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Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

bibi808 寫道:
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pluie 寫道:
bibi808,

講完英文再用中文解釋返呀? 等我試試...

你個職業... 好難估... 老中青都要serve 架? 響唔響醫院做??

我個仔係嬰院湊, 平日好多小朋友一齊玩, 之前有同佢去playgroup, 呢排就冇. 佢平時都會聊陌生人玩既...

hellora,

賓賓d 英文正唔正架? 我朋友個女比個賓湊... d 英文都pick up 左個賓d 口音.... pencil 讀做"pen-燒".

pluie & hellora,
it's a must to let baby learn indecent Eng if u have a 賓賓 at home. i don't suggest learning Eng from this way.
yes, start from vocab. such as sun, leave, book whuch he has know the meaning in Chinese already. and then teach him the Eng. of course, need to make revision often. u can revise in a play mode such as testing attitude "ha, boy, who u know what is book?" then give him some positive regard when he can ans. never scold. another game is funny, like a competition to say out the object in Eng when touch it. see mom is quicker or boy is quicker. still, give positve regard to him. not a must to give him snack or gift, just smile/crap ur hand/appreciate by wording.
advanced course: short order-ask him to do sthg such as "close the door" / give me a book/ give mom a kiss.... and say thank you to him after that.

extra info:
don't worry ur children will "forget" chinese while u always speak Eng with him. once they go to school, they will find the best language to communicate with teaachers & classmates. they will start using chinese more than Eng coz their teachers use Chinese. they want to get teachers' attention.

confused:
yes, ur children will be confused ONLY IF u don't give him explanation. won't u?
if there are over 2 languages in ur home, ur children will start saying a bit later than other children coz they have to digest it with a bit more time. don't ever think ur foreigners can teach ur children Eng, u fool! phil eng is phil eng. i don't want for being rude but it's......my professional. i need to say that coz i care abt all ur babies.

hints:
actually, i need to serve ALL KIND of people when they need me/have problems.

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bibi808
i want to share wtih you i learned "appreciation" when i was in australia May this year, totally different from most chinese who used "punishment" or "spoil", they set a lot of rules and use the method of appreciation, it works, though it's a little bit late for me to learn this method but i enjoy it much

before i learned appreciation, i usually scolded to everybody who was very slow / stupid, of coz i was get mad from them finally, now i notice "appreciation" is very very useful and you will be peace from your heart too

i agree with you, phil eng is phil eng, that's why i said i will give birth if i don't have economic problem, i will quit the job and let him go to national school and bring him up by myself

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發表於 06-9-12 20:42 |只看該作者

Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

bibi808 寫道:
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pluie 寫道:
我尋晚都食左兩支magnum 呀........

i tell u, very serious, also to all other mama.

don't eat too much juke food.
don't let ur children eat too much snack. coz the ingredient inside such as MSG would have bad effect on children's development & emotion. children will easily get hyper while having too much snack coz lots coffein & uneccessary energy inside.NO COKE AT ALL. if u want ur children overreactive or moody without control, just go ahead.
and, children need to use extra energy to digest or get rid of those juke food or toxi. they can't pay fully attention in studying.
but, don't be too harsh, snack can be kinda reward too.

it's supported by lots med report. believe me.

why yogi can keep stable emotion & have sensitive sense? u know why? what yogi eat?? think abt it & u will know

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bibi808
i quited junk food two years and quit red meat from july and started to quit poultry this month, maybe this is the reason i can easily have stable emotion now.....

i read a medical report which tell our teeth and digestive system are not fit for digesting meat, this encourage me to quit meat a lot

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發表於 06-9-12 20:43 |只看該作者

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bibi808 寫道:
am sick'f cookin' chinese herbs every nite, can i quit?

like my vv got that smell too!

come on, lady

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發表於 06-9-12 20:45 |只看該作者

Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

jandt818 寫道:
bibi808
i want to share wtih you i learned "appreciation" when i was in australia May this year, totally different from most chinese who used "punishment" or "spoil", they set a lot of rules and use the method of appreciation, it works, though it's a little bit late for me to learn this method but i enjoy it much

before i learned appreciation, i usually scolded to everybody who was very slow / stupid, of coz i was get mad from them finally, now i notice "appreciation" is very very useful and you will be peace from your heart too

i agree with you, phil eng is phil eng, that's why i said i will give birth if i don't have economic problem, i will quit the job and let him go to national school and bring him up by myself

Appreciation & reward by wordings are always the best motivation to children but not all chinese accept it.
for me, i will not bear a child. i don't want a baby got my bad DNA .

better a witty fool than a foolish wit

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發表於 06-9-12 20:50 |只看該作者

Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

jandt

and, appreciation is a very powerful method to solve struggles & motivate children.

appreciation can used in bad behavior children & it works more than u scold them.
no appreciation is a kind of "punishment"already.

Appreciation can also build up children's condifence & esteem & they learn how to treat poeple nice

better a witty fool than a foolish wit

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發表於 06-9-12 20:56 |只看該作者

Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

只要食得均衡健康,確可減少情緒波動及慾望.
這已是肯定的事實.

better a witty fool than a foolish wit

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發表於 06-9-12 22:09 |只看該作者

Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

Hi! Back from yoga lessons and feel good!!

no time to read all messages again..

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發表於 06-9-12 22:44 |只看該作者

Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

Hi, bibi / hellora

back from power 2 & finished my dinner!

Jandt/bibi
so complicated topic on Appreciation!

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發表於 06-9-13 07:23 |只看該作者

Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

rabbit

no la, it's very simple.
only remember one principle:讚賞!
but indeed, it needs practise.
u will see how diff ur children will be only after a mth.
u will see how diff ur relationship with ur children will be only after a week.

even if they do wrong, 讚賞at 1st like,"very good, how come u can think like this, smart boy? but don't u think it would be better if we.....". "yes, u r great, u remember it's rabbit. what rabbit eat? it's carrot. " sthg like that.

better a witty fool than a foolish wit

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Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

Hi, morning...

Heavy raining :tongue:

bibi
re : appreciation
I always do it ga!

re : tomorrow
Tomorrow I want to break my existing record.. try 4 lessons

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7.15am - Hatha Power
2.30pm - Hatha Sattva (w. friend)
6.45pm - Fusion Dance
8.15pm - Hatha Sattva (w. sister)
Anyone interests to join?

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發表於 06-9-13 09:42 |只看該作者

Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

morning!!!
紅色暴雨呀

我本打算今日玩yoga,cancel law...

rabbit
一日玩4堂yoga得唔得架?

[img align=right]http://www.hk-laufamily.com/_1037.gif[/img]

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發表於 06-9-13 09:48 |只看該作者

Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

jandt
如果你真係幫我d老闆,係唔駛普通話的,因我大老闆係nz人,只講英文,佢d客全部都係講英文的.我都打算12月尾請辭(如搵到工的話),咁時間上岩岩好喎.不過你冇sec experience,唔知我公司會唔會請.

co sec好丫,你考晒paper未?

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發表於 06-9-13 09:49 |只看該作者

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phyllis
re : 4 classes
for me, it's ok.. cos not too tough & can take a rest between the classes. Why I'll join 4, cos my friend & sister will join...

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發表於 06-9-13 09:50 |只看該作者

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why you want to find a new job?

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Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

bibi808 寫道:
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jandt818 寫道:
bibi808
i want to share wtih you i learned "appreciation" when i was in australia May this year, totally different from most chinese who used "punishment" or "spoil", they set a lot of rules and use the method of appreciation, it works, though it's a little bit late for me to learn this method but i enjoy it much

before i learned appreciation, i usually scolded to everybody who was very slow / stupid, of coz i was get mad from them finally, now i notice "appreciation" is very very useful and you will be peace from your heart too

i agree with you, phil eng is phil eng, that's why i said i will give birth if i don't have economic problem, i will quit the job and let him go to national school and bring him up by myself

Appreciation & reward by wordings are always the best motivation to children but not all chinese accept it.
for me, i will not bear a child. i don't want a baby got my bad DNA .[/quote]

bibi808
no one got perfect DNA....it is not a good reason....

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發表於 06-9-13 09:57 |只看該作者

Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

bibi808 寫道:
jandt

and, appreciation is a very powerful method to solve struggles & motivate children.

appreciation can used in bad behavior children & it works more than u scold them.
no appreciation is a kind of "punishment"already.

Appreciation can also build up children's condifence & esteem & they learn how to treat poeple nice

appreciation works to ALL people and animal too....

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Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

^O^ 寫道:
jandt
如果你真係幫我d老闆,係唔駛普通話的,因我大老闆係nz人,只講英文,佢d客全部都係講英文的.我都打算12月尾請辭(如搵到工的話),咁時間上岩岩好喎.不過你冇sec experience,唔知我公司會唔會請.

co sec好丫,你考晒paper未?

sec experience 我有呀, 咁多年都係一腳睇哂全個dept 既 admin matters & private matters of dept head, 我討厭 com sec, so 無考 paper

你點解想轉工呀? 搵半日 part time 呀 ?

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發表於 06-9-13 10:10 |只看該作者

Re: YOGA!! YOGA!! YOGA!!

bibi

are you a psychologist?

why do i want my kids to learn decent pronounciation? this is my character, if i need to learn one thing, i will try my best to learn, if not, just don't learn it. so i also want my kids to learn this attitude. also, if they speak indecent pronounciation, they may be teased by others, then may hurt their confidence.

i agree not to give too much snacks, apart from biscuits, so i seldom give my daughter choco, no coke at all, but sometimes soft drink like orange juice/7-up. if my daughter wants candies, i'll give her milk candy or 瑞士糖,but not too often. my son will not have snacks until he reaches 2 years old.

re appreciation
this is the method we are using now. we learn it from "child of the time".

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發表於 06-9-13 10:15 |只看該作者

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rabbit/jandt
re轉工
最主要係呢間公司比唔到我$.jandt你放心,呢間公司既benefits其實好好,係事非多d,同埋我係到做左10+年,睇到好多不平既事,我唔係咁接受.但如我今日先join呢間公司,我唔會睇到呢d野,咁我就會好like呢間公司囉.

jandt
如果我有co sec quali,我可能已搵緊$60000/mth了. :-( :-(

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