Last year my friend found out her husband has affairs with his colleague, that women also get married, but all parties no kids involve. Her husband promised to stop the relationship and they tried to start all over again. I hv talked with her husband and he admit did not love her anymore, only responsibility to ask her to stay, but I promise not to disclose our conversation to my friend.
Just now my Mother saw my friend's husband shopping in supermarket with a women (of course not my friend), holding hands !!
If you were me, would you tell yr best friend and break her stable life and dream.
Talkative,
I think Cipo's friend knew about her husband had another women already. The point is that Cipo knew that he did not love his friend anymore.
Cipo,
I think you should talk with your friend's husband again and ask him to choose either one. He can not own two women at the same time. On the other hand, you ask your friend if she accept his husband have two women at the same time
relationships should be left between the two person to deal with, if you tell her, she can shift her anger onto you if anything unexpected comes along, causing a threat to you as well.
the situation is good because both of them are having affairs so there can be no argument or blames on either side.
Based on your conversation with her husband, It looks as if he is just doing routine stuff, and plus your friends' mother saw hands holding. The message should be more than clear enough to her. Even if you don't tell, her mother would and it is better to have a close relative tell her than to have a friend.
and to the husband.
mm goi...if he knew he couldn't resist, he shouldn't had married with your friend, the husband definitely was a problem. It has sth to do with te maturity of the husband. Despite everything said about the wife not making the husband happy enough, a marriage is a legal binding and should be followed through, if he felt a problem was present, he should had discussed solutions with the wife but not finding another woman to release his sexual needs
The situation i thought had changed completely, you should be the person to support her because in the present trend, I think divorce is the greatest probable outcome. Be ready.
If i were you, I believe I'll kind of give my friend hints that her husband is cheating on her again. I'll tell her that my mom saw him in a supermaret with a female. I will let her find out the truth herself.
If I were you, I would not tell my friend, but I would talk to the husband to behave and to settle the relationship with your friend. It's OK that the husband does not love his wife, but it's not OK to cheat his wife.
Thks for yr comments. I agree that the husband is a big problem, last time when I talk to him, I asked him to 'release' my friend, why begging her to stay just to make himself feel like a 'responsible guy'. He keep silent as I feel he did not know how to handle, just 'hiding'. If he keep this affairs for 1 year, I don't think he wl cut just because somebody saw him, I am angry with him as he give 'hopes' to my friend and he is a good actor.
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