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原帖由 bb鼠 於 09-5-18 18:27 發表

普姐你呢句好櫬亞堅哥呀

咁我係真心真意相信会有轉机,得唔得先??!!

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我都好鐘意奸人堅

原帖由 pollyw 於 09-5-18 18:30 發表
咁我係真心真意相信会有轉机,得唔得先??!!

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嘩, 西姐. 我唔駛返工都唔敢咁大膽去博......你在明, 佢在暗; 我會怕.......... 工人好鐘意比驚喜我地架!!! 你warn 定佢唔等於佢唔會玩...............Sorry, 只想說心底話, 希望唔會令你不安...sorry,sorry,sorry.... 也許我要跟你學野,學下點收放自如!!!!!!!!!

原帖由 saiwanho 於 09-5-18 15:51 發表

haha, no need to cheat her since I don't think she could play tricks to me. I told her clearly that if there is anything wrong w/ my household properties or my family members, I would write to Immi ...

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原帖由 pollyw 於 09-5-18 18:30 發表
咁我係真心真意相信会有轉机,得唔得先??!!

當然得啦.......除非西姐又痴又傻

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原帖由 qqqqqq 於 09-5-18 19:47 發表
嘩, 西姐. 我唔駛返工都唔敢咁大膽去博......你在明, 佢在暗; 我會怕.......... 工人好鐘意比驚喜我地架!!! 你warn 定佢唔等於佢唔會玩...............Sorry, 只想說心底話, 希望唔會令你不安...sorry,sorry,sor ...

謝謝關心！

我明白大家的想法，不過我對了中女4個月，雖然條友常常激死我，不過她真的好鈍雞，正如我說過，我警告過所有玩野後果要自負，原來她好上心，今天還問我會不會向入境処評論其工作表現，影響她找工作（！！！）我又乘機說，最後這兩天，如果您肯合作，您好我好。（大家話呢？？？hahahaha）

條友d多餘野一刻都沒有停過，今天她說她沒有向過少主打探有沒有新工人來，只是叫過少主以後新馬上任時代她向新馬說聲 hi...(超！！條友又來法國大餐，多舊魚！！！）我再重申新馬非其族類，叫她“han" 番！

中女越覺得自己好掂，我就越要“踩”到恆！我要讓她知道這$3580不是養廢馬的，只配fit 馬領獎！

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原帖由 saiwanho 於 09-5-19 01:08 發表

條友d多餘野一刻都沒有停過，今天她說她沒有向過少主打探有沒有新工人來，只是叫過少主以後新馬上任時代她向新馬說聲 hi...(超！！條友又來法國大餐，多舊魚！！！）我再重申新馬非其族類，叫她“han" 番！

佢問嚟做乜很嘢

認真多膠魚!

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ok,

thanks.

原帖由 saiwanho 於 09-5-13 01:26 發表

sorry I have never tried any agents within Saiwanho /Shaukiwan / Taikoo area.

For Buns, I usually use the one who sells a lot TV commercials (boosting for their long history and experiences). The ...

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原帖由 saiwanho 於 09-5-19 01:08 發表

謝謝關心！

我明白大家的想法，不過我對了中女4個月，雖然條友常常激死我，不過她真的好鈍雞，正如我說過，我警告過所有玩野後果要自負，原來她好上心，今天還問我會不會向入境処評論其工作表現，影響她找工作（！！！）我又乘機說，最後這兩天， ...

西姐,中女星期四返歸啦?恭喜恭喜~

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原帖由 bb鼠 於 09-5-19 22:46 發表

西姐,中女星期四返歸啦?恭喜恭喜~

tomorrow should be her last day and her air-ticket was booked on the 14th day after her departure from my household.

I feel very complicated now..... not feeling sorry for her departure (well, to a certain extent, it has been a tragedy for both her and me, and deep in my heart I feel sorry for what has been happening with her family problem). I just think about what term I should use to describe the period between her departure from my household and the new horse's arrival..... what term is most appropriate.....? I hope it won't be 另一次淪陷前的寂靜！

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原帖由 saiwanho 於 09-5-20 01:09 發表

tomorrow should be her last day and her air-ticket was booked on the 14th day after her departure from my household.

I feel very complicated now..... not feeling sorry for her departure (well, to a ...

Take it easy,Ms Sai !!

Having gone through so much difficult time in these months, I beleive breaking up would be the best solution to the problem between both you and middle lady. So don't think too much.

I can see your worries 'bout whether the new horse can pick up the job very fast or if it's gonna be another nightmare. Nobody knows, but at least you are right now going to get rid of the existing shit which you for sure wouldn't want anymore, and that's already worthy of celebration.

Pretty sure that, a few days later or so you will find that you have almost forgotten 'bout what you are facing today! Cheer up my friend!

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原帖由 pollyw 於 09-5-20 01:42 發表
Take it easy,Ms Sai !!

Having gone through so much difficult time in these months, I beleive breaking up would be the best solution to the problem between both you and middle lady. So don't think to ...

普洱姐，這麽晚還刨馬評，寥寥數字，叫人感動！

再前一晚曾問問中女，通常這一類婚姻問題，她們菲國的女人一般會如何應付，例如提出離婚、還是會當作沒事發生。。。

中女話很少人會訴諸法律，因爲通常男方都沒錢，贏了官司也彌補不了，而且法律程序也要錢，所以大部分的女人就順其自然，自己背起家庭重擔，有些人承受不了，會自殺，更看不開的會連同兒女尋死。。。。。

說到這裡，我打斷了中女的話：
“I know you and I will no longer have any contacts after you walk out from my door, but I hope you still listen to my last advice"

"mum?"

"promise me please, be strong, your family needs you, don't take the stupid acts about ending your life nor your children's lives, as you believe in Jesus Christ, there must be way out."

Middle lady start getting eyes and nose red

I continue "that's not the end of the world, you can't be beat down, remember your children depend on you"....

Middle lady cried and said, “Yes, Mum, I will. Thank you".

西灣河奉上溫情紙巾一張。。。。。

總之，經過過去的4個月，我希望阿中女都和我一樣，成長起來。。。。

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原帖由 saiwanho 於 09-5-20 02:03 發表

普洱姐，這麽晚還刨馬評，寥寥數字，叫人感動！

再前一晚曾問問中女，通常這一類婚姻問題，她們菲國的女人一般會如何應付，例如提出離婚、還是會當作沒事發生。。。

中女話很少人會訴諸法律，因爲通常男方都沒錢，贏了官司也彌補不 ...

Ms Sai,

Remembering I had once fired a Bun a few years ago, of a similar type as middle lady, in exactly the same way that you do(giving one month notice). Like what you are doing, I whole-heartedly asked her not to stay in the industry to harm any other families. I did treat her well at last and passed her a few old and small electrical appliances. Among those items, there was an old Karaoke mic, cuz I had learnt from her that her little girl wished so much to have one and she couldn't afford to buy one..Right before she left, she looked a bit touched, burst into tears and said, "Mam, I feel ashamed!"

But, I thought to myself, breaking up is the only way out. Calmly I said to her, "it might not be your fault or mine. But simply, you aren't suitable for us and I'm not suitable to be your employer either."

Maybe we are women and passion always goes with us, and sometimes self-contradictory. I can foresee what I've gone through back then might re-occur in your case. So, Ms Sai, forgive me for saying, maid's affairs are somewhat like love affairs, always like a roller coaster bringing us up and down. But eventually there's gotta be a rational decision whether to separate or to carry on. This is life!

Hope your termination ceremony will be the smoothest ever!!!!!

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西姐, 希望你一切順利. 我通常超頂唔住先炒工人,從未試過你這種心情; 有幾獲送走cheap 精後,重全家一起去慶祝添

. 唔須要覺得不安, 大家不配合也無計.

原帖由 saiwanho 於 09-5-20 01:09 發表

tomorrow should be her last day and her air-ticket was booked on the 14th day after her departure from my household.

I feel very complicated now..... not feeling sorry for her departure (well, to a ...

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" Maybe we are women and passion always goes with us, and sometimes self-contradictory. I can foresee what I've gone through back then might re-occur in your case. So, Ms Sai, forgive me for saying, maid's affairs are somewhat like love affairs, always like a roller coaster bringing us up and down. But eventually there's gotta be a rational decision whether to separate or to carry on. This is life! " Wow, I like it.

原帖由 pollyw 於 09-5-20 09:14 發表

Ms Sai,

Remembering I had once fired a Bun a few years ago, of a similar type as middle lady, in exactly the same way that you do(giving one month notice). Like what you are doing, I whole-hearte ...

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中女離職大典完滿結束

首先感謝普洱姐和qq姐的忠告。

中女今晚做到九點多才收拾行李，不過都算好有交帶，所有應做的工作都完成。

不過阿中女確實不夠醒目，已經是一個月前通知了她，她理應可以早早好好計劃一下如何運走其物品，到數天前我還提醒她要有足夠的旅行袋，因爲我最多只能提供普通的膠袋。唉，條友又失預算，又論論盡盡。。。。

anyway,她都算識做，主動邀請我檢查其行李，都沒有特別，不過發現阿中女真是好鬼沒有條理，好鬼"loud gaau"!

整個離職大典都在和平的氣氛下舉行，我最後都勉勵阿中女要在逆境中振作，好好休息，反省過去，從錯誤中學習，回頭是岸。我還把以前她弄壞了我的東西的賠款/罰款全數退給她。中女可能給我的話和舉動感動了，又哭，搞到我都差點把持不住。。。。最後，我都跟中女握手道別，阿少主都一樣。

中女都很誠懇地跟我道歉，也拜托我跟西灣河媽和阿sir說聲謝謝和對不起。我也為我以前某些情況下用詞過激，或言談中無心談到其家人而觸及其心靈傷痛而致歉。

和平散會。。。。。

她一離開，我沒有我想像中興奮，反而希望她能熬過這一関，過去的，對她、對我，大家都累了。

中女一役，令我更加看清楚了我自己。我原來好容易失控，也好容易好感性。我真的要進修一下情緒管理和人事管理的技巧。

西灣河馬評記載了中女的興衰，一個時代的過去，另一個時代又快要開始，這些日子，好多謝各位對本馬評和本人的支持，當中有好多寶貴的意見非常值得參考，大家在網絡上有緣相遇，素未謀面，卻如老朋友般關心，這是我初寫馬評時所始料不及，説來我要感謝中女，是中女叫我重新認識自己之餘，更無意間把各位帶到我的世界裏。

我會退隱數日，靜思己過，為即將推出的“泰駒篇”好好籌備。

再度感謝各位對西灣河和中女的關心，我代表埋阿中女對大家說聲謝謝！

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原帖由 saiwanho 於 09-5-21 01:15 發表
我會退隱數日，靜思己過，為即將推出的“泰駒篇”好好籌備。
...

咦…西姐呢幾日唔玩拿?可以真係要為新泰駒就職及加冕儀式事忙。睇完西姐呢編中女大結局,覺得西姐畢竟是正常女人…都是口硬心軟。

都好,作為讀者普洱十分滿意此結局。多謝西姐的分享。

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期待你的泰駒篇~西姐

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兩位：

謝謝回應與支持！

靜思了一日。。。。哈哈，連我都想不到，我今天早上起來的時候覺得中女不在，好不習慣！

今天更多次不期然想起阿中女，現在這一刻她在幹什麽呢？在agency 等運到？會不會跑了去財務公司？？

mouth:

這兩天公司的事情都很忙，回家都晚了，泰駒已經到港，本周六就職，我又要準備連串的orientation training, 所以要封筆一段時間，敬請原諒！

in the meantime, 請大家盡情評論各路馬匹，bk jockey club's activities can't stop!!

See you guys soon!

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西姐~唔好話你中女無做大錯,我件賤印,抄左佢後幾日,我都不其然望下個廚房,回想以前點樣同佢傾計....但過左幾日,發覺原來無左佢响樹都不知幾happy,成屋都free晒....
無謂為呢亭路過中女唔開心啦

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