Sometimes I feel so tired and wanna give up, too. My son also doesn't gain much weight, he's only 18lbs at 10 months, but his birth weight is 7.3lbs. So my hubby is worrying if I still have enough supply of breastmilk for him. (I feed him on breast at nite before he sleeps and in the morning before I set off for work.) I pump twice daily to leave a bottle of milk for helper to feed during the day. My hubby is asking if we should supplement some milk powder. I haven't decided yet how to phase out. My original goal is all-breastmilk until 1 y.o. but dunno if I can make it.
Add oil and dun put too much pressure on yourself. Last time when I was sick, I ate medicine that could also be taken by baby.
my situation is same as yours!!! my milk supply suddenly decreased one day when bb was around 9 months, then my m came. I was so unprepared and hope it won't come next month ... but now my m resumed for 2 months already ...