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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

小肥佬 & valbee,
佢哋話個電腦壞咗. 所有相都destroyed 晒!!!!!!! (但我好唔明, 點解佢哋無back-up??)
佢哋都有退到錢, 另加store credit. So可以免費影多一次. 今次再攞啲更靚嘅衫去影.

Natmama,
Natalie 咁搞笑, 咁識鼓勵自己. 第時我都要搞阿仔講 “掂掂掂”先.

Cuttimom,
你屋企邊part亂呀??我見唔到噃. 一定要再meet meet先. 因仲未見過令郎 & 我好掛住clarice.
阿仔今日剪光咗個頭, 唔知仲啱唔啱你兩公婆口味呢??

Cchang,
阿仔真係吽緊牙仔. 宜家啲bb實在太好營養, 所以3個月就出咗牙lu. 我老公個cousin, 佢個仔都係3個月出咗兩隻.
我因為餵人奶, 有次阿仔食奶時咬我, 我都覺得奇怪, 平時唔會o架嘛. 緊住又見佢成日流口水. 加上有次佢喊, 抱都唔收聲, 非常忟憎, 又係咁 “失”隻手指入個口, 咁我就好肯定佢開始吽牙. 阿仔呢兩日個額頭都有啲 “hing”.
Edward 咁好可以有個steady schedule. 阿仔仲未得呀, 宜家佢又吽牙, 所以有時隔個半 / 兩個鐘餵1 次奶. 希望佢啜咗, 個人會冷靜啲, & 個口仔舒服啲. 阿仔都要夜晚起身食奶, 仲未瞓過夜. 不過呢兩晚剩係起咗一次, 希望係個好開始啦.
你餵人奶定formula?? Edward宜家有冇扭計要你抱?? Kurt 成日都要attention, 我一唔陪佢, 佢就eh我.

小肥佬,
因我電腦係中文window, 所以我都係照字譯英文. 有啲名可能錯. 你follow 嗰啲 bracket letter 啦.
start > control panel > regional & language > language; click Details (d) > At set up; at prepared input language (L) 有個scrolldown box, 揀 “中文 (台灣)-中文 (繁體)-美式鍵盤 ”. press ok 2次.
唔明可再問. 希望可以幫到你啦.

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發表於 05-8-12 08:43 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Hi Nillie, Zic and all us mami, How's you guys doing ar?

Nillie, i got your email lu, thanks ar..How's your work? Hard work? Amanda birthday..Happy Birthday to her (kisskiss her sin) ! I said the pics of Amanda lu..she's so cute and Zic's son (Kurt,hope is right?

) so handsome, i feel much better now, just cant handle his kids sometime! My hubby his 2 kids, daughter is 13yrs old soon, son is 7 yrs old, American children..hmm..i cant handle it..very naughty..i think..i will be crazy soon..they argue all the time...i remember one time, he cried bc of his sister, he cried like a baby, his sis and me looking at him and smile..just smile..and he said something..its very hurt me, in that moment..i really want back to HK..but i know he just a child..i need to forgive him! and I hope it will be better when they back to school..bc make me crazy everytime when they argue..

Wendy

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發表於 05-8-12 09:47 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

小肥佬,
唔記得同你講. 搞掂晒, 要restart 過部機, ok?

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發表於 05-8-13 00:58 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Zic

唔該晒你呀, 我跟左你個方法 (雖然大家部電腦有d唔同),restart 左部機,就得啦..不過,我發現,呢個中文輸入法.同我之前既,唔同,因為有好多口語化既字,都打唔倒..如"口左"
"口個" "口野" "口地"等字..不過, 問題絶對唔多..我有得打中文,我就已經好開心和滿足..真係萬二份唔該晒你呀 ..

無晒相,咁你地咪好心痛? 我相信,一定好多人投訢啦..雖然話可以免費再影過, 但係唔同時間, 個效果都會唔同..不過, 都無計啦..

natmama,

係呀..有時真係睇住亞仔一日比一日長大, 會覺得佢禽日,都唔做既動作,今日佢都肯做..佢地既變化真係日日唔同.
好似禽日咁, 佢係個小形trash can 攞左個唔要既tissue box出嚟玩,咁我見到無乜危險性,咁未又佢攞嚟玩, 點知轉個頭,佢手上個box 唔見左.我寧過d, 願來,佢放番落個trash can 入面..係同一個位置(因為個trash can 上面放左一部家庭式既 paper shredder, 所以個口只有好緊餘既空間比我地掉個tissue can, "實"入去" 我睇完之後,立刻錫左亞仔一啖,係咁講" good mini-matt". 不過, 我相信,佢唔知發生乜野事囉..

我記得你話nat 好鍾意攪你個purse既? 原來mini-matt 好鍾意攪我既wallet, 之後,係入面,攞左我d bills, 就掉低個wallet, 轉身走人.. 我緊係捉番佢啦, 我搶番,佢就衣嘩鬼叫. 我話" 大佬,錢嚟架."

各位,

聽聞 BK 可能有病毒喎 , 有人中左招..你地有無裝番個 virus alert 咁之類既software 呀?

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Shiba_Inu

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發表於 05-8-13 04:52 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

小肥佬,

See if this website helps u to install the HK words you want:
香港增補字符集

Zic,

Your son is only 3 months old and he gets teeth already! Incredible! Does it hurt when u bf him then?

Wendy,

Hope u adapt to your new life here soon! I can imagine how difficult to look after 2 teens…. And I remember u are pregnant also, right? How far are u now?

ALL,

I had my OB check-up this Wed, and as the OB though that my girl is a little bit small in size, she ordered an ultrasound for me --- it turns out that she is now 3 lbs 10 oz (32 weeks), at the 28 percentile according to US standard. Do u think she is considered small size in HK standard???

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發表於 05-8-13 05:44 |只看該作者

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Hi all,
我有了第二個, 現在六個星期。

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Shiba_Inu

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發表於 05-8-13 06:06 |只看該作者

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Greentree,

Wah! Congrat ah!!!!

u are very "efficient" wor --- want one get one!!!!

Take good care!

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發表於 05-8-13 06:10 |只看該作者

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Greentree:
Congratulation !!!!

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發表於 05-8-13 09:08 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

greentree,

Congratulation

!!!! take care

greentree 寫道:
Hi all,
我有了第二個, 現在六個星期。

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發表於 05-8-13 13:39 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Greentree,

Congratulations !!!!!!!!!
係快手喎...真係隨心所欲呀..

Shiba_Inu

多謝你提供既software.我裝左啦,但係都係打唔到口頭字哦.
你講開個體重問題..我之前對比過美國同香港既 growth chart,佢地的確有唔同..美國既表準係比香港高小小,但係分別唔係太大.. 至於未出世既bb體重係唔係都有分別.我就真係唔知呀..唔好意思..

不如,人地話食多d肉,或者食bird's nest 個胎都會長肉..唔知係唔係..不過,最緊要,要有足夠既睡眠呀..
等我下星期六, 同你個bb 傾吓計,叫佢唔好咁鍚住媽咪, 要重多d 呀..

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SY_Mom

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發表於 05-8-13 14:42 |只看該作者

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natmama,

fyi - most nannies don't like parents staying at home, coz the babies will usually stick w/ their parents so don't like the nannies. again, it's true when the babies are getting older. i think that's also one of the main reasons for our unsuccessful stories of trying so many nannies. the kids know who're their family memebers and hv a priority list. for sean, daddy comes first since he's the best guy, then mommy, grandmas (but both not in US), and nanny always the last one.

also, don't expect the nannies will do too much housework for u. usually the more experienced the nanny is, the less she's willing to do the cooking and housework for u. usually the new immigrants are more hard-working and willing to do the housework for u, but usually they're less experienced in taking care of kids.
i only require our new live-in nanny to cook for dinner but nothing else besides watching sean, but she's already not very happy abt that.

just curious - how come u think 2-yr-olds are too young for preschool?? for me, i'm just a little worried that he might hv serious accidents in school since he's way too naughty.

Greentree,

Congratulations! wow ... u got the guts to hv a second one so quick! so i can tell yr boy is being so good!
seriously i'm very scared that i would get pregnant by accident in the near future. sean's been driving me nuts almost every day! a lot of times i even wanna cry and asked "what i've done wrong to hv such a kid?"

Nillie,

how's it going at work?

seems like amanda is doing very well in the nursery. she's so strong that she's never got sick from there. most of my friends' kids got sick at school at the very beginning.

is amanda's birthday in August, right?!
happy birthday to Amanda!

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發表於 05-8-13 15:00 |只看該作者

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Shiba_Inu,

i think the average newborn size is abt 6+ lbs in HK and 7+ lbs in US. also, girls tend to be a little lighter than boys.

frankly, i don't really trust in the ob. doctors for the estimated birth weight.
my ob doctor estimated my boy's weight was abt 5 lb 10 oz at 33rd or 36th-week pregnancy. and she told me it's good size for me (petite size), coz it would be abt 6+ lbs at birth. however, he ended up to be 8 lb 1 oz at birth (on due date). the ob doc. was also so surprised and kept saying "small mama, big baby"!
maybe that's one of the reasons that i hv a tough labor (31-hr induced labor, then ended up w/ c-section). when everybody (american or asian) knew that i had a newborn of 8+ lbs, they all said that most likely i would need to hv c-section (since i'm so petite).

also, one of my friend's ob doc told her that her bb was over-sized by abt 4 weeks ahead. however, her bb was not even 7 lbs yet although they haven't changed the due date.

i understood how u feel ... coz i also worried that my bb might be underweight at birth (i'd gained abt 26 lbs throughout my whole pregnancy). that's why i asked my ob doc for the estimated birth weight. when she told me that he'll be 6+ lbs, i worried that he might be even lighter than that.

so, don't worry too much! i think 6-7 lbs at birth are good sizes for asians. as long as the bb is healthy, eat well and sleep well, u can't believe how fast they grow in the first 4 to 6 months after birth!
i hv friends whose babies were born at 5+ to 6+ lbs (w/ very smooth delivery) but ended up they grew up to be 90-95%tile on the growth chart.
sigh ... my case is just the opposite!

another extreme case: a friend whose bb was born at 30th week of pregnancy (so very low birth weight and needed to be keep in the ICU til full term). so, our church had been praying for that bb. however, u can't believe he's born at 30th week, coz he's just so ... ooo fat now. u can tell he must be at least at 100%-tile on the growth chart. i joked that maybe people'd been praying too much for him!

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發表於 05-8-14 03:39 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

greentree,

congratulations....so glad to hear the good news

i am planning to have another one next year...wish i will as efficient as you, haha

sy_mom,

if your boy is very naughty and is out of your control, it is not a bad idea to bring him to a pre-school early. at school, he will learn to discpline himself, learn to share and get to know that he is not the 'king'...at least at school, he is not

.

shiba_inu,

i will send you the sample next week...take care.

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發表於 05-8-14 04:10 |只看該作者

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Greentree,

Congratulations!!! Hope you won't have any morning sickness :-P :-P :-P

Little Fat Man,

Can't wait to see you next week

Sy-Mom,

So far, Natalie doesn't really have a preference as to whose taking care of her. Maybe becuz she is used to being at my parents' house and she feels comfortable hanging out with them even w/o my hubby and I around. Like last night, my hubby and I had dinner plans so my sister and her friend came to our house to watch her, she was just as excited and behaved as usual. Even when we got home, she just looked up and smiled at us. One thing I tried to do when we had our nanny was I would go upstairs or do my own thing so the nanny can interact with Natalie one-to-one. Then when the nanny did the cooking/cleaning, I will play with Natalie. By the time Natalie is 2, I think there won't be as much "baby" caring as before. I only expect the nanny to feed her and keep her from harm while we're away from home. All the disipline will still be done by my hubby and me. If it ends up that she still cannot manage all the housework, then I will continue hiring my housekeeper to help out. It's still too soon for me to say now, we just plan on going with the flow and see how Natalie reacts before making any changes. I don't want to put her in preschool so soon becuz I want her to enjoy the environment of home until she's 3. By that time, she will definitely be ready for a structured daily routine and the companion of other children. Plus, she will be going to school for at least 16 yrs so no rush.

Zic,

Nobody thought her to say "duck ga duck ga", I'm not sure where she picked that up :-P :-P :-P I'm sure Kurt will have his own little gestures and bb words.

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發表於 05-8-14 06:00 |只看該作者

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valbee,

i also a bit worried that sean might hit other kids in school, and then he might got kicked out from school.
recently he keeps doing that to those who're younger or similar to his age or looks "lam sin" or "ho ha". most younger kids' parents try to avoid him in the park. however, he'll try to please the bigger kids and adults whom he wanna play with. isn't it terrible? how come a 2-yr-old hv such kind of behavior?

natmama,

sean also got no problems hanging out w/ our parents, cousins, and friends, etc. without my hubby and i around. he also liked to play w/ the nannies when he first met them and when they came over to try working for us for one day. maybe he thought they were just our friends. however, once he realized that they're nannies to help taking care of him, he tried to do whatever to make them go away.

our new nanny just took a day off on Fri for her citizenship interview. when sean woke up and found out she's not around, he's a little surprised and seemed to be happy. he asked "where's mrs li?" i said, "she's gone. r u happy now?" he replied yes "happy ar!" he might think that his wish came true.

greentree,

i don't know if i should hope u hv no morning-sickness or not. reason being .... it seems to me that my friends' kids are so behaved and easy to take care of while my friends got so bad morning-sickness. i'm also a live-example ... i got no morning-sickness at all throughout my whole pregnancy. but probably u've heard abt the stories of our boy ...

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發表於 05-8-14 09:50 |只看該作者

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Hi Greentree,
Congratulations!

Wishing you a very easy & smooth pregnancy! My kids are 4 years & 3 months apart. I will I didn't wait that long to have the second one!

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發表於 05-8-14 15:43 |只看該作者

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natmama,

係呀,好期望下星期,見到你地.仲有winnie 既"九大鬼".

greentree,

我就一定希望你無乜morning sickness 啦..仲要記得一定要成日笑呀..好似個時我有左咁, 我都無乜morning sickness 架,作嘔都無, 行得,食得,仲要成日保持心境開朗..亞仔出左世,無乜杻計, 喊都唔多, 連佢個forehead 瘀左,我都唔知佢幾時整親, 係人見到佢,都話佢係 " happy baby"...雖然,都未意識到, 乜野叫做" NO", 但係so far 都叫做, 唔難揍, 都係我自我情緒控制范圍之內囉... :mrgreen:

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發表於 05-8-15 02:58 |只看該作者

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sy_mom,

sounds like sean is a little monster

and you are so fed up with it

i have not met sean, so it is hard to tell how 'naughty' he is. do you think he is just naughty naughty or does he behave too hyper and too quiet during the day? kids that have mood problem can be violent. i am not saying that there is something wrong with sean but if you think his 'naughty' behavior is very extreme, it'd be better to consult a pedi.

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Natmama

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發表於 05-8-15 03:08 |只看該作者

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Little Fat Man,

Let me know if you want me to go visit you on Tuesday, you know I'm always free so if you're too bored, we can do something ga

Sy-Mom,

Wow, sounds like Sean might really be better off going to school. Or you might consider staying with him for a little longer. Hope you will find a good solution :lol: :lol:

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