I suggest you should establish your own life also.....your son already 2 yrs old la.......if you fell gulity, why not take him out with your fds, I think some of your fds also have kids, you can let your son to play with them and you can have some gathering as well.....
I have same case. But husband is stay at home. Usually, we are nothing to talk. I felt our relative has problem.
I'm unhappy and sometimes I need talk to my friend to
share my feeling. Or I may leave him 1 -2days. He may
getting well
I think you really need to tell your husbund how you feel. But when you tell him, you'll have to let him know you are not blaming him or saying he is wrong, you are just telling him your feelings. I know you are very unhappy right now but you should still let your husbund know you loves him. Even when he is busy, you'll call him and tell him you miss him and you love him. Don't just talk to him about your son, ask him what happened everyday and try to know what he is like when he's at work. Is business ok? Are you "sun fuuu"?? Is it very hot in China? Tell him to take care stuff like that, let him know you cares about him. When he comes back to HK, you can just ask him if you guys can have a family day instead of eating w/his family. Also ask him to go "pak tor" with you and you can leave your son to your 6299 for a day. Don't count how much you sacrifice, if you give up on the relationship, your husbund will too. If you don't show you care about him, 3rd party will be able to get into your relationship easily.