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工人個老公有外遇


別墅

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發表於 05-1-31 10:09 |顯示全部帖子

工人個老公有外遇

菲傭一向做得不錯,但最近有天忽然對著我奶奶大哭,大概說她家裡有事,但奶奶聽不明英文,我晚上回家問她是否太累,她只對我說老公"being stupid",我就說笑地說我老公有時也很stupid,而她說下午已打電話回家,應該OK。我當時以為她跟老公吵架,而她也沒告訴我什麼,便跟她說如她要take a rest,可跟我說。

昨天我媽告訴我,我工人跟她工人說原來她老公帶了個女人回家住,我工人又話想死! 我不知應否跟她談,因始終是她家事,但她照顧我BB,我又好擔心,我應怎樣做?


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發表於 05-1-31 10:50 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人個老公有外遇

咁啱我個菲上星期比 resign 信我, 問佢點解, 佢又係話佢老公有問題, 帶左佢兩個仔女搵二奶, 整到佢對仔女返唔到學. 迫不得已先 resign. 我問佢除左 resign, 仲有咩方法解決. 佢話一係我比佢放假返去 settle . 我唔知佢老公單野堅定流, 佢想返鄉下就肯定架喇. 個 agent 就叫我請過另一個好過. 但而家呢個叫比上不足, 比下好有餘. 我真係唔想搏.


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發表於 05-1-31 10:56 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人個老公有外遇

應該要同佢傾吓, 開解吓佢. 我個賓個老公又係有婚外情, 佢前個排放假返去同佢老公傾, 仲同個第三者打架, 而工人o既父母亦冇幫佢, 仲怪佢丟低個老公嚟香港打工, 所以初初番嚟嗰幾日唔係點食嘢同成日喊, 我咪安慰佢同開解吓佢囉(其實我平日好少同佢傾計, 特別係私人嘢)而家睇佢精神好好多嘞. 既然佢做嘢唔錯, 就同佢傾吓, 當係支持吓佢. :wink:


別墅

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發表於 05-1-31 11:56 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人個老公有外遇

賓佬出去滾, 十居其八.


大宅

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發表於 05-1-31 14:10 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人個老公有外遇

HoHoMom,

You have to talk to her. My Indo maid has the same problem and it was lucky that my husband noted she was dispressed. I then talked to her to comfort her and to make clear that no matter what was problem, she needed to decide whether she still want the job here as we do not want her to do any harm to baby due to her emotion. She appreciated our kindness and let us know the problem. She admitted that when she was not happy that few days, baby cried alot and seemed to know her problem (baby was only 4 months old)! Of course, you may need to see what kind of fall-back action should be taken if she really resigns. My maid decided to continue to work here but does not remit money to her husband, just to her daughter who is old enough to take care of herself through some relatives.

thb


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發表於 05-1-31 14:43 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人個老公有外遇

badspriteboy 寫道:
賓佬出去滾, 十居其八.


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