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Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

Irvan-mama 寫道:
我知佢姓名、手提電話、公司地址、生日﹝佢吾知我連個女既相都有﹞；我有直接問c6佢地咩關係，但佢可以扮野死口吾認，話無這個人，吾識，吾知•••我無佢辦法！
我好想踢爆，但如果指出證據，就估到我d料點得o黎，我吾想斷左條線同令佢加於防範，所以我無踢爆。係咪好傻！

其實妳問過妳老公同個女人係咩關係, 佢都應該估倒妳睇過佢d野, 同埋知道妳d料點得o黎啦. 唔係妳又點知有呢個人存在呢 ??? 佢扮野死口吾認, 係因為佢唔想同妳攤牌, 唔想無左妳姐!!! 妳話係咪 ??

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發表於 06-5-16 16:18 |只看該作者

Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

其實，我只講出其英文姓名，其他輕輕帶過﹝知佢5月有個好重要約會！﹞，甚至無提！我講自己知道好多佢地d野﹝亦無詳述知d咩！﹞，同知隠形女友屬於邊一team人！

我問佢講點解半夜有sms，係咪邊個邊個，以前佢唔會古惑地關電話或轉震機，佢好野到睇都未睇就解釋話send錯sms喎！我話佢此地無銀三百兩•••

佢唔攤牌，可能：
1) 唔想無左我，但又想玩
2) 可能與對方未穩定
3) 男人唔會自己提出分手，被責負心漢

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發表於 06-5-16 19:11 |只看該作者

Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

Irvan-mama ,
睇晒你既留言,覺得你好堅強,都好辛苦,送首歌比你,希望你既苦心會得到好既成果.

放生關心研

熱情淡了嗎想抽身了嘛
聊電話也洩氣了嗎
舊承諾應不假卻忍不到悶吧
念記當天處處鮮花

* 互纏著到老不死都疲勞
還是跟你痛快結束
為承諾守得到拍拖都變義務
沒法稀罕你這情操

去吧猶如候鳥飛走吧
未奢想你迷途知返
自由來換失戀那代價
你真的相信值得嗎

是我太過愛你願意放生你
無謂你抱陣我也這麼的晦氣
我亦算知醜無謂強迫你
難道要我對著你句句要生要死

就當愛錯了你就當放生你
無謂你說話裡有這麼多怨氣
我就放開手無謂再忍你
明白放過你是放過自己這個道理 *

Repeat *

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Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

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發表於 06-5-16 23:31 |只看該作者

Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

其實你都好叻啫..
不過既然肯定你老公有女友
問題亦係你老公身上
一個3心2意嘅老公值得嗎
不要忍瞞了....踢爆不是解決嗎
他不認有女友.....是知道你一直可忍下去
他好似沒有意思和那女友分手.....就算有有意思分手
都巳經出賣了你....你仲要等什麽...咁辛苦
想問你的底線是什麽.....捉姦在床.....anyway我都支持你

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發表於 06-5-17 00:16 |只看該作者

Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

其實你而家諗住點呀?? 冷靜一下諗一諗啦!
去或留...... 要靠自己呀!

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發表於 06-5-17 06:16 |只看該作者

Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

我現在心很痛、冷，雖然這兩天c6話自己係屋企與A君打game，好似好正常，我亦相信佢。
但尋晚check番佢之前既電話單，4月時，佢致電俾隱形女友既次數和時間比致電我多很多﹝係我發現很兩個星期，佢地仲白熱化左，係香港時都有背著我通電，和我見面前亦有電話給別人﹞。而且打電話俾我前或後，佢都有call人o地！d時間好似報到，早上8:30，晚上12:00，sms亦多，好SWEET似的！••••我很嬲、很唔開心。究竟佢選擇好未？
我吾想拖，但我係俾緊機會佢，所以會俾時間佢，我相信戲肉係5月份，所以我等到5月尾再CHECK單，然後會有所行動！
因為我知自己要d咩，我要做的都做了，如果無緣，也怪不了誰，可能他倆相fung恨夜！所以我打算寫一封信俾佢，我怕自己太多野要講，面對面會忘記，寫出來會詳細和經過多番思想！

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發表於 06-5-17 08:08 |只看該作者

Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

iravan-mama

我都係岩岩睇晒你個post... 我真係覺得你好犀利~ 自問我就忍受唔到啦~ 不過我都會支持你~ 無論你0既決定係點，我地呢班追你post 0既姊妹都會support你~

至於岩岩你個case，我就覺得寫信都係一個好方法，但係如果真係寫，一定要簡而精... 因為某程度上男人0係呢d時候係會無心情去睇長篇大論0既野...

你ex有無搵你呀? 我覺得約會下都無咩所謂，亦唔怕俾佢知... 正所謂「你做初一我做十五」，既然佢都成日同0個個女人傾電話，約下好朋友食飯有咩所謂呢? 大家唔好俾個「ex-bf」呢個名稱柜住自己先得架~ 唔通結左婚就無晒D朋友咩??

努力啦~ 我會支持你0既~~ Take all the things easy and no worry on it!

Open yourself to enjoy every precious moment!!

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發表於 06-5-17 09:10 |只看該作者

Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

成日要check住個老公個心情我好明白.... 又好辛苦....
比咗禁多機會佢,到最後佢仍然有繼續同個女人來往...真係好心痛....
無論點我都會支持你...

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Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

irvan-mama,

見到妳寫電話單的紀錄, 真係火都黎呀.

妳真係好鎮定喎

, 妳之前咪話唔可以接受佢心中有第二個 ? 其實, e+ 都擺到明佢地係有野啦! 好明顯佢已經背叛左妳. "妳話有朝起床佢叫左妳做 be b". 如果比我, 我 e+ 就會將佢地有路既資料 file 起晒, 要踢爆佢時都有証有据, 唔到佢死口唔認. 敢做唔敢認, 正c6 ! :evil: 唔怪得妳話佢地e-mail 少左啦, 佢地轉左傾電話同send sms, 仲駛咩用e-mail, 要對住部電腦先得 !!!
寫信俾佢都好既, 面對面除左會忘記之外, 仲會因為情緒激動而失控, 會將原先要講既野扭曲 ....
呢個5月, 真係唔知妳點過 ?? 希望佢真係會浪子回頭 !!
無論如何, 支持妳 !!!!

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Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

Irvan-mama，
你個case同我一樣…個衰人之前又係同個大陸妹講電話多過同我講…又係比我見到佢搵完我就搵個大陸妹…sms又係d睇見會殺人的字…我信又寫過、忍又忍過、同你一樣就佢又就過，總知咩都試哂…但都冇用…
之前我都係一個月等睇一個月的電話單…睇到又點丫？佢對你好少少就會心軟…或者你真係試下唔好再咁緊呢個人…佢唔承認但事實佢已經對你唔住…你心底都好清楚…
而家我已經選擇同佢分房訓，唔再理呢個人的野…亦都去搵左社工的幫助…有時，一個人點努力都好…另一個唔合作…只會令自己更低沉。

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發表於 06-5-17 11:13 |只看該作者

Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

好多謝大家！
我都唔知自己可以支持幾耐！但這個星期佢回來時，我都會好好對佢•••儘量啦！
我相信佢吾係無左我吾我得，只係大家太少時間一齊，感情淡左！又arm arm有個人投契•••••但吾等於可以背叛我o羅！
我尋夜睇緊佢電話單時，佢call in，我心情好沈重、復習！
佢話夜d call 我都無啦！我今早無再morning call佢，留俾人地做啦••！

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發表於 06-5-17 12:24 |只看該作者

Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

我睇晒你由頭打到尾既野...我真係好佩服你...
可以咁冷靜..咁理智...
如果比我知道我老公咁對我...我諗我發癲都似=.=
我仲唔 jj 都切左佢呀...你仲要帶住個仔...
我支持你呀...你要同果隻賤女人撐到底呀!!!

唔好介意我一問..請問你同你先生幾多歲?
結左婚幾耐呀??仔仔幾多歲??

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發表於 06-5-17 13:09 |只看該作者

Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

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Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

我睇5月張電話單，係想知佢有無悔意，減少來往，因此，我同佢傾既時間係4月尾，所以睇佢有無誠意、或回頭，就靠這些證據。
我手頭上已經有好多證據，睇佢態度，有需要攤牌時，佢死得心報口報，我亦心死了！
我已開始/學習唔再咁緊佢，我有heart俾佢，佢可能連半個heart都分唔到俾我，又有咩用呢！？可能每日一個人係屋企靜下來時，見到很多屬於佢或我們的東西，但已經不再甜蜜溫馨，even佢番香港，個人在，個心不在時，我寧願見唔到佢•••何況，佢只回來一、兩天，比不上人家天天見•••

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Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

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Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

咁佢可唔可以唔做呢份工呢 ?
睇妳d post, 都覺得妳地經濟環境唔係好差, 會唔會呢個先係解決既辦法呢 ?

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Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

我想同大家分享以下一個感人故事：

It was a busy morning, approximately 8:30 am, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He stated that he was in a hurry as he had an appointment
at 9:00 am. I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him
looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.

On exam it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking
care of his wound, we began to engage in conversation I asked him if he had a doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I then inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer Disease.

As we talked, and I finished dressing his wound, I asked if she would be worried if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him. "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?" He smiled as he patted my hand and said. "She
doesn't know me, but I still know who she is."

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought,
"That is the kind of love I want in my life."

True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be. With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails, sometimes there are some that come along that have an important message, and this is one of those kinds. Just had to share it with you all.

"The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything that comes along their way."

Peace is seeing a sunset and knowing who to thank.

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發表於 06-5-17 13:46 |只看該作者

Re: 聽﹝今﹞日就係啦！你又會點做？心很不安！

Thanks.

我都曾經有諗過, 如果有一日我要以後訓係床度唔行得會點? 我會叫老公唔好要我, 因為我唔想成為佢既包袱. 但相反, 如果老公變成咁呢 ? 我都會一心一意咁照顧佢, 可能我真係太愛佢 !!

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