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Re: 英屬

CYL

yeah 兩文三語 is very important now..
but I am not sure if its good to raise yr child in HK as I don't like the education system in HK..

also in UK, u can learn european language wor..

anyway, this is too far for me to think about la..
we don;t even have a child yet

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發表於 07-1-30 18:21 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

pigpig78 寫道:
CYL..

yeah my hubby look quite young ga..
may be all chinese look young la..
some people even think I am bigger than my hubby

in fact he is 3 yrs older than me

嘩, 你d年齡秘密話晒比人知喇!

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發表於 07-1-30 18:23 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

pigpig78 寫道:
CYL

yeah 兩文三語 is very important now..
but I am not sure if its good to raise yr child in HK as I don't like the education system in HK..

also in UK, u can learn european language wor..

anyway, this is too far for me to think about la..
we don;t even have a child yet

99成日話送d仔女去international school喎...咁大個d就可以去uk咪可以學埋european language囉...

不過我同老公都中意uk, 我地又唔係話搬就搬, 過幾年過返來uk, 話咁易咩!

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發表於 07-1-30 18:45 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

CYL

for me ages is not a secret

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發表於 07-1-30 18:50 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

CYL

International school also a good choice in HK.

but me and my hubby like the lifestyle in UK more..
at least more relax and can spend more quality time with yr child..
can go home early and no OT needed..

I think everyone situation is different..
u just need to think which one fit the best lor

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發表於 07-1-30 19:00 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

cy,pigpig,
你地怕奶奶架，我時常在我奶奶面前鬧我老公架

我奶奶都唔敢出聲話我的

pigpig,
你老公個樣咁年輕，你小心d好喎

11111,
Pandan cake:
2.5oz Self Raising Flour
½ tsp Baking Powder A
3oz sugar
4 yolks
2oz coconut milk
2oz corn oil
Pandan essence
milk – very little B
4 whites
¼ tsp cream of tartar
1oz sugar C

1) Gently beaten whites then put cream of tartar and beat again
2) Stir Ingredient B ,then sift A into B, mixed again
3) Use hand get the C into B ( 2 times )
Pre-heat oven 180° for 5mins
Pour mixture into greased cake tin, bake in oven 180°for aprox.25mins.

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發表於 07-1-30 19:09 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

yokongi

my 99 very protect her son ga..
so I have to keep very quiet in front of my 99 lor

glad that my 99 live in Sg and we live in UK so only see them once a yaer..

In fact I love 6299 a lots..
always get them gift / email them / call them
before that I hubby don't communicate with his parent that much.. only call them 1 or 2 times a year..

but my 99 didn;t treasure my effort on trying to encourage more communication between them and their son

she only focus on the few incident when I did sth wrong..

Anyway this is she who widen the gap between us and them.. and my hubby stay with me all the time and he will listen to me more than his parent..
just that I think they are quite stupid... if they treat me better they will win their son back and have one more daughter... but if they treat me badly, they will lose his son too..

oh my hubby look young ga..
but I trust him..
can;t worry too much..
if he really need to betray me then I have nothing to say :tongue: :tongue:

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發表於 07-1-30 19:41 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

pigpig78 寫道:
CYL

International school also a good choice in HK.

but me and my hubby like the lifestyle in UK more..
at least more relax and can spend more quality time with yr child..
can go home early and no OT needed..

I think everyone situation is different..
u just need to think which one fit the best lor

係呀, 我同老公就係中意uk既lifestyle囉...工作無咁辛苦, 多d family time! 同埋同d親戚住得唔近, 唔洗成日見!

不過downside就係我地搵少d囉.... :-(

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發表於 07-1-30 19:43 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

Yokongi 寫道:
cy,pigpig,
你地怕奶奶架，我時常在我奶奶面前鬧我老公架我奶奶都唔敢出聲話我的

都唔係話怕既, 不過都會避忌d囉...

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發表於 07-1-30 19:48 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

CYL

I think family time is more important than money lor..
as u mention la... 親戚住得唔近, 唔洗成日見 and u can live a simple life.. this also help u save more ma..

I think in HK, the temptation is too big..
even the stuff are cheaper and u might earn more but at the end u might spend more.. its the same

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發表於 07-1-30 19:57 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

pigpig
對於我同我老公來講呢個真係一個好難既decision. 因為我老公公司想開hk office, offer比佢個package好好, 話會升職同+人工, 我老公而家on expat package, 其實已經搵緊我同佢係uk時+埋咁多...所以返hk會生活平同人工多, 如果淨係用錢計, 我地就應該返hk, 不過我地又中意uk多d, 所以真係煩死我地!

我又唔想唔做野(我覺得女人一定要有事業!

), 返hk我又難搵工同工作時間長 :-( 所以我中意uk多好多架, d同事又好, 老闆又好!

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發表於 07-1-30 20:25 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

CYL

If financially can affort me without working, I think I will choose to become a full time mum. Since I have seen many cases, the child'd behaviour is different if the mum look after them full time..

as for yr case, if u can scarify yr career for the time being (perhap few years), I will choose to stay in HK since u don't have to worry about finance and the child can build better foundation on chinese.

but if u think u don't want to be full time mum, I think u better come back to UK since UK have a better work / life balance..

I think its a difficult decision. my only advice is that always put yr child in the top priority..
there nothing more important than yr child.

think about it carefully...
will support u whatever yr decision is..

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發表於 07-1-30 21:11 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

pigpig
唉...我果份工, 如果隔左幾年無做野就會跟唔上既喇, 我覺得咁辛苦先考到個牌, 要我give up我真係唔甘心呀! 同埋如果係hk我唔做野, 搵既錢都係同我係uk做野差唔多, 咁我地financially又唔係真係好好多喎, 不過就可以全日照顧bb.... 我又覺得uk既education system好d, 無咁大壓力! 我老公知我唔中意hk, 所以佢話由我決定, 我中意去邊就去邊, 不過如果返左uk就好難再有咁好機會transfer返來hk喇, 所以我真係決定唔到呀... 而家等多幾個月, 睇下情況點先啦...

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發表於 07-1-30 21:51 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

Yat,
Don’t be disappointed! You will have the 3rd one mar. Add oil!!
Portman was sick, so we didn’t bring her to the nursery.
Actually, the one she is going to is quiet nice ka. But I have to drive if my hubby is out of town ji mar.
About the job hunting, I only go to some websites jeh. I’d applied a trainee job and a local government’s job jeh. Now what I can do is wait for the agency jeh. Not much jobs in my town. (I will only consider jobs closed to my house jeh,)

11111,
Sorry ar! I’m so silly! I’m so careless. Hope you are much better. See u later!

Cyl,
Don’t need to worry too much about the bb being born in year of pig or dog. I think both of the years are good! Actually, I planed to have a pig pig baby as well, but there is no chance now. God will choose the best for u.

Pigpig,
I really want to have a second child, but I’m not health enough. If I really want to have one, I have to find someone to take care of Portman and I lay on the bed for the first few months.

My hubby doesn’t cook as well. He started to learn boiling water after we came to UK jeh! Shame on him. Therefore he won’t complain my cooking, even he is mean.

I applied a trainee post on line. And a lady called me immediately; she asked me why I was interested in a trainee post. I told her that I need some experience mar. She said she will tell her manager and called me back tomorrow. In fact she didn’t call me. When I told my husband, he said, of course la, ‘30+ doing trainee, after the training, you are reach the retirement age la.’ He is speaking even worst, because he spoke in Cantonese.

Almost forget to say, ‘congratulation for no more dead fire tim’

Yokongi,
If you are OK, I could like to go to your home to learn Chinese bun on 2 Feb 2006. But Portman is sick now, I’m not sure I can go on that day.

Yokongi, Avalyl, 11111, Zenia
My hubby will go to London on 2 Feb, 9 Feb and 14 Feb, 2006. Tell me if you have any good plan.

Avalyl,
avalyl 寫道:
UK Mums - Chinese New Year Gathering

What if we list several dates and let other people choose?

- 17 Feb: Rita, Pigpig, 11111, Zenia,kitchu
- 18 Feb: homama?, 11111, Zenia, kitchu
- 24 Feb: Rita, Pigpig, 11111, Zenia, kitchu
- 25 Feb: Ava, homama?, 11111, Zenia, kitchu
(I'm also available during weekdays but I think Sat or Sun will suit more mums)

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發表於 07-1-30 22:11 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

CYL

I know how difficult it is to 考到個牌, but u need consider both the advantage and disadvantage of living in HK and UK..

money is always not enough ga la..
u need to have a balance lor..

don;t think about it too much at the moment.
wait until yr bb born first.

may be after the first month u will change yr mind lei.. may be u rather look after yr bb yourself as she is so lovely

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發表於 07-1-30 22:14 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

kitchu

oh u also want to have a pig pig tim ar...
then u and ur hubby need to work hard la

there still time to achieve this.
may be u can send portman to nursery then u can have a rest lor

as for ur job hunting. sometime u just need to wait for the right opportunity..
just keep searching la..
am sure u can find a job very soon

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發表於 07-1-30 22:19 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

pigpig
其實可能bb出左世, 我又唔捨得返工lu.... :mrgreen: 我老公表妹個仔而家7個月, 我成日諗我個bb到佢咁大時我就唔可以成日對住佢, 諗起都有d心酸呀! :-(

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發表於 07-1-30 22:20 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

kitchu
係呀, 而家'做人'仲趕得切生個豬bb呀!

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發表於 07-1-30 22:24 |只看該作者

Re: 英屬

CYL

as u said, u might not 捨得返工 when bb get bigger.
so no need to think about it now..
when time come, u will know what to do..

just relax.. bb doesn;t like mummy being too worry

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