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1721#
發表於 07-11-27 17:24 |只看該作者
Hayes mama,

I think you should NOT compare Hayes with other classmates. You should consider whether Hayes is happy with those elder as some will like to play with elder and vice versa.

It's not your wish to plan the road for Hayes as smooth as you can. You better let Hayes to determine, that is, whether he want to be the older one in class or be the smaller one.

Comparison with other always make you confuse and could not make the right decision.

The above is my own opinion for your reference. Hope it can help the puzzled you.

原文章由 chiuchristan 於 07-11-27 17:09 發表
Agree!
唉, Hayes 10月出世, N.1在大仔班讀(因細仔班full晒).
老師comment Hayes表現仲好BB, 能力 & 表現跟大仔大女相差好明顯.
我唔介意Hayes做細仔, 只要老師accept & be patient 就O.K.!
今年Hayes入讀 Bilingu ...
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1722#
發表於 07-11-27 17:26 |只看該作者
剛剛 tea time 跟另一位同事傾開, 佢兩個仔已上Band one secondary school.

大仔在年尾出生, repeat了1年kindergarden(因希望大仔上小學後, 能力 & 情緒 & 行為 等 追得輕鬆D), 所以比個仔在K.1玩多年....

細仔年頭出生, 加上有哥哥做 learning model, 所以O.K....


What should I do for Hayes???
Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself!

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy!!


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1723#
發表於 07-11-27 17:29 |只看該作者
我覺得响佢(2yr8mth)入左學先, 點都好過做大仔入k1.
一來學校選擇又少, 二來我有決定舉去諗repeat 幼稚園.

但係又要諗.....repeat都要諗咁課程重複, 學童仲會唔會仲有興趣去學習; 學童又要捨棄原有的同學去適應新同學, 佢又可唔可以manage到; 我自己都係細仔, 我自己學習又有沒有遇到問題(可惜我失憶諗唔到 )....


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1724#
發表於 07-11-27 17:33 |只看該作者
Strawberrys,

Thanks for your comfort & advice!

Hayes papa said, he totally doesn't mind to let Hayes repeat for K.1 next year as long as Hayes can walks happily with less stress along his learning path onwards, especially facing the harsh primary, secondary & so on syllabus....HK Ecuation System IS Really Harsh & Inelastic!!:cry:

原文章由 Strawberrys 於 07-11-27 17:24 發表
Hayes mama,

I think you should NOT compare Hayes with other classmates. You should consider whether Hayes is happy with those elder as some will like to play with elder and vice versa.

It's not you ...

Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself!

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy!!


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1725#
發表於 07-11-27 17:35 |只看該作者
I agree with Strawberry. I think it depends on the kid.

My mom (a former teacher) said that she has seen many kids who were pushed back to be a big kid to be very unhappy. They know that they are older, and if they don't do as well in school, they also feel bad.

原文章由 go4baby 於 07-11-27 17:29 發表
我覺得响佢(2yr8mth)入左學先, 點都好過做大仔入k1.
一來學校選擇又少, 二來我有決定舉去諗repeat 幼稚園.

但係又要諗.....repeat都要諗咁課程重複, 學童仲會唔會仲有興趣去學習; 學童又要捨棄原有的同學去適應新 ...


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1726#
發表於 07-11-27 17:38 |只看該作者
I think Girl's development should be faster than Boy!

This's a general phenomenon until reaching F.4 with HK & foreign countries' research findings. Boy's ability would be much outstanding/better afterwards. But I want Hayes enjoying HK learning path before F.4 lor....

原文章由 go4baby 於 07-11-27 17:29 發表
我覺得响佢(2yr8mth)入左學先, 點都好過做大仔入k1.
一來學校選擇又少, 二來我有決定舉去諗repeat 幼稚園.

但係又要諗.....repeat都要諗咁課程重複, 學童仲會唔會仲有興趣去學習; 學童又要捨棄原有的同學去適應新 ...
Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself!

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy!!


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1727#
發表於 07-11-27 17:39 |只看該作者
原文章由 chiuchristan 於 07-11-27 17:33 發表
Strawberrys,

Thanks for your comfort & advice!

Hayes papa said, he totally doesn't mind to let Hayes repeat for K.1 next year as long as Hayes can walks happily with less stress along his learning p ...



hayes 媽,

你唔係話唔會俾hayes跟香港教育條path?


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1728#
發表於 07-11-27 17:40 |只看該作者
Not necessary ga...
my hubbie performed better in school than me...we were both in a co-ed school...

如果要係香港讀書讀得好﹐其實係要master考試技巧﹗

原文章由 chiuchristan 於 07-11-27 17:38 發表
I think Girl's development should be faster than Boy!

This's a general phenomenon until reaching F.4 with HK & foreign countries' research findings. Boy's ability would be much outstanding/better aft ...

[ 本文章最後由 ivyscyip 於 07-11-27 17:43 編輯 ]


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1729#
發表於 07-11-27 17:43 |只看該作者
Oh, so how can I make up my mind??

If repeat, I only support to repeat K.1 because Hayes still is very childish & ignorant. Should be much easier to cope. Childish him should not know how to tell me his will on this topic...

Anyway, he enjoys the present schooling. I just don't want him to face "traumatic" repeat experience in primary if he is hard to meet school requirement ja.... feeling Heartache ga ma!!:cry:

原文章由 ivyscyip 於 07-11-27 17:35 發表
My mom (a former teacher) said that she has seen many kids who were pushed back to be a big kid to be very unhappy. They know that they are o ...
Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself!

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy!!


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1730#
發表於 07-11-27 17:44 |只看該作者
原文章由 ivyscyip 於 07-11-27 17:35 發表
I agree with Strawberry. I think it depends on the kid.

My mom (a former teacher) said that she has seen many kids who were pushed back to be a big kid to be very unhappy. They know that they are o ...


Yes! I agree with Strawberrys too.Littlelittle is small girl but she is quite mature in class according to teacher's comment. She loves to play with Big boys and girl and imitate them.

[ 本文章最後由 diaperb 於 07-11-27 17:47 編輯 ]


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1731#
發表於 07-11-27 17:46 |只看該作者
Surely try our best to let Hayes study in 心儀直資小學 in my district. If failed, we'll try the good mainstream choices in other districts, such as TM & YL etc.

原文章由 go4baby 於 07-11-27 17:39 發表
hayes 媽,

你唔係話唔會俾hayes跟香港教育條path?
Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself!

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy!!


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1732#
發表於 07-11-27 17:47 |只看該作者
原文章由 go4baby 於 07-11-27 16:58 發表



唔該草莓.......
我就missed......fsy, 你有無機?


咩呀, 四月先行動嘛, 仲有五個月 , 呀, 都係五月先行動穏陣啲, 一個唔覺意計錯數變咗十二月咪弊


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1733#
發表於 07-11-27 17:47 |只看該作者
原文章由 ivyscyip 於 07-11-27 17:35 發表
My mom (a former teacher) said that she has seen many kids who were pushed back to be a big kid to be very unhappy. They know that they are older, and if they don't do as well in school, they also feel bad.


係呀....最慘係自己付出左努力得到成績時, 點知四周的人一句話"佢係大仔實做得好過我地". 到時真係要睇父母同小朋友的心力去到邊..........分分鐘唔夠力就好易被人打殘......


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1734#
發表於 07-11-27 17:48 |只看該作者
Because Littlelittle is a Girl lor! Boy is a bit different from Girl I observe!

原文章由 diaperb 於 07-11-27 17:44 發表
Yes! I agree with Strawberrys too.Littlelittle is small girl but she is quite mature in class according to teacher's coment. She loves to play with Big boys and girl and imitate them.
Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself!

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy!!


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1735#
發表於 07-11-27 17:58 |只看該作者
子進都比老師話佢太 bb (大姐, 人哋啱啱先兩歲咋喎 :tongue: ), 但係我無諗住比佢 repeat k1 (or 甚至 n1), 除非到時真係追唔上/老師建議.

學其他姐妹話齋, 讀多年佢未必開心, 尤其是我哋呢啲十月既, repeat 一年好似大好多咁, 容乜易第時佢表現好啲, 其他人會話: 唓, 梗係啦, 佢大我哋咁多! 咁佢都會唔開心架喎...

以前要二歲十個月 (定三歲?) 先可以入學, 啲人就話唔好十月後生, 覺得蝕底, 而家兩歲八個月可以入學, 仍然有呢個問題, 真係煩...


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1736#
發表於 07-11-27 17:58 |只看該作者
我媽話如果做細仔﹐起碼有個excuse。如果做大仔而做得唔好﹐就唔知點解釋。

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原文章由 go4baby 於 07-11-27 17:47 發表


係呀....最慘係自己付出左努力得到成績時, 點知四周的人一句話"佢係大仔實做得好過我地". 到時真係要睇父母同小朋友的心力去到邊..........分分鐘唔夠力就好易被人打殘...... ...


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1737#
發表於 07-11-27 18:03 |只看該作者
以前係要足3歲 (8月31cut off), 我小學1年班時係第一年變12月31cut off.

晴晴應該係05人奶B中最細﹐我都無諗住比佢 repeat k1 (or 甚至 n1), 除非到時真係追唔上/老師建議.

其實我諗都要好睇點教個小朋友﹐我老公阿哥係9月1號出世﹐全班一定最大﹐但係成績咪一樣好差 (因為我99無時間教)。

原文章由 fsy 於 07-11-27 17:58 發表
子進都比老師話佢太 bb (大姐, 人哋啱啱先兩歲咋喎 :tongue: ), 但係我無諗住比佢 repeat k1 (or 甚至 n1), 除非到時真係追唔上/老師建議.

學其他姐妹話齋, 讀多年佢未必開心, 尤其是我哋呢啲十月既, repeat 一年好 ...


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1738#
發表於 07-11-27 18:11 |只看該作者
Hay guys,
What about our C9 dinner ah? When ar?
What about TST? Fat Angelo?

[ 本文章最後由 diaperb 於 07-11-27 18:17 編輯 ]


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1739#
發表於 07-11-27 18:21 |只看該作者
唉! Actually I agree you guys ga!
Because teachers' comment on Hayes is: Hayes can catch up quite well in the present academic syllabus in Bilingual Class, but with relatively short attention span in lesson.
A bit Headache for such comment, because Hayes is not same as those students 坐定定, 唔搞野, 好順服個D細路, Hayes明白老師教咩之後, 就開始搞下其他野.

Hayes好似我地兩公婆細個--Energetic & Creative type.
唉! 我心痛將來倒模式教育, 可能會complain Hayes je!
咁即係Repeat Our Stories To Receive Complaints From School??? :-(

原文章由 ivyscyip 於 07-11-27 18:03 發表
晴晴應該係05人奶B中最細﹐我都無諗住比佢 repeat k1 (or 甚至 n1), 除非到時真係追唔上/老師建議.
Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself!

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy!!


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1740#
發表於 07-11-27 18:30 |只看該作者
唉! 點解一定要小孩子上小學 & 中學, 接受死硬派學習模式je?

如果香港好似外國 & 台灣等, 有類似 "自然學習學校" 供選擇, 就百花齊放, HK下一代就享有大福啦!!
唉...........
Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself!

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy!!

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