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公爵府

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發表於 04-5-6 22:46 |顯示全部帖子

每朝如何跟寶寶說再見

這個問題每天都令我很苦惱,寶貝女太黐我,現在每天都要偷走返工,又怕她發現後哭(曾經試過),車程中心裡很不安!


大宅

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發表於 04-5-6 23:46 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 每朝如何跟寶寶說再見

Dear Julia,

Do not 偷走. When your daughter realises that you are not home, she will feel more insecure.

So every morning please look into your daughter's eyes and tell her goodbye,and that you will be back in the evening to play with her. You can give her kisses, you can give her hugs, but after saying goodbye you have to go and give her a smiling face even though she is crying aloud. You can promise her that you will call her very soon and usually after hearing your voice again your daughter should calm down. At least this works for us. You can also give her toys to play with to distract her.

Slowly your daughter will understand that you are not leaving her behind, and that she will hear your voice again, and she will see you again at night time. It took almost a month for our girl to stop crying when we leave for work. Now she will even wave good bye to us.


大宅

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發表於 04-5-7 23:20 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 每朝如何跟寶寶說再見

After the first time my boy can open and close the doors (main door, bathroom door and bedroom doors), he loves (and insists) to serve everyone. e.g. When I say "I vee vee la", he will run to open the bathroom door for me and let me get in, then close the door.

So, everyday when I tell him "I go to work la", he will do the same gently even he is enjoying his morning bottle, never cry.

On the other hand, he likes my maid very much, so I think he feels secured with her even I'm not I am not home.


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發表於 04-5-10 17:06 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 每朝如何跟寶寶說再見


自由太多會令世人失去平衡


珍珠宮

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發表於 04-5-10 17:09 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 每朝如何跟寶寶說再見

JuliaCheng ,
不好偷走, 要解釋給她聽, 媽媽要返工
自由太多會令世人失去平衡


別墅

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發表於 04-5-13 15:57 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 每朝如何跟寶寶說再見

早一個月之前我個仔都係咁ga, 自從佢識得叫工人打電話比我, 同我傾電話之後, 每朝我同老公出門, 叫佢要乖乖, 話"爸爸媽媽放工就返黎同佢玩, 得閒就打比媽媽", 佢都好乖喇, 冇再喊, 仲kiss, say goodbye, 你都試下丫


大宅

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發表於 04-5-13 15:57 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 每朝如何跟寶寶說再見

我都唔贊成偷走, 要教佢你要去返工, 教佢你出門口要同你say goodbye, 如可以的話, kiss goodbye 仲甜呀. :-P 呢個情況最好有工人在背後, 等佢知道佢唔會感到被遺棄, 有個失落感.


男爵府

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發表於 04-5-13 23:50 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 每朝如何跟寶寶說再見

我有2個方法

1. 當bb around 1 歲∼
goodbye kiss之後,比bb按門鈴,music一响,趁bb轉移注意力,再say byebye,立即閃

2. 對付 trouble 2∼
先將tv頻道,調校到大廈大門口
and then 比bb送到 lift 口,goodbye kiss後,我就入lift
鼓勵bb快快返入屋睇tv & 手執大廈門口對講機聽筒,等媽媽上電視
我在大廈門口,透過視像,用對講機跟bb 再揮手&say goodbye
讓bb透過tv視像,目送我地愈行愈遠


大宅

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發表於 04-5-17 16:56 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 每朝如何跟寶寶說再見

嘩,咁都比你唸到。做亞媽真係要好醒。
beauty 寫道:

2. 對付 trouble 2∼
先將tv頻道,調校到大廈大門口
and then 比bb送到 lift 口,goodbye kiss後,我就入lift
鼓勵bb快快返入屋睇tv & 手執大廈門口對講機聽筒,等媽媽上電視
我在大廈門口,透過視像,用對講機跟bb 再揮手&say goodbye
讓bb透過tv視像,目送我地愈行愈遠


大宅

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發表於 04-5-17 17:50 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 每朝如何跟寶寶說再見

做法和 justjust 一樣,早在 BB 6個月大已開始這個習慣.所以好細個開始佢識分,如果我們穿著返工衫同佢say bye bye,佢會同我哋 bye bye 送埋"飛吻",因為 kiss goodbye 容易 kiss 完唔放人. 間中都會失手,我哋會用新奇的玩具去引開佢的注意力,但行出門口時都一定讓佢知道我哋返工啦.通常失手都係放完多日的長假期或放完大假. 我哋會早一晩同佢講明早爸媽要返工.


大宅

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發表於 04-5-17 22:11 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 每朝如何跟寶寶說再見

呀仔1歲時,突然bye bye 時大喊!...所以偷走o左一次,點知...工人講仔去o左房推開門吾見我...廁所又無!呀o左一聲好失望!.....之後...我情願他喊也沒有再偷走啦!
好好彩!.....而家18個月無再喊啦!
家姐就衰啦!...比人湊9個月...喊足9個月..仲係日日喊添!

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