Tks a lot. I also think of the advantages of having boys. Actually, I previously wanted Hei Hei be a girl, too. However, I understand that I love him very very much now. I understand the best things have been given to me.
To have girl is to meet my own 情意結. It should be better to the bb if they are in the same sex. I am much better now and have much support from all of u. Deeply tks.
monkichi 寫道:
dinosaur,
我前幾日同幾個其他月份的媽咪傾過如果生多個, 想生囝定囡, 有好多媽咪都話想生另一個性別的, 包括我在內.
但有一個媽咪話想生同一個性別, 因為將來兩個小朋友會 close D.
佢o既說話對我來講真係當頭棒喝! 我即刻諗, 從我自己的角度諗, 梗係想一囝一囡啦, 但係從小朋友的角度諗, 可能同一個性別真係會好 D 喎.