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Melody_Che


大宅

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發表於 09-1-23 11:23 |只看該作者
我老公屋企有3個仔女, 我地係最細!! 本來6299自己攪小生意, 收入都幾好, 足夠佢地生活有如, 但佢地d儲蓄係依幾年已經俾佢另一個乖仔金孫陰乾左, 依家個乖仔又要99湊埋佢粒金孫添!! 甘99就返唔到工啦!! 99已經不只一次, 係次次我地返去食飯都捉老公入廚房傾密計, 話佢無開工, 要湊孫呀!! 實際上, 6299既生意因為金融海嘯已經無左好多客... 收入少左好多!! 換言之, 99係退左休, 無收入, 而佢乖仔亦唔會俾湊仔錢出黎, 因為佢係只會係依個屋企羅, 唔付出, 一句同佢爸爸媽媽講"養個細路好辛苦, 洗左好多錢呀, 我返工又辛苦!!" 6299就為佢付出一切, 之前d積蓄都係甘無晒!! 之前我地結左婚一直有俾家用6299, 但我地只盡自己本份, 唔理其他人俾唔俾, 亦唔會理多定少... 我地私地下同另一位兄弟姊妹傾過依件事, 我地都覺得無理由要我地suffer6299湊金孫既支出, 而人地乖仔仍然保持佢現有生活質素<有車租樓住>又零付出, 但6299依家收入加埋我地家用的確維持唔到佢地現有生活...

如果你係我地, 會唔會夾份俾埋乖仔果份家用呢??
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kellyly


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好媽媽勳章 畀面勳章


2#
發表於 09-1-23 11:51 |只看該作者
唔會,
我開個個家庭會議攞出黎傾
"焗"佢個仔自己比番錢佢mami湊
而家唔傾呢個問題,個小朋友大d仲多錢要用,咁你地唔通養佢一世
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446948


男爵府

積分: 8772


3#
發表於 09-1-23 11:56 |只看該作者
梗係開家庭會講明每個仔女要比幾多, 要湊孫又要比幾多囉!~ 講咗佢比唔比佢既事, 但係所有嘢都話在前頭好啲既!~

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Melody_Che


大宅

積分: 4192


4#
發表於 09-1-23 12:04 |只看該作者
其實我地都諗過開家庭會議, 但佢乖仔成日話忙黎避開我地, 2黎開完都無用, 佢應承左都唔會比, 之前62生日, 我地講好一齊夾錢, 最後係99俾錢佢, 然後叫佢過番俾我地唔好出聲, 6299好要面, 又成日羅乖仔出黎做代表, 話佢好聰明好叻!! 基本上, 我地另外2個似表親多過似6299親生... 我地諗住一味唔出聲, 等佢地自己攪拈, 到最後, 6299忍唔到口, 開口叫我地俾, 我地會叫佢問乖仔羅!!

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A.C.C.


大宅

積分: 3786


5#
發表於 09-1-23 12:05 |只看該作者
點解咁似我老公個邊? 大伯個仔都係老爺奶奶養, 而老爺奶奶D儲蓄亦因為幫大伯叔仔, 而所剩無幾, 不過, 老公其他兄弟姐妹都無俾家用, ONLY老公俾

我老公試過開家庭會議呢個方法, 結果奶奶當場喊到要生要死, 老爺爆晒粗話我地"不孝""無兄弟情", 有老爺奶奶撐住, 大伯啋你都傻, 所以最後都不了了之
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kellyly


侯爵府

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好媽媽勳章 畀面勳章


6#
發表於 09-1-23 12:23 |只看該作者
原帖由 Melody_Che 於 23/1/2009 12:04 發表
其實我地都諗過開家庭會議, 但佢乖仔成日話忙黎避開我地, 2黎開完都無用, 佢應承左都唔會比, 之前62生日, 我地講好一齊夾錢, 最後係99俾錢佢, 然後叫佢過番俾我地唔好出聲, 6299好要面, 又成日羅乖仔出黎做代表, 話 ...


如果係咁既你地就要企硬唔好比額外既家用la.
嗰個係佢既仔唔係你地既
想做便宜老豆我都想呀
叫佢比番份,唔比既就你6299既問題
你地唔好因怕6299唔夠洗就加比佢地,如係咁就縱容呢個便宜老豆la.
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ac321


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好媽媽勳章


7#
發表於 09-1-23 12:23 |只看該作者
I don't know what is your 99's family conditions.
May be you can ref. mine.

My 62 haven't work for more than 10 years. My 99 never work since married.

The sons share all the living expenses for my 62 99. They have about 14000 fix as their living expenses monthly (or I should say it it their pocket money). Daughter don't need to pay, however, she may pay my 99 some as extra pocket $ as she like (I am not sure).

My husband share the mortgage of 99's flat with his brother. My husband pay for the first few years, and now, it is paid by his brother who live with 99. (P.S. my husband never live in that flat!)

The sons share all other annual expenses such as 99's 保險with hospital+life+saving (38k per year)


The water, gas, electric, mang. bill will be paid by the his brother as he (+ his wife+son) live there.


99 also help his brother (who live with 99) to take care of his son (free of charge). As I know, they haven't pay extra to 62 99. However, we are OK. It is because 99 have her right to use the $ we give her monthly. We don't mind where she use. However, don't say 'not enough' and ask for extra when 99 use all of them monthly.



原帖由 Melody_Che 於 09-1-23 12:04 發表
其實我地都諗過開家庭會議, 但佢乖仔成日話忙黎避開我地, 2黎開完都無用, 佢應承左都唔會比, 之前62生日, 我地講好一齊夾錢, 最後係99俾錢佢, 然後叫佢過番俾我地唔好出聲, 6299好要面, 又成日羅乖仔出黎做代表, 話 ...
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julian7719


複式洋房

積分: 386


8#
發表於 09-1-23 12:29 |只看該作者
(1) 唉~~又係得個諗字, 即係未開啦.
(2) 大家鬥唔俾:;pppp:
(3) 夠膽就捅死晒佢地, 一個都唔駛養


原帖由 Melody_Che 於 09-1-23 12:04 發表
其實我地都諗過開家庭會議, 但佢乖仔成日話忙黎避開我地, 2黎開完都無用, 佢應承左都唔會比, 之前62生日, 我地講好一齊夾錢, 最後係99俾錢佢, 然後叫佢過番俾我地唔好出聲, 6299好要面, 又成日羅乖仔出黎做代表, 話 ...
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Melody_Che


大宅

積分: 4192


9#
發表於 09-1-23 14:13 |只看該作者
最幣就係佢個乖仔唔認命, 我地私底下傾過佢個乖仔中可以唔再租樓, 索性搬番去6299間大屋<成千呎, 4房>, 然後將屋租洗費交俾6299.. 但d人唔肯屈就, 死都要keep住自己生活質素, 唯有大家累鬥累...
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123!@#


伯爵府

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10#
發表於 09-1-23 14:35 |只看該作者
根本唔需要開家庭會議.
只要你地唔理6299, 佢喊生喊死時, 你地冷冷咁同佢講, 叫佢個乖仔俾.
只要盡左自己本份, 問心無愧就得.
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kellyly


侯爵府

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好媽媽勳章 畀面勳章


11#
發表於 09-1-23 15:33 |只看該作者
原帖由 Melody_Che 於 23/1/2009 14:13 發表
最幣就係佢個乖仔唔認命, 我地私底下傾過佢個乖仔中可以唔再租樓, 索性搬番去6299間大屋, 然後將屋租洗費交俾6299.. 但d人唔肯屈就, 死都要keep住自己生活質素, 唯有大家累鬥累... ...


咁仲易la
你地唔比lor,比番自己既就算
咩叫生活質素
自已個仔都唔理既人何來有質素呀
叫佢咪顛la
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咪咪豬豬


複式洋房

積分: 224


12#
發表於 09-1-23 16:41 |只看該作者
我奶奶老爺未一樣, 自己有物業有私己錢靠生果金過活, 又係三個仔女. 大仔失業有家佣比, 二仔我老公比3 仟. 個女勁有錢有樓兩層己唔洗供, 姑奶老公中和港和澳都有生意有樓, 但比一仟家佣就算.

奶奶老爺係我地面前成日都話唔夠洗. 但係姑奶面前又唔呻. 所以我都唔理辦唔明白.
我老公試過開家庭會提議過公平比家佣每人一個公平數.
但個衰人姑奶發惡駡: 等奶奶老爺用到儘真係山窮水盡才會比多dd. 又話佢地咁老洗乜要咁多錢.

個衰人姑奶係外人面前要面子就做富有.
對自己屋企人就.................
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