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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Sy-mom
我bb用Mustle 50 for baby我自已用Busk 30
因呢隻配方天然d
我皮膚好易敏感
我同細女仲慘
好吸引蚊攪到無得去公園玩
自從有個呀伯比蚊咬c左仲驚

學懂凡事感恩和感謝,孩子終身受用不盡

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babygigi

係呀, 如果我收到PASSPORT ,第一時間,就會去book 機票囉...如果我老公去,或者會早d.如果唔係就十一月頭或中..依家亞仔完全戒晒人奶,所以都無咁驚..不過,就真係怕佢會係機上面嘈住其他人..好似個日去pool,佢係咁同個staff 講嘢, 伸晒手, 攪到個staff 係咁同佢講" 你係唔係flirt我呀?" 我話" mini-matt 答佢"係"啦."

Zic

陰公囉,無相攞..佢哋有save 係個電腦到,係唔係只係要再等耐d先有得攞呀?
我老公又係好鍾意抱亞仔架..佢家姐嚟探我哋,又係成日抱亞仔.不過, 我始終都係in-charge個位,日頭夜對,都係我.妨且,好彩亞仔由細到大,都唔係好鍾意喊,所以有時佢叫,我唔會理佢, 佢一個人睇電視,我就一個人上網..互不相干..

whalebb,

你老公唔肯再生第三個,都算係咁啦, 都有兩件囉.我想要多件,肥佬都唔肯呀..係打屎都唔肯個隻

你老公好冧呀,講埋呢d咁既嘢,依家叫我老公講,佢都唔講,仲要insult 吓我.得閒,就作裝放隻肥手係我個肚腩度話"雙手disappear 咗係我d 肚羔度." 你話係唔係,又頂頂聲呀?

亞仔依家行得真係唔錯..有時放咗佢係廳,我行去restroom,佢第一時間,自己由個living room , 行經個dinning room,再串過kitchen,行過一個hallway 入嚟我間房..不過,我聽d古老人講"越遲行越好." 所以可能你兩個女 (包括nat),都唔錯..我就仔咁早識行,第時真係,辛苦佢,成日,要"追"女仔囉..

點解好似咁耐以嚟,都唔見你上msn 既?

natmama.,

我記得我有咗個時,係最開心,好少發皮四.我仲同big matt 講" 你想唔想一世,有好日子過? 如果想,就比我keep 住咁生. (因為我鍾意細路,但係依家一個都夠數..) ..
我禽晚同我老公講,我哋應該要早d train 亞仔,佢居然話" I don't think so , it's about the right time."

話時話,係唔係暫定下個星期二呀? 我要clean the house 呀..

mrsyip,

long time no see la...
聽你咁講,真係好忙吓喎..得閒上下嚟,又或者打個電話嚟咀兩句啦..我無任歡迎啦..

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Thank you to all the moms who've complimented Natalie. You know my daugther is really boyish looking w/ her little hair. I think the dresses help her look more girly.

Zic, Babygigi,

I don't remembered much when Natalie was teething cuz she didn't give me too hard of a time. Occasionally she would wake up crying at night but I just ignored her and she would go back to sleep. I heard if the teething is too bad, you can try giving them some Infant Orajel, there was one that is for night time, maybe it will numb their gums so they can sleep better.

Babygigi,

Ryan is so cute, he must feel proud when you compliment him

Whalebb,

I didn't know Steven was that busy. I'm glad Shiba was able to refer another one for you

Happy driving :-P :-P :-P

Pink,

My husband's company is near Alhambra, maybe we can meet up for tea. Do you drive

Mrsyip,

Hope you're having fun in your new home. Do you take Jada swimming? When are we meeting up again

CarinaMommy,

I didn't read your message before regarding your in-laws, but I'm sure it must be hard to deal with more opinions when you are already overwhelmed. It's good you went away with the baby to vent, but always remember to let your husband know where you're at just in case. Trust me, things will get better onces your baby gets on a set schedule. Just hold tight for now. If possible, have someone watch the baby for a few hours on the weekend so you can go out by yourself, it really worked for me when Natalie was little. I needed to get away once in awhile.

Little Fat Man,

I was very happy too when I was pregnant with Natalie. I never had back pain or mood swings. I was so energized all the time and loved buying maternity clothes and things for the baby :-P :-P :-P After she was born, I think it honestly took 6 months to get used to life with her. Now is she's 1, everything just got easier.

Cchang,

Welcome, we have many moms in SJ. I'm from LA and my daughter, Natalie, just turned 1. I'm a stay-at-home mom for now..hehehe..looking forward to getting back to work when my girl is older

Sy_Mom,

Yes, Natalie can speak individual words. I was surprised today when I was looking for a pen so I was mumbling "where is the pen". She pointed to the phone stand and there it was, the pen was by the phonebooks. She caught me by surprised...I was so happy that she understood and can give me feedback

For the sunscreen, I just bought the Target Brand for Kids and it's SPF 30. I only used it on her ones when we went to Downtown Disney. I know what you mean by going back to the old company. It's just that my previous job was technically my first job so I really want to see what the world is like outside. The good thing is most of the opportunties I'm looking at are within 10 mile radius from home. I'm just looking for something that is close to home and good working environment. I'm planning on talking to my previous employer and job hunting outside concurrently so if I get a better offer outside, I can ask my company to match it :lol: :lol: :lol: Even when I used to work, my hubby took care of all the expenses so my pay is "my pay"...that's y the more I make, the more I can spend on Natalie and other luxury items

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發表於 05-8-10 05:31 |只看該作者

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Carinamommy
I wish you feel better now and if you feel bad or moody next time, you can call me or other mommies in San Jose at least to talk over the phone you know what i mean...
You know, it is too hard to change OB now but you will probably see her 1 more time...If she made you felt hurt and you should confront her right the way..

..
if you hide the feeling and you are making yourself more unhappy...
Try to focus more positive thing and you are the only one can make yourself happy and Carina happy...so add oil...we will support yo

Cchang
Hi, welcome to BK and I am also Chan C 9....
I am a stay home mom and have a 6 month old daughter named Chloe. We will move to North Carolina August 19 but now still in South San Jose.

Little fat man
Thanks for the pictures and Mini Matt look so cute in his orange outfit.

S Y Mom
I can tell Sean is defintely a smart boy and very active...haha

Wish he will like the nanny but personally i really scarce the nanny things cos I heard too many bad things and read so many upset news from TV how the nannies tortured the kids to death and they were so....so :evil:
Also, I knew so many mommies made good $$$ also quit their jobs and stay home which I understand I am lucky cos I don't have to work at least when my kid is small...but I will defintely go back to work when she go to pre-school....

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發表於 05-8-10 06:10 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

小肥佬
我家姊公司先有MSN
我呢排無去咪無上
我大女下個月返學
好緊張好似自已出嫁果時咁

我同老公打算等細女25 yrs old就回香港住
到有孫抱先番來

學懂凡事感恩和感謝,孩子終身受用不盡

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CarinaMommy,

I understand the parents-in-law is a trouble person, special 99. Now, they are willing change their attitude and method. I think they tried to "let step" to you. When you feel unhappy about your parent-in-law or others, you must talk to your hubby. Let he solve your problem and no walk away. Or take a short trip in close resort or hotel, to spend few days ( only you, hubby and bb ). Or take a short walk every day. ( only you, hubby and bb ) Let you have private time to talk with your hubby.

About the 6 weeks check-up. I also had c-section. My OB said, after 6 weeks check-up, no need to see her again. Thus, I think you can change your doctor anytime you want.

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Little Fat Man,
One night ( 8:xxpm ), we ate dinner and I got a call from you. However; I only heard tv sound & seems Mini-Matt sound, so I thought it should be Mini-Matt played with mobile phone. Do you have gathering in your place next week? How many people?

Natmama,
Yes, we went to spa & swimming pool a lot, but I only take photo to them. My girl likes play in the water. She is running very fast in the pool area. I am very scare, so if only me, I don't take her go to swimming pool.

whalebb,
I got your e-mail la. I don't send la. ok! Wait your call. What time do you call me? Let me know, if my girl nap, I will ready the phone in my pocket. ok!

Zic,
You can buy the baby plastic and put it to freeze. Let the plastic cool and let your bb bit. It is help your bb's gum comfortable. I bought this in "babies"u"s, I also see it in Wal-mart, target, Toyr"u"s.

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Hi cchang,
我屋企有個阿Kurt 大帝, 同你個仔仔差唔多大. 佢5月1日出世.

有係全職揍仔婆.
Edward易唔易揍?? 阿仔宜家吽牙, 有啲麻煩.

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whalebb,

咁又係呀.如果比mini-matt 第一次返學,我都會好緊張, 好怕亞仔會唔會同人哋博火, 又驚佢識唔到朋友仔, 又唔知佢會唔會比人烚..
嘩,你哋都諗得咁長遠呀..25 年後既生活,我同我老公都係諗到十八年後, 踏亞仔走,過番二人生活咋..

mrsyip

你真係聰明. 無錯,有一日, 我要同亞仔換diaper, 咁佢係咁roll over, 情急之際,我就比咗我個手機比佢玩, 分散佢既視線.. 點知,當完事後, 睇番個手機,巳經佢同我又打比你, peggy呀, 佢auntie, 同埋我一大堆打唔到的香港朋友..
下星期二, peggy 可能入嚟囉,有無意思係嚟坐吓呀? 因為嚟緊我老公, 去十日Las Vegas.我唔去, 咁要做十日既"寂寞老人" 呀..仲有,其實我同peggy 都有意思想比d 衫仔比jenny, 想佢臨生前,出一出嚟,你點睇呀?

zic

記得亞仔自從出牙仔, 佢就夜晚一定瞓唔足..記得個時真係好慘, 個半鐘醒一次,仲要有一次一定喊到唔收得聲..抱又唔得, 氹唔得. 我個時,成日都有上嚟呻.. :-( :-( :-( ..之後,佢就係咁出咗三隻啦..

leohannahchan

多謝你讚亞仔..佢件orange outfit ,係佢既生日禮物,我同我老公都好鍾意..Like a little surfer dude

natmama.,
估唔到,大家都有一個咁美好既"大肚經驗".. :mrgreen:

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little fat man:
Don't you feel so good when you are able to sleep so well

every night the kids go to bed, that's the only free/quiet time the parents have.

whalebb:
I wanna see the pic. too, can you send to my email again? Don't you think sometimes having the hubby around is having another child :evil:

cchang:
Nice meeting you! My bb girl born on June17, seems like this year is a good year to have babies we got so many bb in here and more coming up, we all can share the experience together :mrgreen:

carinamommy:
I just went for my 6 weeks check up, the doc. told me the same thing, I need to go back in 2-3 mos for the pap smear, I had the natural birth, how about you? I had my period already, since I only did half and half breastfeeding, my period schedule will be very off the schedule, since your are not fully recovered yet, you better get more rest and you might want to stick with this OB for 1 more check up before you switch to someone else since she helped you for the delivery.
Talk to your hubby more, communication is very important, it is very hard at the beginning, everyone has their own thoughts of how to bring up the children but look at the bright sides, at least your parent-in-laws now know what is going on, things will get better gar la, be more positive!

shiba:
Getting close la, did the bb head turn yet? :-P

muimui:
Same here it is so hard to be a full time working mom, especially when the kid is so young, time is just so limit after we got home, besides doing all the house works, we want to spend the time with our babies too, sometimes it is very stressful when we are running around like a crazy woman and the daddy is sitting there watching TV with a crying bb,
you just wanna

him right?!Men always have the excuse to go out, they wanna relieve the stress wor but seriously who has more stress?! Keep it up! women are much stronger than men, both physically and mentally no matter how tired we are , just look at our kids, we will have all the energy to go on and finish all those house works gar la. :wink:

natamama:
Natalie looks very pretty with that dress, I know the problem with the little hair, my son used to have very little hair also, and we have kept on shaving off his hair until he was 2, now he is so much better, my girl has no hair also, :-( we will shave off her hair too, hopefully, there will be more hair come out la, otherwise, we will need to buy a lot of hats for her, same as when my son was little.

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Zic, Nillie,greentree:
Feel so good with the gathering, just girls chatting without the men around, hehehe

hope to see u guys soon but pls excuse my messy place.

Zic:
Kurt is so handsome, I show my hubby the pic, he said the same thing too :lol:

Greentree:
Sorry that your son got the little bump on his forehead, I told my hubby, he said I should watch him more careful ?! He is sure full of energy, tell him he is sure welcome to come to EE home to sweep the floor anytime!

:mrgreen:

Nillie:
You looks really good, I don't think you need any triming at all. Let me know if you wanna switch your cardiologist okay?! :wink:

Babygigi:
Next time you better come for the gathering, we all wanna see both you and Ryan in person :lol:
My son treats his little sister pretty good, he sure looks like the big brother and being very protective and so far he is not jealous, I am very happy with that already.

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carinamommy, 小肥佬,

when i was newly weded, i thought of 離家出走 2-3 times (i even had my things packed) when i had a fight with my husband...but it never happened coz i have no friends and family here :-( :-( :-( ...i were so lonely when i were upset and i had no way to go. i could not fly back to hk, it would definitely scare my mom to death...after a day or 2 of cooling down, i would start comforting myself ( very ah 'q'

) and would get over the uphappy stuffs. It was after the first year of marriage that me and my husband got used to each other...now, we are sooooo happy and we have valerie, hehehe...so carina, be happy, be positive, tomorrow will be a lot better

cchang,

hi, i am a stay-at-home mom living in sf. my baby girl is called valerie and she just turned 10months old.

sy_mom,

how is the nanny doing? my friend has just hire a part-time nanny (1:00-9:30pm) that can drive and pick up her baby at nursery in the afternoon.

I am thinking to train valerie to sleep on her own next month.....i am getting nervous now

, hehe. i also want to cut her nite time feeding as well but my mom kind of hesitates.

i dont have sunburnt problem living in sf, it is always cool and cloudy in the summer. whenever i go to the south bay, i enjoy the sun a lot

whalebb,

you think you must have spoiled her husband

. my husband will never ask me to prepare breakfast for him coz he knows it is no use... i will stay where i am and stare at him

, haha. dont you think you have 3 babies at home that needs you so much

....just like training our babies...it is time for you to train your husband as well, hahaha.....as other moms say, it is better to train sooner than later.

zic,

did they compensate you, like giving you gift certificate as a courtesty, for the photo damage??? dont feel bad about it, when you bring kurt to take pictures next time, he will perform better coz he had a rehearsal already

nat_mama,

i dont know why i always think nat is 2 instead of 1 yr old

i just told my mom that nat knows what you are saying..about the pen. we both think she is so smart. one thing that i'm sure val knows is whenever we say ' bye bye' val will turn her head towards us and say 'ar ar ar' with her eyes wide open.

when valerie was little, even when she is dressed in pink from head to toe, ppl will still ask if she is a boy

she looked very much like a boy when we shaved her hair at 7 months old. i have bought her a pretty dress, hehe, for her first birthday lah...wish she will look more girly by then.

小肥佬,

valerie will roll over and even sit up while we are changing diaper for her. we have put some toys in her bed and around the changing table area for her to playwith during diaper time...otherwise, it will be like 'boxing'.

Zic, Nillie,greentree and cutie_mommy,

are there any pictures of your recent gathering to share

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Natmama:
Currently, I am also a stay home mom ar, but will start with my new job in Dec. Time passes quickly, so I have to spend more time with my boy before start working!

Little Fat Man:
Yes, I do enjoy being a mommy ar though it was very difficult in the first two months. He needed to be held 7x24 in the first two months. We (My mom, my huz and I) were so exhausted. But he is getting better with a more stable schedule. Are you enjoy being a mom?

SY_Mom:
My home is at North 1st Street ar. Where are you? Are we very close to each other? I am going to move to San Ramon in Novemeber.

Whalebb:
How's life in LA? Have you been in LA for a long time?

Cutie_Mommy, CarinaMommy:
I had my pap smear test at the same time when I had my 6-week checkup ar. I was told that I don't have to go back, but just need to have regular check up every year.

Zic
Kurt starts teething at 3 month old? It's pretty early wo! Please share the experience so that I would know what to expect when Edward starts teething. Edward was pretty difficult to take care in the first 2 months. However, he is getting better after he turned 2-month. He has been developing a relatively stable schedule, but still he needs to be fed at night half of the time. Does Kurt sleep overnight?

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Valbee,

I wish Natalie was 2, then I don't have to struggle about leaving her with a nanny if I want to go to work

My daughter is just really nosy so that's why I think she knows the basic stuff my hubby and I do each day. She recently learned to kiss when we say "sak sak". But she will only kiss her dolls. She only kisses her daddy and me if we kiss in front of her first

She started understanding more around 9 months. She could wave bye bye, wave and say hi, fly kiss, and dim chung chung starting at 9 months. She is also very funny. If she is doing something dangerous, like climbing on the sofa/coffee table, she will say "duck ga duck ga duck ga" to encourage herself.

Cchang,

I know it's hard to leave the baby and go to work especially since they are so little. I never thought of quitting work until Natalie was born. I always thought I can leave her with a nanny and go back to work. Then when the time came and I see how little and vulnerable she was, I finally quitted. Who will be taking care of the baby when you return to work? It will be nice if you have family members to help out. :lol: :lol:

Cutie-Mommy,

I don't have the hearts to cut Natalie's hair. Since there is not much already, I just let it grow :-P :-P :-P

Mrsyip,

It's so hot this pass month, must be nice to go swimming. Don't forget to put on sunblock for both you and Jada

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cchang,

i think we live not too far from each other, although n. first st. is kinda big.

hv u found a job close to the san ramon area? i only know sbc is there. also, peoplesoft, documentum, etc. in pleaseaton.

we've also thought abt moving to pleaseaton after our boy was born. but i hesitated since it'll be a long commute for my husband going to work. also, there're not too many companies there i might be interested to work for.
however, a couple years later, all the new houses in pleaseaton are sold and the prices went up by > 20%. and now ppl started to look for the new developments in san ramon. i also hv friends who live there.

natmama,

as sean is 2+ yrs old now, per my experience, i can tell u that yr thinking abt "don't have to struggle about leaving her with a nanny if I want to go to work" might or might not come true. actually, it's harder for kids to accept a new nanny as they grow older and know more. that's pretty true for sean as we had new nannies at different times.
these couple days, i keep thinking "should i give up looking for a stay-home nanny and just let him go to preschool or childcare instead? otherwise, i might have to stay home to watch him for one more year when he turns 3 (but i think i would defintely burn out)"

so, i strongly would encourage u to start having a nanny sooner if u decide to go back to work and leave natalie w/ a nanny at home.

btw, natalie seems to be funny. i wish i could meet her personally.
today i was very happy when holding my neighbor's 8m-old girl. i feel she's so sweet.
however, somebody (sean) was so jealous and kept asking her nanny to hold her back and said "kui ng hung" (she doesn't want his mommy to hold her).

i wish i also had a girl, but i dare not to even think abt having another one (mentally), plus it's not guarantee for a girl.

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

valbee,

is valerie gaining weight ok or eating ok during day-time? if so, why hesitate to cut her night-time feedings?

we started to hv sean to sleep on his own when he's abt 6m old (but in the same bedroom w/ us). it's much easier when he's younger. now he always wants me to stay in his room until he falls asleep; otherwise, he'll go out to look for me and grab me in.

u're right regarding no sun-burn problems in s.f. our new nanny is from s.f., so she's been complaining abt getting darker skin since she goes out w/ sean every day. also, she's so picky abt eating and always tends to cook in her own styles (although it might be unintentionally).
i think she might quit sooner or later when she's found another job.

btw, how old is yr friend's kid? is s/he in preschool? yr friend is so lucky to hv a nanny willing to work for her til 9:30pm! actually it sounds almost like a full-time nanny to me (work from 1:00 to 9:30pm, i.e. > 8 hrs/day). maybe it's easier to hire a good hard-working nanny in s.f.!

i've also thought abt sending sean to preschool in the mornings and hv a p/t nanny work for us in the afternoons. however, it's not easy to find one, especially for those who can drive. most of them don't wanna work beyond 6:00 or 6:30pm. and not everyone is willing to pick up kid from school due to the responsibilty, especially if the school is not nearby.

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Cchang,
Welcome to BK! I thought you are from Taiwan as your last name spelled as “Chang” instead of “Chan”. How do you like to live in San Jose or the US?
Anyway, how long have you been seeing your OB? Is a he or she? I prefer to have a guy this time as I agree with other moms here (also my own experience now) that guys are more careful, more detailed, more gentle, and paying more attention to their patients, comparing to the female doctors. When I delivered my bb, the substitute (is a guy) was much better and nicer than my original OB!
Sometimes, I really feel upset about myself as I can’t control my emotion (I’m not like that before). Thank your for your offer. I will definitely let you know when I need to talk to someone.

Babygigi,
When I was still a teenager, sometimes I would pray to the god too even though 我唔係基督/天主教 also. Maybe it’s because I used to study in 天主教 school. Now, I think I totally forget how to pray to the god.
Anyway, I know what you are talking about. I know, I know it’s a way to relieve pressure/depression after “talking” to the god. I haven’t thought of it. Maybe I will try it again if necessary.

Whalebb,
Recently, we are watching Healing Hands III. It’s not a 好笑的電視劇, but we do rent 電視劇 constantly. For me, I don’t really love to watch TV. I prefer surfing on the net.

SY_Mom,
I really thank my husband for supporting me. Without him, I guess I would have died long time ago…..

Little Fat Man,
I know 離家出走 can’t do anything, but I did feel better while I was outside. That’s why later I called my husband and let him come to see us.

Natmama,
I am struggling real hard with my emotion. But next time (hopefully no next time), I will definitely let my husband know where I go.

Leohannachan,
At the dim sum gathering, you could see me was kind of “normal” in front of people. My emotion was changed so fast that I was unable to think of what to do…. only knew crying.

Mrsyip,
I usually do talk to my husband when I’m upset, but that day I think I really needed some time off from the world. I never felt that way in my life. I guess my emotion was really really bad that night….

Cutie_Mommy,
I had a natural birth too. I feel I have recovered but the OB said I still have a little bit of blood coming out from the stitches. My husband also feels she’s not a gentle doctor. Anyway, there’s still some time before the next check-up (in Nov). Will think about it later.

Valbee,
My husband and I have married for 9 years already, and we were together for 3 years before the marriage, so total 12 years. I had almost committed suicide in the first year when we were together. Well, it’s nothing really wrong with our relationship, but he persuaded me to choose between him and my boyfriend in HK. For sure, I made a right choice!

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

SY_Mom

I guess most of toddlers are jealous animals..I remember that I participated in a friend of my husband's party, his wife was holding mini-matt and playing with him. Her 3-year-old son just kept grabbing her shirt and saying " MA MA".. She gave me back mini-matt and made a bashful face..I said to her, her lovely boy was jealous ...

Before mini-matt, I stayed in Ohio in Dec for 3 weeks. At that time, it was winter and snowy, no sunshine.. After I came back to LA, my husband told me that I looked like Korean because my skin color was so light..But now, the colour is getting dark..He (or some people) said I looked like a Philippino ...

Natmama

Nat is so smart, she can respond to you at her age. My mini-matt is only a trouble-maker, he broke my cup yesterday. I had to clean it up immedately and
threw it away ( I didn't tell big matt about it yet )
Do you remember I bought the learning table for mini-matt a few months ago ? At the beginning of the day, I would put it in the middle of the jail, so he could scoot around it.. A week ago, he started to turn it upside-down. This morning, I put it against the gate, he did it again ..

Maybe he's sick of it already..

cchang57

I'm glad you're still enjoying being a mom..

At the beginning, I wouldn't really enjoy it too much, I was so frustrated and it was a most difficult job in my life..Luckily, my little one was so nice to me, he wouldn't cry too much (even my neighbor didn't know that I gave birth to him for 2 months). He would sleep 3-4 hours during the night.. He was so quiet all the time.. So I still could go to the internet..

..I got over it pretty fast..
Now he sleeps all night and eats more..it seems like everything is back on track. I'm delighted to see my little boy everyday ..

He's so docile so far..

valbee

Sometimes if we want to take a breath, we should leave the house and walk around..As natmama says, we should tell our husbands before we disappear

. Now my husband can " 離家出走 " , not me la.. I prefer to stay at home and chat with my friends on the internet . :mrgreen:
I do give him lots of toys when I change his diaper, even if I offer him the toothbush or mouthwash bottle ,it doesn't work for him anymore.. The world war 3 always happens to us ..

All,

I can't typy chinese anymore..
:-( :-( . I don't know why the icon of my chinese input disappeared this morning, I tried to install it again on the internet. It was successful, but the icon is still missing.. Can anyone help me ? tell me what I should do ? Many thanks

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發表於 05-8-12 01:24 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Little Fat Man,

I agree our babies are getting smarter and naughtier. Since you mentioned that Mini-Matt broke your cup, one time when Natalie was in the kitchen, she threw a jar of bb food on the tile floor and splashed all ove the place. I have a gate that blocks her from the stairway between the family room and the kitchen, but 2 days ago, she managed to open the gate on her own and crawled up

Natalies doesn't seem too interested in toys either, she will play with them for awhile and then tackle my laptop or my purse

She will pull my hands away from the laptop and type on it herself. One time I was using MSN Messenger, she sent out a few messages *&*%(#*&(&$

CarinaMommy,

Just take it easy and becareful when you go out. Can your ob prescribed you some "happy drugs"

Sy_Mom,

I know there will never be a good time for me to leave Natalie with anyone other than myself. The plan is to hire someone early next year while I stay home with her until she is adjusted to the nanny. Then once I go back to work, my grandmother will come over to the house in the morning. It's so hard

I thought about bringing her to preschool when she is 2 but I will need someone to do the housework and cooking anyways so might as well hire help at home. When you get a chance to visit LA, we can sure meet up so Sean and Natalie can play together

I rather bring Natalie to play with other children then to have another one myself. It's too much commitment and responsibility. My hubby and I love to travel and it's just easier bringing 1 kid.

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