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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

小肥佬,
我第一個在頭三個就有小小evening sickness, 現在這個還ok。只是有時候覺得個胃有些”ang2”, 好似消化不良。有時候有小小昏(天氣這麼熱, 沒懷孕都昏啦)。我會笑多些。

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valbee,

thanks for yr concerns regarding sean's naughty issue. i know what u meant ... acutally i've thought abt the same concern when he's younger since it's a hot topic these days. i've bought up the issue to his previous and current pediatricians. they both said his behavior is normal. more recently i realized that his previous pedi is a specialist in ADHD. so i guess he's fine since the doctors said so.
i guess i just don't know how to teach him well and make him listen to me. he used to like hugging other kids before we came back from HK in early May. actually he was the one whom got hit once in HK. maybe i should hv explained to him right away that the other kid was wrong.
since then, whenever he likes other younger or similar-aged kids' toys, he'll grab it and hit them if they try to get it back. sometimes he'll say sorry to the kid and "hall" (kiss) him/her back when i kept warning him to apologize; sometimes he just ignored me.
i also heard from some parents that's normal especially if he's the only kid at home and that he would get better if he got younger brother/sister. sigh ... but i think i would need a break for a while.

anyway, do u think it's the pediatrician's responsibility to teach parents how to make their kids behave? i doubted. i think they do hv a time limit for each check-up visit.

greentree,

for yr stomach problem, i think having more frequent smaller meals might help.

regarding the relation between morning sickness and how well the baby behaves, it's just my observation. i don't mean to curse u to hv bad morning sickness ... it's just my own personal feeling. i saw all my friends who got bad morning sickness ended up hv babies whom're easy to take care of. i just rather i also bad morning sickness, coz it only lasted for up to a few months but life would be much easier afterwards.

little fat man is right. u should smile more (i bet u will). sometimes i thought maybe my emotions during and after my pregnancy affect sean's easy-to-get-cranky behavior. i guess i worried too much ... since my previous job was consulting and required up to 100% traveling, i worried so much what if my boss asked me to travel (actually i'd turned down my boss for several times). then i had a new boss after merger w/ another company and got laid off right before i started my maternity leave. i was really upset and felt being discriminated. all my married coworkers (male) told me not to get upset coz it would affect the baby. i didn't really listened to them and couldn't control myself. although eventually i got paid by 7 more months' salaries (3 months for maternity and 4 months for severance), i was still upset coz being a stay-home-mom was not in my plan.

sometimes i feel so sorry for our boy, coz both my hubby and i don't know how to be good parents. my hubby is a computer nerd and workaholic. we both always hv different opinions in taking care of sean. for instance, hubby didn't like it when i told him not to let sean fall from the table while he's standing on it. he just replied "what's the problem? it's not that high to fall from it 'jair'!" sometimes i was just so mad at my hubby and said to him "do u hv any common sense? u've studied so much but those're 'c print' (diaper w/ poop poop)!"

anyway, please pray for us!

shiba,

i absolutely agree w/ what greentree said regarding newborn's size. i think chinese always think bigger newborn size is better.

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ALL,

After looking through nearly all the naming books in the book store, my hubby and I finalized on our girl’s name yesterday la: she will be KARINA!!!!

Same pronounciation as Carinamom’s girl la!

SY-mom, 小肥佬, Greentree,

Thank you for understanding me as a 1st time mom – actually I am not too worried about the weight since my bb is a girl, but the fact that my OB did not want to estimate her birthweight for us seems a little bit annoying….:tongue:

Greentree,

Wow, your boy grows really fast and heavy then! I can tell from his photo that he is “bite bite meat” la!

Do u think your trip back to HK early this year helped with the “fast production” of your 2nd bb? I think mine did!

In case your parent-in-law told u that somebody phoned u yesterday, it’s me! I was very bored with the peeling of ginger, that’s why I phoned u to chat…. My hubby and I could only finish half of the peeling (~ 5 lbs of ginger) yesterday, still need to work on it this week….

Cuttie-mom,

I did not know whether my girl has turned her head down until we saw her under ultrasound last week, we even saw her sleeping face

! (Not very clear under 2D ultrasound though!) And now I realize that the occasional “pulses” under my belly-button is actually her “C-egg”

小肥佬, Natmama, Mrsyip,

I think Pink and Akibobo (in forum next door) both live in Alhambra, let’s invite them to our gathering this weekend! What do u think?

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發表於 05-8-16 03:39 |只看該作者

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Wendy,
習慣美國生活未呀?? 你幾時預產期?? 你有冇shop bb嘢呢?? 近排好鬼多sales:mrgreen: :mrgreen: bb係男仔定女仔呀??
give the best to you & your family, of course your little one

yeah!!!!!!

shiba,
kurt仲未有牙, 至不過吽緊. 真係唔知佢幾時先出 ?-( 佢已經好忟, 希望隻牙快啲面世啦. 如果唔係, 我條腰骨就俾埋佢lu. 其實咁早出, 唔係一件好事. 因無型中, 我要做多一樣功夫

我覺得出牙會好痛o架, 因有時佢瞓緊覺, 都會喊, 塊面仲有個痛苦表情. poor baby.
你唔晒太擔心bb有幾重o架. 因為bb仲成6-8 weeks 先出世. 佢會好醒目, 喺呢個時候最後衝刺. bb會忽然間重好多o架. 放鬆心情, 因bb女就嚟同daddy mommy say hi (又另我諗番起生仔嗰個時刻, 真係好happy嘅.)

小肥佬,

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發表於 05-8-16 06:14 |只看該作者

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Shiba_Inu

不如, 再下一次既gathering, 先請埋佢地啦..我驚咁多人, 我會得失其中一個客人嘛..

...
其實你又真係唔駛担心既.. 只要個b 健健康康, 細碼小小小小,都唔怕啦..

zic,

你對我有"難言之隱"嗎?

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發表於 05-8-16 06:17 |只看該作者

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Greentree
掂呀妳!!!話有就有

各位
我move la
可能要消失一排啦 Chat with you gals later la

Shuba-Inu
我上星期5學車嚇C
師傅12月做第二任Daddy

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發表於 05-8-16 07:06 |只看該作者

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小肥佬,

Sorry, forgot that your husband is out and u need to do all the things yourself tim….. yeah, let’s have four of us “open the ma jing table” this time!

To the best of my guess, it’s Zic’s emperor Kurt who has “ 難言之隱" with u!

whalebb,

Why so scary ah???

I know Thomas has a girl in KG, will he get another girl or boy? Let's kick his wife into our forum!!!!

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發表於 05-8-16 07:18 |只看該作者

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小肥佬,
阿仔尋日影咗相啦. 1毫子都唔晒.

不過今次同上次比, 就辛苦好多. 佢坐喺度太開心, 對腳&手成日冇時停. 我幾驚佢跌落嚟. 兩個禮拜有相睇.

greentree,
你個小b點呀??食多啲嘢呀 & 唔好咁"粗"勞!!
有冇買檸檬??

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發表於 05-8-16 07:19 |只看該作者

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shiba:
Don't worry about the bb's weight, during the last few weeks (from 35-40 weeks) bb can gain approx. 1 lb. per week gar, now you should sleep more and drink more milk, 1st pregnancy, having a 6lbs -7lbs baby is better off for the delievery gar

zic:
You are welcome to bring Kurt over to my place anytime la, since I am still at home until mid-Sept. Clarice miss auntie Zic and handsome Kurt too :mrgreen:
BTW, we might see each other on Sunday at the doc. office too, Clarice appt is at 12. Her belly button looks fine now, so we will wait till Sun. check up.

sy_mom:
Sean is at the terrible 2 zone now, he sure will do a lot of things that disturb you, just be patience, you
will have to keep on repeating telling him when he did things wrong (even though, he might not listen )
try to punish him by time out, don't let him play his toys or don't let him see his favorite TV show etc....
Hanging on there, almost all parents went through this period of time, once they turn 3, they will understand more and be more under control gar la.
:-P

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greentree:
Take good care of yourself, stop running around chasing your son la, be more careful okay! :-P :mrgreen:

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發表於 05-8-16 20:17 |只看該作者

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Greentree,

Excellent! High Speed wow! I think your HK trip really work la... hee...hee!!! Do you have always hungry and sleepy now? When I hungry during I carried my girl, I really wish eat " Jel chai noodle " in HK. However; I am in US. Keep more rest ! :-P

Shiba_Inu,
You began to peel gingar. I think you are prepare very enough. For me, my mom-in-law to help me make the ginger vingar before one month only. I have friend's niece name same as your bb: Karina - she is very clever and happy girl.

Cutie_Mommy,
How's your little bb? Did you hard to take care 2 kids during your sit moon period? Do you have new photo? Would you mind share with me? :-P

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發表於 05-8-16 20:34 |只看該作者

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Zic,

I also took my girl to Wal-Mart studio when she was 3 month-old. When that time, my girl can sit but need something support her back. It's really funny! and she had a lot of smile ( when we talk with her in front of camera ) And one time, I had a same experience as you, they called us something wrong in the photo and gave us take one more time and we got 8x10 photo 1 more Free photo. hee...

Little Fat Man,

Are you lonely?

Stand by you always ..hee...

Today, we went out after my hubby back to home, so I didn't call you to chat. Anyway, I slept 10:xxpm, but wake up 2:30am until now ( I can't sleep ah, woo...woo... it seems a lot of things to think tonight... ) It maybe I miss you

now is 5:33am la, I will get up 6:xxam again, so I try to go to bed la.

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發表於 05-8-17 01:30 |只看該作者

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Shiba,

Check email la :-P :-P :-P Karina is a pretty name. You know the movie star "lau ka ling" is called Karina also.

Whalebb,

How are your driving licenses coming along? Having a good time with your hubby

Happy moving la.

Mrsyip,

How come you cannot sleep ar

For me, it seems like I never have enough sleep eventhough I sleep at least 7 hrs a day

Maybe I'm just a lazy person

Talk more on Saturday :-P :-P :-P

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發表於 05-8-17 01:49 |只看該作者

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Jenny
因佢知我有License 10幾年
佢太放心比我走 Fwy仲走左成個幾鐘
果時勁多車
仲走埋超級斜坡上落山

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發表於 05-8-17 04:42 |只看該作者

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Mrs.Yip:
It wasn't too bad taking of 2 during my sit moon period because my mom helped me out a lot (she treats me like a queen, hehehe) and since my boy is already 4, he is kinda independent so it turned out to be okay.
My bb girl is going to be 2 mos old tomorrow, she is doing fine and now with a better stable schedule, she is not too hard to be take care of and since she has been sleeping through the night since she was 6 weeks old (she now sleeps from 11 p.m. to 7a.m.)
so it wasn't too bad at all.
I haven't upload the newest pic. yet, once I did, I sure will sent it to you guys

Does your little girl start to talk a lot more now?
Seems like you don't need to sleep a lot, just like me, as long as I have 6 hours sleep I will be fine and in a way I think is a gift from God because when we are taking care of little kids, moms usually don't get enough sleep and I am fine with that, otherwise I sure will go crazy hehehehe

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發表於 05-8-17 13:59 |只看該作者

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Zic,

I just saw the new photos you sent over for the NY Moms' Gathering. Looks like Kurt and Clarice will be good playmates. You all looked very good, thanks for sharing :lol: :lol: :lol:

Cutie-Mommy,

You look so good for just giving birth for 2 months. Clarice looks like a very good size, she has chubby cheeks. I want to pinch her :-P :-P :-P

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發表於 05-8-18 03:37 |只看該作者

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natmama:
No la, you are just being nice, :mrgreen: you know after I had my son I had put an extra 13lbs on myself that I can't never get rid of (I gained total of 40lbs during that pregnancy) and with this pregancy I had gained total of 28 lbs and so far I had lost 16lbs only and there are still 12 lbs on me

so just do a simple math, 13lbs + 12lbs, :-( I am still breastfeeding my girl till the end of this month, so far I have to eat very well but after that I sure need to get myself on diet la, I really can't afford an extra 25 lbs on me within 5 years of time!! :-(
Don't know how much Clarice's weight now, she is going for her 2 mos well check this Sun, I think she must weight more than 12 lbs now

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發表於 05-8-18 06:15 |只看該作者

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Cuttimom,
放心啦. clarice 一定有12lbs. 因阿仔先得嗰13lbs. 我記得kurt同clarice差唔多重. 醫生實讚你叻叻.

我哋星期日應該可以見到大家, 或者我哋可以一齊食lunch.
你阿仔會唔會跟埋去??

Natmama,
多謝捧場. 你唔覺得我個樣好c9咩??:mrgreen: 真係俾阿仔玩殘.

mrs.yip,
你個女女都有去walmart影相呀. 睇嚟好多媽咪都係walmart fans 呀. 你可唔可以send 俾我睇呀?? [email protected]
我同老公講, 宜家promotion 先 $5.88, 唔知以後有冇咁嘅價錢. 有就可以每個月帶阿仔影:mrgreen: 真係抵過佢哋嗰啲plan好多.

小肥佬,
我對你點會有難言之隱呢

查實係阿仔唔俾我上網, 所以打唔到落去. 佢至叻就係耍佢嘅喊功嚟威脅佢阿媽. 真係好驚有日警察會搵上門

各位,
阿仔張相夠唔夠英呀??

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發表於 05-8-19 01:23 |只看該作者

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Zic

我都收到你地D相, 女既好掂, B既就好得意.
我一向都覺得ZURT 都幾英下架啦. 黑黑地..

個時,我都有放亞仔件衫係佢頭上,我亞媽睇到幅相仲以為我同佢帶左頂hat..好好笑 :mrgreen:
睇嚟,你亞仔係同你玩緊"有口難言"既遊戲噃.

mrsyip.

睇嚟我地一起要唱番句"一對寂寞心, 是隔開但也近..."

cuttiemommy

我睇過你地最近d相, 你生完,收得唔錯喎..
你地一定玩得好開心.d bb好得意.亞仔唔肯比我抱,我見到你地既bb,好想抱佢地呀..

natmama,

星期二個日, 我覺得好開心, 不過,就係唔好意思, 要你行得咁遠,食餐飯. 之後,真係好似玩左一場gym 咁.. 今朝起身, 亞仔喊,我都唔想起身理佢..

不過,都好期望今個星期六,我們之敍..

whalebb,

咁如果你唔鍾意個師傳,就換左佢..唔好比錢佢揾嘛..

shiba,

Karina, 個名唔錯.我都好鍾意... 諗起亞仔多個"女"伴,就開心..

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