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我唔知你BB之前半夜係點, 所以我唔敢講算唔算成功, 但你做到半夜拍番佢訓覺而吾係即餵佢已經好好, 之後5:30AM佢喊得好大聲你就餵佢都無錯, 因為4點幾佢已經乖左一次, 係一個好開始, 不過下次就算佢4點幾唔再醒, 5點幾好大機會都會醒, 因為好多BB戒到夜奶都過唔到5點幾呢關, 需要一D時間, 繼續努力吧, 希望你再有好消息與我們分享
P.S. 5:30AM呢餐唔洗餵到佢飽, 只要令到佢訓番就OK, 因為你之後還要照番你個時間表既第一餐來進行架

原文章由小田於 08-8-13 09:46 AM 發表

Hi QueenieChan,

我都唔知算唔算成功, 你可唔可以幫我睇下?尋日朝早6am,9:30am(因為奶奶話bb係茶樓喊得太勁所以早佐半個鐘食奶), 2pm(bb訓佐所以奶奶又遲佐半個鐘餵奶), 6pm, 10pm, 到今朝4點幾又ee all all, 我又拍下佢就可以訓到5:30am, 之後喊得好大聲我唔忍心就5:45am餵佢食奶!

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1. 16-17小時只係一個建議時間, 但有些BB係訓得比較少, 有些比較多, 訓唔夠16-17小時亦唔代表有什麼嚴重問題, 所以你不用太著重呢個指標, 更加不用擔心, 你見你BB玩時夠精神就OK

2. 我阿B有時食完都唔訓架, 直到下一餐, 但你可以照樣放低佢, 佢可以小睡幾耐, 佢自己決定

3. 有D bb係實行呢個固定作息既時間表既初期, 係會有D反覆, 是正常的, 因為BB都要時間來調節呢個新既作息方法, 俾D時間佢, 佢習慣左之後, 佢就會自自然然最後一餐後就會好眼訓要訓覺, 我阿B之前都係咁, 未習慣果時, 表現異常反覆, 但習慣左之後, 就穩定下來不再反覆了

4. refer to answer no.3

5. 我阿B之前, 夜晚食完最後一餐(其實冇話幾點係最後, 因為以前係唔定時的, 佢餓就埋身餵)好多時都唔訓的, 有時十點幾訓左, 有時一點都未訓, 好精神咁, 半夜有時仲起兩次身!!! 朝早又唔定時, 有時十點幾先第一餐, 因為我以前都係睇阿B頭黎餵, 以為佢話點就點, 後來我學左呢個固定作息方法後, 阿B夜晚食完奶就一定會眼訓, 但係佢穩定之前, 有幾日反覆期架, 所以你都唔好放棄, 繼續努力, 你肯堅持, BB將來身心健康都係靠你呢位媽媽架喇

原文章由 tongbetty 於 08-8-13 02:58 PM 發表

queeniechan2004,

I keep the 3-hr. feeding schedule but my bb's sleep remains very unstable in the past two days

yesterday, 1st feed at 7 a.m., then she never sleeps, and cries till 10 a.m., then play till 10:50 a.m., then she sleeps till next feeding 1 p.m. (I wake her up), after feeding, she plays till 2:30 p.m. and sleep till next feeding at 4 p.m. (I wake her up), after feeding, she plays till 5 p.m. and sleep till 7 p.m. for feeding (I wake her up also), so overall, during daytime, except 7 a.m. feeding, she can keep the
feeding--> alert time ---> nap.

however, after 7 p.m. feeding, she does not sleep and keep crying on and off, I feed her a bit early 9:50 p.m., she uses to drink 100 ml breastmilk, but after this feeding, she seems still very hungry and I give her 30 ml more, finish feedig at 11 p.m., sadyly, she never sleeps and keeps crying, very headache, my husband cannot tolerate and feed her again at 12 a.m.

she wakes up at 4:00 a.m. and after feeding, she cannot sleep and cries, as we are so tired, we bring her to sleep at our bed, I wake her up to feed at 7 a.m., after that, she sleeps till 9:30 a.m., we wake her up to take bath and feed her at 10 a.m., she sleeps at 11 a.m. and I wake her up to feed at 1 p.m., after that, I put her to sleep at 2:15 p.m., she cries a bit and then sleeps, still sleeping now.

pls advise on the following:

1. it is said that newborn sleeps 16+ hr a day, my bb sleeps very little, if now including sleeping at feeding, (as she used to sleep when she drinks milk and she drinks too long, always 30 mins.+, sometimes 1 hr), she sleeps around 10 hr a day only

2. I think she is adjusting to the feeing---> alert time--->nap schedule during daytime, but if she never sleep after aler time and keeps crying (just like 7 a.m.), what to do?

3. very headache at nite she does not sleep after 10 p.m. feeding and keeps crying, what to do? it is hard and tired to hear her crying at nite. (daytime is better)

4. also after midnite feeding at 4 a.m., she also does not sleep

5. can you share your son's nite time sleeping befor he could sleep overnight

thanks a lot

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尋日試左一日,基本上 daytime 既 schedule 都 ok.
0815..1145...1515...1845...2200 (只係有時有10-15mins 偏差)
不過可能尋日出左街,阿仔勁瞓,所以攪到夜晚食完嗰餐都未瞓,扭左一陣, endup 23xx 先瞓,跟住今朝佢 0450 醒左,我見佢冇乜出聲,所以吾理佢,卒之佢成 0620 喊食,甘我就係甘而 feed 左90ml (normal 120-130ml) 不過食完佢吾肯瞓,喊吓抱吓去到 0815 再食過,可能佢眼瞓得制,食左 90ml 又瞓番,點整都吾食,所以我放低俾佢瞓,點知隻衰豬瞓左吾夠 0.5hrs 又醒,喺度係甘喊,喊足 0.5hrs,我又終於忍吾佢抱起佢,甘攪法,都吾知佢點頂到1145 嗰餐

原文章由 queeniechan2004 於 08-8-12 11:26 發表
如果佢朝早5AM喊食, 你盡量唔好俾正常一餐既份量佢呀, 求其應酬左跟住俾佢訓, 7AM再叫醒佢食, 當乜事都冇發生過咁

我之前講過, 最後一餐可以早少少, 唔洗一定3.5hrs, 因為早d俾佢食飽就俾佢訓.

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初頭係咁架喇, 你阿b根本都未適應個schedule, 當然係會訓下又喊下, 佢自己都食無定時, 冇晒觀念, 仲未識分夜晚半夜or朝早, 所以要靠你呢個媽媽去指導佢喇, 再指導多佢幾日啦, 你會好明顯見佢適應左個schedule, 定時定侯要食, 再耐d就會定時定侯眼訓添, 你繼續努力啦, 有咩新進展又上黎分享下啦

(你阿b朝早6點幾喊食, 餵完0.5hr又喊過, 呢種經歷真係好攰好辛苦, 你快d堅持多幾日, 希望佢快d乖乖地聽話, 唔洗媽媽咁攰啦!)

原文章由 Truffle 於 08-8-13 09:59 PM 發表
尋日試左一日,基本上 daytime 既 schedule 都 ok.
0815..1145...1515...1845...2200 (只係有時有10-15mins 偏差)
不過可能尋日出左街,阿仔勁瞓,所以攪到夜晚食完嗰餐都未瞓,扭左一陣, endup 23xx 先瞓,跟住今朝佢 0450 醒左,我見佢冇乜出聲,所以吾理佢,卒之佢成 0620 喊食,甘我就係甘而 feed 左90ml (normal 120-130ml) 不過食完佢吾肯瞓,喊吓抱吓去到 0815 再食過,可能佢眼瞓得制,食左 90ml 又瞓番,點整都吾食,所以我放低俾佢瞓,點知隻衰豬瞓左吾夠 0.5hrs 又醒,喺度係甘喊,喊足 0.5hrs,我又終於忍吾佢抱起佢,甘攪法,都吾知佢點頂到1145 嗰

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多謝你既指導同鼓勵

阿b 頭先好叻甘瞓到 1145, 可能今朝早起喇,食飽又再瞓,所以暫時實行吾到 -->食-->玩-->小睡,不過我會努力,睇吓下晝點先~~

(我都係同左你既方法...我就喺佢小睡時用毛巾包住,佢真係冇甘易扎醒, goooooooood !!)
thx again

原文章由 queeniechan2004 於 08-8-14 00:14 發表
初頭係咁架喇, 你阿b根本都未適應個schedule, 當然係會訓下又喊下, 佢自己都食無定時, 冇晒觀念, 仲未識分夜晚半夜or朝早, 所以要靠你呢個媽媽去指導佢喇, 再指導多佢幾日啦, 你會好明顯見佢適應左個schedule, 定時 ...

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原文章由 Truffle 於 08-8-14 12:50 AM 發表
多謝你既指導同鼓勵
阿b 頭先好叻甘瞓到 1145, 可能今朝早起喇,食飽又再瞓,所以暫時實行吾到 -->食-->玩-->小睡,不過我會努力,睇吓下晝點先~~

(我都係同左你既方法...我就喺佢小睡時用毛巾包住,佢真係冇 ...

goooooooood !!

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1. 朝早4,5 點餵唔餵視乎佢嘈成點啦, 不過就算要餵都唔好即餵, 俾佢喊起碼5-15mins, 如果你次即餵, 4, 5 就會變左佢既每朝起身時間, 小心小心....

2. 如果你5點決定要餵, 就唔洗餵到佢飽晒, 餵到佢訓番就ok, 否則好似你宜家咁, 跟唔到個時間表, 整天都會亂左

3. 佢訓醒就唔知咩事, 我初時訓練阿b, 佢都有朝早4, 5 點係度嘈架, 我一於唔理佢, 自己繼續訓, 到我訓醒6點幾, 先知原來佢都訓左, 但佢明明好嘈同埋嘈好鬼耐, 試左幾天佢就冇再嘈喇(咁岩我老公出左trip, 我先可以實施呢個強硬政策, 到老公番黎已經成功左喇!)

4. 矛盾係好容易有, 呢d就係信心既動搖, 佢喊得咁耐, 你set個deadline俾自己, 睇住個鐘, 決定幾點抱就抱, 唔好到時佢唔出聲你又改變主意, 你經常動搖的話, 最後勝利一定係阿b架, 佢好識得挑戰大人的極限

5. 其實你晚晚拖到佢咁夜先最後一餐, 佢好難訓過夜架, 晚晚咁夜訓, 你阿b係處於長期都好累既狀態, 呢d bb係會成日喊, 你唔好怕佢會幾點醒, 最後一餐早d俾佢食, 你話佢早d食就會2點醒, 我覺得只係暫時, 你大前題係要養成佢早睡的習慣, 佢好快2點唔會醒, 其實2點會醒, 我相信只係一晚半晚既事, 只要你令佢新陳代謝正常番d, 又點會2點醒呢? 起碼都4, 5點啦, 同埋你阿b 2點醒的話, 唔係因為佢太早食完最後一餐, 而係佢太夜訓, 根本癲倒左, 對佢黎講半夜2點醒同中午2點醒, 可能冇乜大分別....正常俾佢早番d訓, 試得幾天佢身體就會開始分辨日與夜, 呢個係人體與生俱來的本能, 你唔洗擔心佢唔得! 對佢多d信心, 你擔心太多喇, 咁樣你好難訓練佢, 因為你自己都唔堅定, 對佢一時一樣, 咁樣佢會好混淆架, 你set番好最後一餐個時間先啦, 我嚴重覺得佢有咁既行徑, 完全係因為太夜訓, 長期唔夠訓既bb係好麻煩好嘈架

你同你老公都會好大壓力.

原文章由 小吉梨 於 08-8-14 07:58 AM 發表

oh, 呢兩日唔知點解, bb朝早4-5點就嘈, 一向都係6:30後ga...當時都唔知餵唔餵好. 第一日約4時多, 老公拍下自己嘈下又再sleep, 後來再嘈, 老公起身抱到6:30才餵.

今早未夠5點嘈, 老公抱了幾下, 無用, 便放低佢...今次老公說要比佢哭下(可以因為他好眼瞓... 便自己去了瞓).. bb斷續哭了一小時, 每次十多分鐘又停下...到6:00我自己頂唔住去餵佢...

現在最後一餐食12:00, 不過, bb呢排食得好耐(我埋身全人奶)...食成粒鐘 (近排一般食30min), 一放口又哭, 好似好想食咁..都已食了成個鐘,,,但又真係有食bo...都唔知比唔比佢好啦...(昨晚沒有比, 是因而食唔飽嗎? 又無理由bo...奇...)

想問下queenie:
1. 佢45點醒, 應該餵佢嗎? 都唔太sure係咪餓...我今早6:00餵, 佢食10多分鐘便停, 好似頂住, 抱起嘔了些奶, 又再食, 都係十多分鐘又停下, 有時又狂啜...好怪...不過, 佢可能真係有氣頂住, 後來放了很多屁...

2. 假如5點幾真係餵, 餵到來都6點幾, 咁630仲餵唔餵呢?好似今朝, 餵到來都overlap了原本的時間...

3. 今朝這樣由bb哭, 係咪唔好? 係咪要抱佢同餵先呢?

4. 同埋, 我都想等bb停哭就去抱佢...但, 佢停我又期望佢是睡了, 再等下 ,但唔夠一陣又哭..哭時我又唔想去抱令佢感覺哭就有人來...好矛盾...你地又會點呢?

而家就算食12:00, 食到來都成1點, 掃下風又點幾2點, 昨晚又扭下, 真係幾倦呢... 再提早d食, 佢點幾2點又會嘈ga, 點好?

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原文章由 queeniechan2004 於 08-8-13 20:34 發表
我唔知你BB之前半夜係點, 所以我唔敢講算唔算成功, 但你做到半夜拍番佢訓覺而吾係即餵佢已經好好, 之後5:30AM佢喊得好大聲你就餵佢都無錯, 因為4點幾佢已經乖左一次, 係一個好開始, 不過下次就算佢4點幾唔再醒, 5點 ...

Hi QueenieChan,

好感激你咁有耐心咁教我

, 我個囡之前試過2am又醒,4am又試過, 我跟你教果個方法之後就多數5:30am醒咁咯!其實係咪臨訓前果一餐最緊要? 我發覺呀囡呢兩晚食最後果餐會食得少過平時(平時食180ml, 最後一餐食得140ml)之後就叫極唔醒但又頂唔到去6am,係咪呢? 但如果我5:30am又餵唔到少少因為呀囡果時係一個餓狼既"藏"態, 我試過食一陣"蚊"返個奶樽佢就嘈到拆天,如是者佢到6am都仲食緊!咁我可以點做好?

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hi queenie,

你真係好有心機教我地班媽媽呀!!! 多謝你~~~~~
我都仍然努力幫叉燒b set sch'd....不過發現以下問題...
1) 最後一餐經常都有變....我其實想佢食埋11:00pm果餐先....但好多時佢食完7:00pm果餐, 同佢玩一陣....8點pm左右就訓到好lum....但有時11:00pm至12:00am 呢段時間又會醒要食奶....所以最後一餐好多時都唔定?
2)我已經唔俾佢食夜奶5日, 但佢半夜仍然會醒...有時4am, 有時5am, 俾佢食奶咀, 到6am又喊, 再食奶咀, 到6:30am左右又喊...我就dum到佢點都7am先俾佢食第一餐....我睇健康院果本書仔, 佢話好多時bb半夜都會醒...其實咁樣算唔算介左夜奶架? 係咪就算唔俾佢食夜奶...佢都會晚晚醒???
3)如果食完7:00pm果餐至第2朝7:00am先食, 咁就得5餐咋...
係唔係太少呀?? 因為佢係埋身食人奶再有2-3餐補100ml奶粉...我怕佢唔夠呢? 食多一餐會唔會好d呢???

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Hi queenie
我睇完你個post,我都買左果本書
之前我都係每3個鐘餵一次(奶粉),不過唔係fix死一個時間
昨天跟書講定左0800,1100,1400,1700,2000,2300
我個bb踏入第六週大,佢一向都好準時晚晚十點幾開始喊(不論有無食飽)我地就抱佢氹佢搞足兩個鐘,所以我就訂左晚上果餐係2300
結果昨晚佢食飽,喊左13mins就自己瞓左,到早上5:40醒,開始喊,我餵30ml水俾佢,點知佢唔夠喉,而且仲醒晒...我再放低佢,佢又喊半個鐘,我又再俾1oz水佢...又放低佢,佢又喊...斷斷續續成個鐘
結果連聲都沙埋(心痛...)
如果下一晚佢五點幾又醒,咁我應該點?佢真係好肚餓,食埋手,又"答答"聲

2.另外,本書有一part講bb喊點處理,我個bb除左瞓,就係喊,要人抱佢先收聲,咁點呢? 係唔係次次由佢喊呢?

3. 作息時間係飲奶--->清醒---->小睡
但係我個bb永遠朝早至下午四五點都係瞓,飲完奶就即瞓,根本無清醒時間,點算好? 所以夜晚好夜都唔瞓,慣性十點幾大人瞓佢就喊

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我想問下,最后一餐最早可以幾點鐘?[因朝早可以6點系第一餐的話]

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等我報告吓我隻 b 既情況先....
今日實行左第三日,基本上日頭既 schedule 已經跟到 -
0815...1145...1515...1845...2200
不過天光嗰餐起得好反覆 ..
1st) 0500 2nd) 0620 3rd) 0440
我有嘗試到吾理佢,不過佢越喊越大聲,我怕佢嘈到人,所以都開左啲 formula 應酬佢,吾知係咪佢喊醒哂,結果食完奶都瞓吾番,今朝仲喊(扭)足成粒鐘添,點算好

原文章由 queeniechan2004 於 08-8-14 08:18 發表

goooooooood !!

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原文章由 Fabianne 於 08-8-14 16:05 發表
Hi queenie
我睇完你個post,我都買左果本書
之前我都係每3個鐘餵一次(奶粉),不過唔係fix死一個時間
昨天跟書講定左0800,1100,1400,1700,2000,2300
我個bb踏入第六週大,佢一向都好準時晚晚十點幾開始喊(不論有無食飽) ...

今朝佢四點半就醒,喊左十五分鐘仲繼續喊,結果餵左奶奶俾佢飲晒,之後好快就瞓返... 但唔俾佢飲放落床就繼續喊
我怕佢日日都會四點幾五點就醒要飲奶,咁點算?
今朝佢又顧住瞓,飲完第一次(100ml)掃完風就掛住瞓唔肯再飲...激死!!!
我亞b幾時先可以飲奶--->清醒--->小睡呢?
佢昨天係每次飲奶--->繼續瞓,到晚上七點幾起身到飲完23:00果餐,喊15-30mins到00:15先瞓

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1. 係呀, 臨訓前果餐同朝早第一餐既時間都係好重要, 要關鍵性的, 你要渣緊小小
2. 至於阿b 4,5點會醒呢個問題, 好似係大多數媽媽都有既問題, 我阿b初頭都有呢個問題, 都幾頭痛架, 不過你要了解一樣野, 4,5 正常阿b係會醒下架, 不過喊唔喊係另一會事, 所以我唸訓練佢自己訓呢一part係好重要, 做唔到呢一part, 佢朝朝4,5點醒左根本自己訓唔番, 其實我阿b宜家朝早5點都好多時會醒, 但唔會再扭食, e幾聲就訓到七點架喇, 所以可以的話, 真係唔好理佢幾天, 應該幾點食先幾點去睇佢, 佢唔喊幾天, 係一定唔會學識....

原文章由小田於 08-8-14 10:03 AM 發表

Hi QueenieChan,

好感激你咁有耐心咁教我 , 我個囡之前試過2am又醒,4am又試過, 我跟你教果個方法之後就多數5:30am醒咁咯!其實係咪臨訓前果一餐最緊要? 我發覺呀囡呢兩晚食最後果餐會食得少過平時(平時食180ml, 最後一餐食得140ml)之後就叫極唔醒但又頂唔到去6am,係咪呢? 但如果我5:30am又餵唔到少少因為呀囡果時係一個餓狼既"藏"態, 我試過食一陣"蚊"返個奶樽佢就嘈到拆天,如是者佢到6am都仲食緊!咁我可以點做好?

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1. 既然你知佢多數呢餐都要食, 你何不晚晚11點叫醒佢黎餵呢? 好過等佢自己幾時醒就幾時食, 時間表你定俾佢麻, 唔係佢自己亂黎^_^你餵得咁上下, 三個月打後, 先考慮skip 11點呢餐啦

2. bb就算唔食夜奶, 半夜都係一定會醒, 問題係佢醒完識唔識自己訓番, 但你阿b似乎唔識, 雖然唔再依靠飲奶來訓, 但都依靠左你(或奶咀), 如果你繼續有野俾佢依靠, 就算佢戒左夜奶, 佢晚晚醒左都會搵你先訓得著, 所以點解白天要佢==飲奶=>清醒=>小睡, 就係要訓練佢半夜醒左都係自己訓番, 你再努力呀啦^o^

3. 7pm食完點可以第朝先食, 佢咁細個, 我只係話7pm食完可俾佢訓, 但11點(或10點)都要再餵佢一次, 佢訓左唔等於可以唔叫佢架, 呢餐佢點都要食, 3 個月打後你先可以考慮skip呢餐, 因為到時阿b係可以連續訓11-12小時的.

原文章由 叉燒媽 於 08-8-14 02:25 PM 發表

hi queenie,

你真係好有心機教我地班媽媽呀!!! 多謝你~~~~~
我都仍然努力幫叉燒b set sch'd....不過發現以下問題...
1) 最後一餐經常都有變....我其實想佢食埋11:00pm果餐先....但好多時佢食完7:00pm果餐, 同佢玩一陣....8點pm左右就訓到好lum....但有時11:00pm至12:00am 呢段時間又會醒要食奶....所以最後一餐好多時都唔定?
2)我已經唔俾佢食夜奶5日, 但佢半夜仍然會醒...有時4am, 有時5am, 俾佢食奶咀, 到6am又喊, 再食奶咀, 到6:30am左右又喊...我就dum到佢點都7am先俾佢食第一餐....我睇健康院果本書仔, 佢話好多時bb半夜都會醒...其實咁樣算唔算介左夜奶架? 係咪就算唔俾佢食夜奶...佢都會晚晚醒???
3)如果食完7:00pm果餐至第2朝7:00am先食, 咁就得5餐咋...
係唔係太少呀?? 因為佢係埋身食人奶再有2-3餐補100ml奶粉...我怕佢唔夠呢? 食多一餐會唔會好d呢???

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阿b訓左, 我又去訓一陣先, 一陣先答埋Fab, sywong同Truffe既問題^^

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原文章由 queeniechan2004 於 08-8-15 08:26 發表
1. 係呀, 臨訓前果餐同朝早第一餐既時間都係好重要, 要關鍵性的, 你要渣緊小小
2. 至於阿b 4,5點會醒呢個問題, 好似係大多數媽媽都有既問題, 我阿b初頭都有呢個問題, 都幾頭痛架, 不過你要了解一樣野, 4,5 正常阿b係 ...

慘啦, 呀b愈來愈早起身喇, 今朝5點已經嘈得好緊要, 我諗住餵少少等佢訓佐之後6點再叫醒佢, 點知佢5點果轉已經食佐平時一半既份量(100ml), 之後自己訓佐(未試過自己訓架), 我6點又叫醒佢飲, 但只係飲得100ml(平時一餐食180-200ml), 咁我下一餐係9am定10am餵? 我比呀b玩頭都大埋喇!

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queeniechan2004,

thanks for your advice

last two days, my bb's still cries a lot, she cries a lot during daytime, after feeding, usually, she can keeps alert, as she takes around 45 mins to finish milk, I usually play with her for about 30 to 45 mins and then put her in the baby cot, however, she always keeps crying (sometimes stops 1 min and then cries again) till next feeding. she does not sleeps for the whole morning,

her pattern is like this:

7 a.m. feeding --> alert ---> cry--> 10 a.m. feeding ---> alert ---> cry---> 1 p.m. feeding ----> sleep right after feeding ---> wakes her up for 4 p.m. feeding ----> sleep rihgt after feeding ---> wakes up at around 6 p.m.---> cry

yesterday, as she cries very loud at 6:30 p.m., I feed her that time, instead of 7 p.m., after feeding, she is alert but when I put her in cot at 8 p.m., she cries, then my husband decides to feed her at 8:50 p.m., she drinks much more (180 ml) than usual (usually 100 -110 ml), then she sleeps, wakes up herself at 2 a.m. and 5:45 a.m., I feed her both time, I then feed her again at 8 a.m. (not the 7 a.m. as usual as it is so near to the previous feeding at 5:45 a.m.), after feeding, she never sleeps and keeps crying, then after 10 a.m. feeding, she keeps crying till now (already 45 mins.)

I feel very headache for her continuous crying, she can cry 1 hr +, more than the book suggest 30 mins., she sometimes splits out the milk, very poor, I try not to carry her, but feel so hard, esp. my husband cannot tolerate her crying and sometimes suggest to feed her earlier. so the scheudule is sometimes unstable

any suggestion to make her cry less, she cries 1 hr.+

sometimes, she cries more than 30 mins., I pick her up and after she stops crying, I put her down again, she continuous to cry, am I right to pick her up?

I wrap her with blanket to sleep hoping to keep her feel secure but she always kick all the blanket away, how to solve this problem

she cries very loud before next feeding, does it mean she does not have enough milk at last feeding?

you said you son may also never naps and she still put him down in cot, does he cry also?

my husband always asks is it too early (she is only 3 wks) to train her to sleep or should we carry her more?

原文章由 queeniechan2004 於 08-8-13 20:52 發表
1. 16-17小時只係一個建議時間, 但有些BB係訓得比較少, 有些比較多, 訓唔夠16-17小時亦唔代表有什麼嚴重問題, 所以你不用太著重呢個指標, 更加不用擔心, 你見你BB玩時夠精神就OK

2. 我阿B有時食完都唔訓架, 直到下 ...

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