Re: 金鐘區上班一族媽咪∼入來傾傾啦∼ Part III
[size=medium]Compliement proper eating habits
Anytime your child is not playing with her food at the table, tell her you like how well she's eating. Say, for example,"that's great the way your're using your fork for those peas," or, "Thanks for twisting that spaghetti around your fork as I shouwed you."
[size=medium]Make playing with food unappetizing
If your child breaks an eating ruld you've previously discussed, tell her what the consequences are, to prove to her that playing with food is unacceptable. For example, say,"I'm sorry that you stuck your hands into your mashed potatoes. Now dinner is over."
[size=medium]Ask whether your child is done when she starts playing with her food.
Don't immediately assume that your child is being devilish. Ask her why she's dissecting her meat loaf, for example, to give her a chance to explain herself (if she's verbal)
[管教]必須建立在母子間信任,關懷, 溫柔的基礎上, 至能達到良好的效果. 親情的溫暖比嚴格的管教更為重要.
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