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大宅

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發表於 05-2-15 01:59 |顯示全部帖子

請全職媽媽分享冇請陪月及工人都可以自己成功湊b o既經驗

我o既預產期係6月,原本請兩個月陪月,
但我媽咪覺得陪月好貴,叫我唔好請,話會o黎陪我坐月,
另外屋企人覺得我要請工人,因為覺得一個人湊會好辛苦,
請工人可以夜晚幫我湊bb,煮飯,出街有人幫手拎o野,抱b等,
但老公好唔鍾意屋企多個人,又聽得太多fd講請工人o既唔好o既o野,加上請工人又要執過晒個衣帽間,我o地d衫都冇地方放,又要買張床等,好多煩o野!
而家好想問o下有經驗o既你o地,如果我唔請工人,自己一個人湊,媽咪淨係陪我坐月,咁我將會遇到咩問題,自己湊又有幾難呢?
thx!!


大宅

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發表於 05-2-15 14:50 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請全職媽媽分享冇請陪月及工人都可以自己成功湊b o既經驗

我無請工人和陪月,由上年初開始做全職媽媽,細囡上年七月出世,亞媽來陪月、買菜、煮飯、燉補品和幫手照顧大囝(4歲)。
無工人就要自己做家務,有時丈夫會幫下,倦就睡下,都唔覺太辛苦,因為以前返工都慣了無得停和捱夜,仲有因為上胎坐月補得好,亞媽和奶奶的燉品輪流天天供應,產後身体和精神都非常好。
坐月唔會出太多街,如要出街會推BB車、坐的士、或有丈夫幫手。
但每人的体質都唔同,和產後最重要都係休息,如果是第一胎自己湊B會幾辛苦下,因為有時都唔知BB喊乜,又怕佢熱,又怕佢凍,九百幾樣問題,我就會睇下書、上下網、請教下亞媽或其他媽咪。你可以試下先,唔得才請鐘點或陪月0羅!
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子爵府

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發表於 05-2-15 16:26 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請全職媽媽分享冇請陪月及工人都可以自己成功湊b o既經驗

我1st bb,都係媽咪陪我坐月,日頭我湊,夜晚媽咪湊,有時自己湊埋夜晚,lunch 通常飯盒,媽咪出街tea&買餸,dinner 有補品.唔會好辛苦.因為大家好young.當時我24yrs,媽咪56yrs.
到2nd bb,要請工人,因大女要湊返學,屋企又多左野做,媽咪&我又老左5年
so 請唔請工人睇你屋企人配合


珍珠宮

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發表於 05-2-15 22:14 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請全職媽媽分享冇請陪月及工人都可以自己成功湊b o既經驗

我逸少已經18個月,,黎緊7月我細b又出世了~
我生逸少個陣無人識幫我,我老爺奶奶淨係想抱b而唔想理我,,所以我唔比佢地掂bb,,自己一手揍,自己坐月...
所有人都唔信我掂,,不過我逸少到依家都係我一手揍,除左老公放工返黎幫下我之外無人幫我了....自己bb無話自己揍唔掂既,,你放心啦~加油呀~
有人話,人一生要找到四個人1) 自己2) 深愛你的人3) 你最深愛的人4) 共你過一生的人             在你出世一刻,我一次過找到這四個人


男爵府

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發表於 05-2-17 01:08 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請全職媽媽分享冇請陪月及工人都可以自己成功湊b o既經驗

when amanda was born, my mother in law said she has backache, so she won't take care of me, I am alone in new york, I only eat over night cold rice, as we shared house with husband's brother family, they don't allow me to use the fridge, and kitchen, so my husband bought me a box of rice the night before and I eat it next day, some time, he did not have time to buy me food, I will eat 2 breads for the whole day for total 4 months since I get birth.. I breast fed amanda, although I know that my breast milk is not as high nutrition as formula, so I drink 16 glasses of water plus 7 table spoon of glucogon inside.. make the drinks sweet.
Now Amanda is 18 months, 16 teeth, 32 lbs, 86cm tall. she is absolutely perfect..
Now.. who dare to say that I am not a good mom even.. no one helps at all.
I know.. all my husbands' relatives thought that I want the green card so get married with my husband.. Hey hey Hey! I am an australian resident, graduated from University in Australia, who cares about your stupid green card.. if not because you "the mother in law" asked me to come over to new york... I come at all.. when you know that I carried a girl.. you said that you have backache.. ha ha.. such a good mother in law.
However, whom you love most now.. Amanda..
so.. don't blame Amanda hits you.. because you don't love/ didn't love her mother on the first hand.
For moms who 冇請陪月及工人都可以自己成功湊b o既經驗.......
Cheers up.. we can do it.. with all our hearts!
The pathway might be a thousand times harder and alone.. but remember.. I am here to say.. We can do it and never give up!
坐月.... I have never had it at all...
that 100days, I eat bread and over nigth cold rice only.. life here in new york.. is night mare.
but now, as we bought our own house, I can see.. a better future....


複式洋房

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發表於 05-2-17 01:40 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請全職媽媽分享冇請陪月及工人都可以自己成功湊b o既經驗

咁其實你諗唔諗住餵人奶?如果湊餵人奶既bb,又唔同食奶粉既bb ga wo∼你坐月既時候,亦即係你生完最虛弱既時期,你需要補番身子,多d休息∼
但bb既方面,係最麻煩既∼又要同佢沖涼,餵人奶既更麻煩,第一個月,bb通常都會食下唔食下,食一陣又訓,訓一陣又扭食,喊下醒下食下,最辛苦就在於媽咪身子虛弱,但又無時間休息…
更莫講話bb既用品衣服…
所以你最好買定晒d野先∼唔係到時真係唔知搵邊個買∼
浦浦既小寶貝,子靈女女,於8月22日QE出世∼ :-D


男爵府

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發表於 05-2-17 02:12 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請全職媽媽分享冇請陪月及工人都可以自己成功湊b o既經驗

got got mama,
as you will have your mom to help, you will be alright.. Certainly, if you can afford to have someone to take care of you and your infant, that is good.
Then just have to pack up the changing room衣帽間,
get her a bed, a desk for reading or write letters.. bed side table, that's it.. also a small waldrobe..
certainly.. you need to talk with your husband. share your concern...
as other moms said, you are going to breastfed or bottlefed ?
me, breast fed, 15 times a day, change 15 times diapers before feed.. in the first month..
after bathing the baby.. it won't happen on the first few days.. until the dried belly button comes off.
just only basic care once to twice a day.. or after a big poop poop..
good to get someone to do the housework if you wanna get one, suggest get one before you give birth at June, need time to teach her to do things.. also if you are not satisfy with this maid, you still have time to find another..
For maid's bed, if you feel difficult to buy big one, can find one which can fold into half. save space.
In Ikea, they got all the great idea, and price is reasonable.. you can have a look online sin, then go ahead with your husband to buy thing.. exercise for you is important.
If you don't have a maid after your mother left.
1. housework... you will feel hard to manage the baby and housework
2. who goes to do groceries shop?
3. who cooks?
4. who does the laundry?
5. who does the dishes wash include baby's bottles, milk pump, pacifiers (if you give bb to use)?
If you are able to manage all of those without other helps, then you don't need to have a maid .


大宅

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發表於 05-2-17 10:08 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請全職媽媽分享冇請陪月及工人都可以自己成功湊b o既經驗

其實揍bb都唔會好難,有唔明你可以問bk d 媽咪,我相信一定有大把人答你,仲有你媽咪都會幫到你,回想我第一個bb出世時得我老公陪我坐月(佢失業),到第二、第三個bb都冇人幫自己坐月(佢好忙)
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複式洋房

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發表於 05-2-18 04:54 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請全職媽媽分享冇請陪月及工人都可以自己成功湊b o既經驗

My case is almost the same as Nillie_Mami. I'm a full-time mom taking care of my bb alone wihtout any help from both of my parents and in-laws. My parents has to taking care of my sister's daughter in Canada, as my sister and brother-in-law have to work. My mother-in-law is a very self-fish person. She will spend the whole day playing Ma-joh rather than taking care of his grandson. She always said that she has backach and can not carry the baby for more than 5 min. But she can sit the whole day playing Ma-joh? I hired a local chinese domestic helper to cook and clean for me until present. So far is ok, after changing 4 differents maid. I paid $50hk/hr., 4hrs/day and 3 times per week. The 1st month after my bb was borned, I'd asked my maid to cook nutrious soup for me. If you don't have any idea of what to eat, just buy a book from the maternity shop - Ho Fa. I breastfed my boy until he was about 9 months old, than I switched to formula, because my breast milk's qauntity is not enough for him due to less rest time. Breastfeeding is the best for yr child and no bottles to wash afterwards. I usually eat leftover food for luch, dinner is always take-out order when it falls to my maid's off-days. My husband is always helping me out for daily chores like bathing the bb, washing dishes/bottles/ grocery etc. My boy's now 2yrs old, he's a happy and healthy baby. I'm now preparing to have a 2nd child. The main concern for you is ask yourself if you can prepare to deal with the pressure of the baby's physical and mental needs. The baby's cry is sometimes so overwhelming that made ones so mad that ones want to get rid of the baby. Do you prepare to wake up from every 1-2hrs. Diaper changing about 12 times per day. Eat overnight food etc. At first, I don't believe that I can do it by myself, but little by little, I got accustomed to the daily chores. Believing yourself!

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