In other music playgroup, he can get along very well with the teacher, even though he sometimes do walk around the classroom, but he can still do most of the things that teacher instructed him.

In school, his teacher also said he is alright, he can seat on him chair most of the time and do not walk around.

Do you think he is bored because we went to the same playgroup for so long?

原文章由 SandraLo 於 08-12-6 22:42 發表

Lilna,

I had no idea why he behaved like this. Did he go for some kind of playgroups and can he get along with those teachers ?

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Another trouble thing happened in this 2 months also. Every morning (Mon-Fri only), he will cry for everything such as:
1. He did not want to take shower.
2. He did not want to drink milk.
3. He did not want to wear the school uniform.
4. He did not want to wear long socks.
5. He want to watch TV.

He just say no to everything in the morning. We asked him to be a good boy, then he said he wants to be a naughty boy. He will fight with us, saying everything opposite to what we want. (e.g. we say don't eat candy, he will cry for candy, don't drop things on the floor and he "say" he want to drop it). He will not take action to do bad things, he will only say he will do it.

But once you get him to wear the uniform and we are ready to go downstairs then everything is OK.

I am a working mom and I just have a baby in July. Do you think he just want to get my attention? Because I have been taken maternity leave between July and Oct. My helper said he is very good when we are not at home. He only naughty when we are there.

I have been spending nearly all my time with him. I seldom go out with friends myself. And I can say that I spend time much more with him then the little bb. We have lots of fun time together. Every night, I will read and play with him, I will feed him also. Every Saturday and Sunday, i will bring him to playgroup myself.

How to make each morning more pleasant? I really don't want to hear him crying every morning.

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原文章由 Lilna 於 08-12-8 14:03 發表
Another trouble thing happened in this 2 months also. Every morning (Mon-Fri only), he will cry for everything such as:
1. He did not want to take shower.
2. He did not want to drink milk.
3. He did ...

Lilna :
Sorry今晚太夜.... 你可睇住呢個topic前一版"fatsin"嘅posts先, 好多相似地方！
明續

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我個仔都係咁，自從我11月14日換左個工人之後，佢唔肯食奶、食飯，所有我地要佢做既嘢都話no need. 而由星期一晚開始，就每瞓兩小時就喊，好似發夢咁，佢係close his eyes 黎喊，禽晚，仲要工人抱住佢，之後放佢在工人張床上，先可以瞓。

唔知佢是否沒有安全感呢？我可以點幫佢呢？真係好煩惱呢？

原文章由 Lilna 於 08-12-8 14:03 發表
Another trouble thing happened in this 2 months also. Every morning (Mon-Fri only), he will cry for everything such as:
1. He did not want to take shower.
2. He did not want to drink milk.
3. He did ...

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原文章由 hksandy_ma 於 08-12-9 12:53 發表
我個仔都係咁，自從我11月14日換左個工人之後，佢唔肯食奶、食飯，所有我地要佢做既嘢都話no need. 而由星期一晚開始，就每瞓兩小時就喊，好似發夢咁，佢係close his eyes 黎喊，禽晚，仲要工人抱住佢，之後放佢在工人張床上，先可以瞓 ...

How old is your son ?

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發表於 08-12-9 14:57 |只看該作者

我個仔已經係2歲2個月啦。

原文章由 SandraLo 於 08-12-9 14:13 發表

How old is your son ?

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原文章由 SandraLo 於 08-12-8 23:17 發表
Lilna :
Sorry今晚太夜.... 你可睇住呢個topic前一版"fatsin"嘅posts先, 好多相似地方！
明續

睇咗未？

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原文章由 hksandy_ma 於 08-12-9 12:53 發表
我個仔都係咁，自從我11月14日換左個工人之後，佢唔肯食奶、食飯，所有我地要佢做既嘢都話no need. 而由星期一晚開始，就每瞓兩小時就喊，好似發夢咁，佢係close his eyes 黎喊，禽晚，仲要工人抱住佢，之後放佢在工人張床上，先可以瞓 ...

工人走前你是否有向他「預告」呢？「突變」肯定會令他不安.....
他是須要点時間適應, 只要對他的特別(或無理)要求不要作大反應(包括表情), 一切如常便可！

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發表於 08-12-10 10:40 |只看該作者

Read la. The case looks very similar. I will ignore him when he cried or keep saying he want to be naughty.

原文章由 SandraLo 於 08-12-9 22:27 發表

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我已經有同佢講過ee會走，之後會有另外一個ee湊佢同佢玩。

連續三晚，每瞓兩小時就喊，最後，都係同ee一張床瞓。

原文章由 SandraLo 於 08-12-9 22:41 發表

工人走前你是否有向他「預告」呢？「突變」肯定會令他不安.....
他是須要点時間適應, 只要對他的特別(或無理)要求不要作大反應(包括表情), 一切如常便可！ ...

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原文章由 hksandy_ma 於 08-12-10 11:14 發表
我已經有同佢講過ee會走，之後會有另外一個ee湊佢同佢玩。
連續三晚，每瞓兩小時就喊，最後，都係同ee一張床瞓。

查實我响度教媽咪嘅係「行為矯正」, 即係点樣處理小朋友壞行為, 但你囝囝應該係適應問題, 如佢冇特別扭某d 野, 係冇乜大問題; 你要俾少少時間佢......

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我都知道要比多d時間佢，希望佢可以快d overcome 啦。anyway 唔該晒你比我舒發吓。

原文章由 SandraLo 於 08-12-10 22:47 發表

查實我响度教媽咪嘅係「行為矯正」, 即係点樣處理小朋友壞行為, 但你囝囝應該係適應問題, 如佢冇特別扭某d 野, 係冇乜大問題; 你要俾少少時間佢...... ...

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小兒3歲, 現k1, 是家中獨子. 由於很小機會與同年齡小朋友玩, 發覺他不懂與人相處. 我知道他在校, 會手多多去攪同學, 如拍打人, 拉頭髮, 雖然還沒有被老師投訴, 但這些行為是不對及會嚴重影響他的社交, 所以想指正小兒.

有時小兒會主動說他在校推小朋友, 我會立即回應這是不對. 有時, 小兒一看見小朋友, 有認識及不認識, 他會用手拍打人或如手上有車仔玩具, 會用來敲一下小朋友心口, 我不能肯定他的動機如何, 我想他該是想同小朋友打招呼, 如看見他此舉行為, 我會立刻制止及指出該如何與人打招呼. 但他仍好像沒多大改善. 及想找一些社交小組給小兒, 不知有沒有資料可告知.

請賜教.. 謝謝.

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原文章由 ciao 於 08-12-21 14:23 發表
小兒3歲, 現k1, 是家中獨子. 由於很小機會與同年齡小朋友玩, 發覺他不懂與人相處. 我知道他在校, 會手多多去攪同學, 如拍打人, 拉頭髮, 雖然還沒有被老師投訴, 但這些行為是不對及會嚴重影響他的社交, 所以想指正小 ...

ciao :

抱歉我沒有太多這方面的資料, 也不敢作介紹人; 但約在半年前我曾問過特殊教育版Dr.T, 他有提過小童羣益會, 你可在網上search一下.
其實你也不用太担心, 因小朋友都是3歲才開始學和其他小朋友玩, 你太緊張反而會令他做這些行為來引你的注意, 可以試在圖書館找些「交朋友」的故事書和他讀, 然後創作一些小故事/情境來教他, 不須太刻意！

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原文章由 AW224 於 08-12-29 05:11 發表
SandraLo,
好多謝你的post, 雖然未睇晒, 覺得好有用, 我個仔4歲, 但有啲問題想請教下,
Case 1 : 今早daddy車我同佢去學畫畫, 落車時佢話要攞支水, 我話唔得因為daddy要飲, 落咗車佢即刻喊同用手好大力打我, 我唔 ...

AW224 :

我想問：你小朋友平日係咪好扭計嘅呢？
如果係, 雖然有改善空間, 但方向大致正確; 如果唔係, 响冇用讚嚟話佢知乜嘢係做啱嘅情況底下, 佢遲d 會學咗你呢個「唔so佢」嘅方式對人.
知唔知点解你揾唔到個落台/俾糖佢嘅「位」？因為响你講呢個case度, 你冇界定佢個壞行為係乜, 因此, 當另一個壞行為產生時, 你巳趕不及讚他, 即是他第一次係扭攞唔到支水, 當佢話要vv冇扭支水時, 你已要讚他乖「冇扭支水」, 到另一個壞行為出現時, 你再處理！
你先答開頭的問題, 明續！

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