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大宅

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發表於 04-11-6 23:16 |只看該作者

唔開心~

好唔開心.之前同老公協議好個女好比人湊,我同佢一齊做


大宅

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發表於 04-11-6 23:43 |只看該作者

Re: 唔開心~

Don't be unhappy la, my mother-in-law stay with me since my son has born, 16 mths la. At first, I hire a philippine maid when I am pregnant. She is good at housework, however, when my child had born, I know she didn't fit the job because she didn't know how to take care of baby. I terminate her 3 days after I return from hospital. So my mother-in-law come and stay with us on the first 5 months and I have hire another Indo maid, which my mother-in-law teach her a lot. At first, I have the same feeling as you, don't want her to stay with me since the method she used was not suit me and I think the maid only listen to her and not respecting me. So I fired the maid and hire another Phillipine one, because my mother-in-law don't know how to communicate with her, so she went back to home.
However, my new maid start working for 3 days and she said she want to leave. I and my husband need to go to work and don't know how to do. My husband call her mom and talk to her, he said he is ashamed to ask her to come back. Luckily, she is willing to come and take care the baby by herself for almost 2 months before we hire another indo maid. She now stay with us from Mon - Fri (she live far away from us) and back to her home at weekend. She said she is worried about the maid not take care the baby well and she want an eye on her. Sometimes, I think I thank her a lot because of her devotion, I and my husband can work more freely (because we have a lot of OT). I hope I can share my experience with you and help you to release your bad feelings.


大宅

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發表於 04-11-7 00:55 |只看該作者

Re: 唔開心~

我同你case同諗法一樣~搵得1仟得1仟
但係我生完bb到而家接近半年都無出去做到野
我同我奶奶都講呢個問題(講得多都煩)
佢知我同我先生都有財政問題~但係佢都唔會比我出去做lor
我心諗~唔比我做又唔借錢比我地周轉
咁想點呀!!!??~而家有呢個問題係我地唔係佢自己佢梗係講得easy啦
我話比我媽咪湊最多放工接返bb又話唔捨得個孫走來走去
~而家個個無錢要搵錢o的小朋友無人睇梗係要走來走去啦
唔通放佢係屋企自生自滅無人理呀~到時個小朋友有事都無人知啦
一句唔捨得就大x晒~講到真係火到o黎!!!
:evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:


男爵府

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發表於 04-11-7 13:00 |只看該作者

Re: 唔開心~

yoko280304,
我夠知亞媽係女人啦!為咗生活...無辦法啦 你都講得好啱吖...揾1仟得1仟....第時對個女嘅生活質素都好d吖....而家揾份工都唔易ga....
我支持你ga


象牙宮

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發表於 04-11-7 13:03 |只看該作者

Re: 唔開心~

如果你真係唔想做全職媽媽,咁你一定要堅持到底,因為萬一第時你同你奶奶有咩拗撬個陣,到時你想出番嚟做嘢就更難。

我係我奶奶度坐月既,坐完月我即刻返工,我奶奶極力反對,因為我知道佢想我唔做嘢係屋企湊,又話比人湊好賤......,我老公都有出聲,不過我解釋比佢聽,我都係想搵D錢等老公唔駛咁辛苦同埋我想儲D錢等第時囡囡生活可以過得好D,如果我將BB交比佢亞媽湊,假如我亞媽又爭住要湊咁點呀?就得哥嚟失嫂意,一於比人湊。

最初我奶奶都有說話比我聽既,不過我無理佢,漸漸個個都接受咗,到而家我老公仲話當初比人湊係正確既添呀!

你千祁唔好放棄!

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