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禮禮喺歲幾時都成日打人，總之一唔中意就起手打人嫁，嗰時我同老公都有還拖嫁，佢打我地時我地又打番佢lor，但發覺咁仲衰，佢仲覺得打人係啱o既，嗰陣我就決定同老公唔再因為佢發脾氣打人而打佢，相反，喺佢發脾氣打人時即刻捉住佢隻手大聲咁講唔可以，好痛嫁，同埋罰佢企埋一邊唔準郁唔準睇電視同抆耳仔，等佢知道自己唔啱，仲有特登唔望佢唔應佢，試得幾次佢就知機la，到而家禮禮都有時喺發脾氣嗰陣想起手打人，但又知機咁即刻縮番，因為佢而家知打人係唔啱同好痛o既，同埋一定會比我罰佢，諗諗吓其實個臭pet都幾狗同幾識做戲噃

同埋，你要同自己講小朋友都有情緒嫁，都要發洩嫁，我地大人就話可以睇情況忍啫，小朋友唔識嫁ma，所以我地要話比佢地聽lor，有時禮禮發脾氣唔啋我時，我唔理佢嫁，咪由得佢一陣先lor，等佢發完脾氣先再泡制佢，你諗吓我地大人都有發火o既時候，點解小朋友無呢？你試吓將自己代入晴晴o既角色睇e個世界，你可能會容易d同佢相處

係喎，我最近諗梗生唔生多個，生多個又好辛苦同無乜錢，到時多一個實會影響到禮禮，因為會無咁多錢比佢學e樣學嗰樣，同埋會分咗心，我亞媽就係因為生咗我最細個妹之後就偏心到出晒面ah，有好嘢實係第一時間揾細嗰隻，唉，
好彩個死女包又幾有我心啫，如果唔係我實同亞媽講數

但唔生又好似會令到個仔第日好孤單，想揾人商量吓都無，同埋獨生子o既成長過程硬係好似小咁d嘢咁，同埋d人話獨生子通常都有性格缺憾，好煩ah

你地點睇

你地仲生唔生

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Sim ,
係呀!, 我同我D姑奶感情都OK架, 多數星期六就入來成日, 卓琳同佢D表兄弟都好玩得埋架, 有時仲玩到癲晒添, 不過佢暫時都未有女仔陪佢玩, 因為我姑奶佢地全部都係生男仔.雖然Brian d表兄弟唔係香港, 但你可以帶佢多d出來同好似我地呢d有小朋友仔玩, 對佢講野同學其他都有好大幫助, 你有無有小朋友既朋友呀? 不過有時小朋友好得意架, 卓琳未夠2歲時, 好多人都話佢小講野, 但不知為何, 最近兩個月特飛猛進, 講野非常之多同流利, 我同我先生都覺得好奇怪, 所以Brian可能會突然之間講好多野都唔定.
卓琳返個playgroup係之前係BK自組, 逢星期日係大橋街市附近一幢大廈度番, 主要係唱遊, 學習專注力, 親子等...都已經返左接近一年了, 我好小過來元朗公園個邊架, 但黎緊都會去多D, 因為黎近夏天會帶卓琳去元朗泳池游水同去元朗公園睇雀仔+龜, 你呢?你常唔常去?
係咩!原來你地以前係住九龍, 我好細個時都係住九龍, 我住長沙灣麗閣村, 你呢?
卓琳細時都會自己拿匙羹食飯, 但依家大大下開始唔鐘意食飯, 所以見到自己喜歡食既食物才會自己拿匙羹食夥, 所以有時夜晚都令我好勞氣

卓琳通常星期六日都唔會午睡, 如有都只係睡1至2小時左右, 晚上最遲10點我就一定要佢上床, 睇黎Brian午睡時間已有改善, 一個好開始

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Re: 全職媽媽入黎傾下吖!!^^

all,
我諗我唔能夠好似peddymama咁，可以咁忍得，我依家聽完可能會講做得到peddymama咁樣教禮禮，但我有時一見到卓琳唔乖如：唔肯食飯，我就會好勞氣

，真係要向peddymama好好學習 :mrgreen:
其實我都諗住生多一個（如果可以我仲想生夠一打添），但我老公剛轉工，錢係一個問題，另外湊又係一個問題，我唔想好似生卓琳個時咁，因擔心搵人湊既問題而喊好唔開心 :-( ，因為我覺得有多一個小朋友陪住卓琳成長會更完美 :lol:

peddymama：
我上年老公生日同聖誕節都有去天水圍個間酒店食自助餐，雖然唔係好多款食物，但真係幾低食，＄１５０可以去酒店食自助餐，唔錯

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Re: 全職媽媽入黎傾下吖!!^^

ALL,
我己經唔算係忍得嫁la，有時我都因為好小嘢而發脾氣，不過我一望到禮禮個衰樣就有d唔捨得鬧佢，因為佢隻眼珠好圓好黑嫁，成隻小鹿班比咁，有時佢專注咁望實我時會變豆雞，勁得意ah，所以有時會比佢e個狗樣呃到而放過佢lor

仲有，禮禮e排講嘢又係突飛猛進喎，之前好多唔識講o既嘢又係突然間識喎，佢e排仲學埋亞閰老闆咁叉起條腰講嘢tim，又叫佢爸b做大當家喎，又叫我做長房奶奶，喺e一刻我好認真咁考慮唔再比電視佢睇，淨係比迪士尼d碟佢睇算la

真係比佢吹脹，我己經夠脹嫁la，仲成日比佢咁又激又揼，肥c我la

禮禮而家食飯又係好勞氣嫁，坐唔定嫁，嚇佢話唔比佢食，佢仲話好tim ，跟住又走去玩唔肯食，我餵佢食飯真係辛苦個乜，但係佢見到雪榚啫喱益力多嗰d又發晒癲，你話係咪想

佢，所以我每一次叫佢食飯都拎樣嘢出嚟揼佢，話食完飯就比佢揀一樣嚟食，佢而家暫時都仲受揼，遲d真係唔敢包

e幾日又係咁落雨，想去街都唔得，行商場又行到厭（禮禮例外，佢最中意去荃灣行tim，愉城有得玩有得食ma）想去濕地公園見識吓又怕熱又怕多蚊，我地一家三口都係d蚊蚊
o既美食嚟嫁，次次都咬到腫晒，真係怕怕

Sim
快d學打中文la，成篇英文咁睇真係無咁到肉嫁，雖然我喺新加坡讀過書，主要語言都係用英文，但，用中文嚟講嘢過癮d ma，起碼話人好狗ah, 勁乜勁物都到肉d la，我都係用咗幾個月時間嚟學打倉頡咋，好好玩ah，同埋上多d嚟同我地傾你會學得快d

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Re: 全職媽媽入黎傾下吖!!^^

sung米米,

my husband has 1 brother & sister but we seldom meet. Maybe 1 or 2 times a month. Both of them haven't married yet therefore Brian don't have any cousin here. Even all my siblings haven't married so no cousin in Singapore too. Most of my friends in SIngapore have children so we would meet up when I go back. Actaully over here I only know 1 friend :-( She has 1 kid who is 1 month younger than Brian. However, we seldom meet.

Brian had started attending KamLam's playgroup for 3 days. He didn't cry for me the first day but started looking after that. KamLam's playgroup is using Cantonese but we communicate with Brian using English or Mandarin. Do you think it's better to look for a English playgroup so that he can enjoy better & learn more?

I just started to bring Brian to the park. The park don't seem to have many children playing. Many maids!!! Perhaps we can meet there one of these days.

O! I don't live in Kowloon before. I live in Yuen Long since I married to HongKong. Usually I would feed Brian first then we will have our dinner. Because we eat quite late & I surely don't have the time to eat if I feed him.

After going to the playgroup I had changed this sleeping time. I would wake him up at 7am in the morning & let him sleep at 12pm ... wake him up at 2pm & go for the playgroup at 3pm. if he won't sleep at 12pm then I will be very 'frustrated'. I get angry easily too. These days I will make him sleep at around 9:15pm but he will usually 'struggle' till 9:45pm. Last time he slept at 11pm. Very late!!!

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peddymama(長房奶奶),
真搞笑, 禮禮竟然咁叫你

, 雖然我未見過禮禮, 但我有時會覺得禮禮係一個好聰明既小朋友, 好明白事埋個隻, 好識得睇人地眉頭眼額個d, 唔知係唔係呢?
卓琳雖然食飯坐得定唔會走來走去, 但都唔好得幾多, 依家放學番黎, 我已經禁止佢飲食, 但到食飯時候都係無咩胃口, 好間唔中會食得晒d飯, 每一晚就係食飯既時候令我最勞氣同會要我出手既時候 :evil: . 一有得食雪榚就好叻咁話"琳琳自己不呀", 佢依家已經好瘦, 遲d標高我諗得番d骨 :-| .
荃灣愉景新城有咩玩, 係咪有d o岩小朋友既野, 你地每次可以逗留幾耐?因為我每逢放假多數都帶卓琳去行屯門元朗已經行到好悶, 想搵d新地方, 我只係知道愉城成個商場係買小朋友野, 其他就唔知

濕地公園我打算遲d先去, 因為剛剛開實在太多人, 可能9月10月啦, 天氣無咁熱先, 你都不如遲d先啦 :mrgreen:

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Re: 全職媽媽入黎傾下吖!!^^

我今日係春分ah

，不過佢將個春字讀成沖字
比佢激c....................

禮禮係好識睇人眉頭眼額嫁，尤其是佢衰咗嗰陣，佢就會揾對衰眼周圍望吓，睇吓身邊有無人救佢，有o既話佢就會飛奔過去求救嫁la，無人救o既話就即刻c狗咁講對唔住lor，跟住繼續，我亞媽話佢叻過籠，鬼咁古惑，第日實好難教，我最驚佢第日學壞咋，其實我紿終都係覺得女仔得意d同可愛d，起碼唔會咁反

同埋你唔覺得d女仔bb 個pet pet都得意d，我成日見到姪女個pet pet都想咬佢一啖嫁，拎拎吓好得意ah

荃灣愉城唔係好多嘢睇，但佢勝在夠大，佢地下個場好多得意卡通公仔喺度比你地d人影相同坐吓，同埋佢好多時都喺假日有function搞，好多時都有d好大o既過達同好多卡通人物喺度表演，禮禮好中意睇嫁，又同埋嗰度好多嘢食選擇，算ok嫁la，但千祈唔好喺嗰度買嘢，因為好貴好唔抵，買衫o既上jshoppers網度買平好多，又或者去荃灣千色廣場最上嗰陣有好多雞仔，牛仔，米奇老鼠等開倉衫賣，同埋嗰度有d電動車同個小型旋轉木馬玩，禮禮次次去到都起碼坐3,4次嫁，不過我e排都唔去住la，我老公琴日炒車ah，人就無事，亦都無受傷，不過架車就total lost，5萬幾嫁，心痛c我la，但又唔想鬧佢喎，佢都嚇到標青屎la，仲鬧佢又好似好殘忍，只要佢無受傷我就安心d la :cry: 所以e排都唔想再使錢la，慳一陣先la，最多帶禮禮落樓下公園踩單車算la

cokikaki去咗邊

唔蒲頭o既，玩到唔記得咗我地呢

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Hi peddymama,

Sorry for typing English but I need to ask my husband to teach me how to type Chinese Character. Really couldn't find the time to learn now. I need to put my son to sleep at night & after that I will be sleeping too. Also, I'm not sure how to write some of the Chinese words. As you know, in Singapore we study Simple Chinese. I know how to read traditional Chinese but have problem writing it. Anyway, I will try to find time to learn.

Your son is so clever in talking. My son had some improvement in his talking but still like to say more word than sentence. My son also don't like eating especially veg. When he don't like the food, he will split out. He will only have brocolli or califlower. If he had those leafy veg I will need to mix it with fruits. These days he is even more mischievous. Like to do things which I stop him. I'm not so good temper so I will beat him (sometimes).

So, you studied in Singapore before. Do you use only 1 type of language to talk to 禮禮?

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Hi cokikaki,

識左妳真係好,咁我努力忍手唔打晴晴啦,因佢一唔鐘意,就打我,咁佢直情係發脾氣咁打我架,果刻我真係好火,因我軟硬都做過,亦教過佢叫佢唔好打我,我會痛,但佢都好似唔明咁!!

Same for my case, I will beat my son then after that I will feel very sad. Otherwise, I will call up my husband & cried to complaint what his naughty son had done. I know it's not so good especailly when he is working but I really need to speak out. If he is at home, I will scold him loh!

You are so good! After giving brith to Brian, I haven't had 2人世 before. :-(

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peddymama ,
琴日你"沖分"相信你今日一定係明鳳啦

你鐘意女仔, 遲d生多個女仔咪得羅

, 我都覺得女仔係乖d, 但係我都有見過d好百厭既女仔架, 最緊要係睇我地父母點教佢 :-P
下, 你老公炒車, 不過好彩人無事, 你唔好怪你老公, 呢d野大家都唔想, 咁依家要比幾多錢出來, 最近經常落大雨, 真係要小心開車 :-|

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peddy媽,sung米米:
我無唔記得妳地呀,係有時我半夜先上黎,上到黎,係另一邊topic吹水(係吹d無營養既野 :mrgreen: )所以先只係入黎睇,無出post咋!!

peddy媽(明鳳) :mrgreen: :
妳老公個人無事就好,真係唔好再話佢呢,妳諗得岩呀!!
依家成日落雨,真係好易有意外,揸車要小心d呀!!妳自己有無揸車架?我就無,因我係路痴

禮禮真係好古惑呀,咁細個就識咁多野,不過我覺得依家d小朋友聰明過以前果d,同埋難教好多咁!!

sung米米:

妳講得好岩呀,女仔都好曳架,一曳起上黎,仲勁過d男仔,今日我去左個fd屋企食飯,仲有其他fd一齊,咁加埋今晚係有3個女,一個仔,全晚玩得最乖果個係仔黎架,佢又唔會點爭野玩,咁有時都會啦,但佢俾人搶左件玩具都唔會扭計,最多會去攞另一樣黎玩!!

我個女有佢一半就好喇!!

all~~今晚係個fd既媽咪屋企偃飯,我食左成3碗飯,飲左幾碗湯,依家個胃仲好脹!!

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cokikaki,
你係究竟係咪女人嚟嫁，居然夠胆死食幾碗飯同飲幾碗湯？？？你肯定係油浸都唔肥嗰d la，好jealous ah，我吸多啖空氣都肥ah :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( 我未生禮禮時114lbs，生禮禮嗰晚上磅成173lbs，因我係開刀生，要上磅量體重計麻術藥分量喎，我老公睇到成173lbs，即刻話我重過佢，佢168lbs ah，笑到佢差d比我打死ah，連我亞媽都話我係一隻大河馬，你話，我仲有乜生存樂趣，太過份la，我亞媽條腰25"咋，我成32"ah，諗起就火都嚟埋

報告，我而成都成135lbs，仲係唔係好敢食嘢嗰隻，唉......

我老公而家無事，不過就有排搞，仲可能比人告不小心駕駛，不過最多咪罰千幾蚊同扣幾分，知佢人無事我都唔覺得唔開心，咪當破財擋災lor，好在我份人夠癲得，好多嘢都睇得好開o既，一陣就無嘢嫁la，但我老公成日話我唔用腦，而又因為成日唔用腦所以先易肥，哼，我遲早實打佢一鑊金o既

all,
我死都唔做明鳯ah，黎姿咁黑人憎

禮禮e幾日叫我做聰聰ah，你地有無睇無記下晏個兒童節目ah，嗰隻死人洋蔥頭呢，佢見到嗰隻死嘢成日彈彈下，不知睇得幾開心，成日笑到格格聲tim，但我都唔知佢笑乜 ?-(
我e幾日無比佢睇夜晚d電視la，驚教壞佢ah，我問fd借咗d迪士尼美語教學嗰d卡通片比佢睇，禮禮好中意睇ah，成日話米奇係老鼠，點解唔怕cat cat 喎，真係比佢考起 ?-(

sim,
Usually, I talk with 禮禮 in chinese at morning, and talk with him in english at afternoon, I hope he can learn chinese and english at the same time. As well he is so to get to used it.

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Re: 全職媽媽入黎傾下吖!!^^

peddymama,

Chinese??? Do you mean Cantonese or Mandarin? Your son learn fast lah! I had been using both Mandarin & English to communicate with him but he talk very little. I thought it's becos he had too many language & become confused therefore his talking ability is slower than the other kids. He do talk but more single words ... not like 禮禮 can say some many sentences & so 'cute' sentences.

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Re: 全職媽媽入黎傾下吖!!^^

cokikaki,
我大肚時都未試過食3碗飯, 因乜解究咁好胃口

peddymama,
我最近都有比卓琳睇迪士尼, 佢只係鐘意聽sing alone1, 日日放學番來都叫我開 "abc", 會跟住一齊唱abc, 暫時都識由a-g, 但個f音就講唔到, 好好笑

all,
大家有無諗住搞一個小聚會出來見一見面呀?

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Re: 全職媽媽入黎傾下吖!!^^

sim,
禮禮learn cantonese faster than english, because his daddy only talk to him in cantonese

, and my husband also said he don't want to force peddy to learn a lot of things, he want anythings to let nature take it's course.

sun米米
gathering ？sure la，我逢星期六下晏同星期日下晏都得閒，約好出嚟la

卓琳中意唱歌？咁咪好得意，叫佢跳埋舞tim la，拎吓個pet pet 仔，得意到暈ah，禮禮把聲好似佢爸b嫁，好老牛嫁，成把曾志偉聲咁，叫佢唱歌咪即係虐待我

但佢又真係逢沖涼都唱噃

我上兩個月先買咗隻兒歌碟比佢聽，佢而家最中意係嗰首雞公仔尾彎彎嗰隻，禮禮一聽到就扮雞仔唱，好搞嘢

不過e兩日無得玩住la，禮禮e個臭pet發燒ah，梗係我老公惹佢la，真係比佢兩個玩c
唔講住la，服侍咗個小主先

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Re: 全職媽媽入黎傾下吖!!^^

peddymama,

thanks for you to write in Englias but if you think Cantonese can express your feeling, you can write in Cantonese. I understand just can't write

Your husband is right lah! Then 禮禮 can concentrate on one language first. Learn faster too. I think it's becos we never focus on one of the language that's why Brian don't really know how to say out a sentence.

So, how's 禮禮 & your husband now? Youe must be very tired these days?

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Re: 全職媽媽入黎傾下吖!!^^

sung米米,

That's a good idea!! We can plan for a gathering nearby one of these days. I will be free mostly in the evening time on weekends. Usually I will go to the market on Sunday morning. And, I had just registered Brian to attend Kid's corner's playgroup every Saturday morning. So, weekends morning will be very busy.

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