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別墅

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發表於 05-4-9 23:45 |只看該作者

放棄做全職媽媽走返出去返工?!

各位媽咪,
你哋有冇經驗/聽過/見過有媽咪放棄做全職媽媽走返出去返工ga? 我又唔係等錢養家, 雖然事業同經濟獨立對我都重要, 但一諗起要留個囡比工人湊, 個心就un住un住.... 始終成年幾無工作喇! 一直只係全心全意湊個囡, 依家突然要改變真係有d難過! 我monday就要做最後決定, 大家可唔可以分享吓你哋的睇法?! thanks!!


大宅

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發表於 05-4-10 00:22 |只看該作者

Re: 放棄做全職媽媽走返出去返工?!

講真呀,個個都唔習慣呀,我湊左個仔5年,一手一腳,
我宜家先返出黎做野,真係好唔習慣呀,又見個仔時間小了很多,
我湊左咁多年先宜家先出黎做野,一來個仔又大d,佢自己都識同人講,唔同bb個時,唔識表達自己想點,比人打都唔知,
二來,出黎做野,又搵到d錢,第時個仔再大d,d錢又用多d讀書又貴d,
宜家佢又返學,佢返左學,日日係屋企好鬼悶呀.
如果你又唔係等錢用呀,個b仲細,你都可以唔做住,


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發表於 05-4-10 11:37 |只看該作者

Re: 放棄做全職媽媽走返出去返工?!

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別墅

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發表於 05-4-10 12:36 |只看該作者

Re: 放棄做全職媽媽走返出去返工?!

我由個仔出世至兩歲半都係自己湊, 跟住因為經濟問題都係要
出番o黎做, 個仔就讀幼兒園, 有延展服務最遲可以8點放學,
咁就唔需要請工人, 不過就自己辛苦o的.


別墅

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發表於 05-4-12 22:41 |只看該作者

Re: 放棄做全職媽媽走返出去返工?!

Hi all,

Thanks for all your sharing and advise. Finally I decided not to take the job offer . I'm still a full time mummy!! I think I'm not ready to take up a full time job for now. Me and my husband felt very bad on last few days because of this issue. Now we're very happy after made the decision. :lol: :lol:


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發表於 05-4-13 00:08 |只看該作者

Re: 放棄做全職媽媽走返出去返工?!

tracycck,
我都係一手一腳揍到個女兩歲我至畀佢番幼兒園. 當時我老公都話我想幾時出來工作由我決定. 佢話又不是等我d錢開飯, 但係佢覺得我咁早就畀佢番幼兒園好似好衰咁. 我都有點內疚同埋諗起要放佢係幼兒園成日, 個心會up 住架. 但係我對自己有點要求, 我覺得自己話晒讀完書. 唔想就咁成世揍女. 當時我graduate 完兩年都係揍女, 我係到諗我再唔出來社會工作下, 隔太耐無做野, d人未必會請我. 所以我就下定決心出來工作lor. 而且當其時我身邊的同學個個都有份幾好的工作. 自己就係屋企揍女, 真係心理上有點壓力, 同埋覺得心理上有點不平衡. 而家出來番工就無左呢d 問題. 個人好似平衡小小.


別墅

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發表於 05-4-13 10:06 |只看該作者

Re: 放棄做全職媽媽走返出去返工?!

我都係自己揍到個仔3歲先比佢返幼兒園, 依家個仔都10歲啦 其實我自己覺得比小朋友返幼兒園係好架,因為佢地會學識點同人相處,仲有會學得自立D, 因為始終自己揍會好多野都唔捨得同會心痛,而且幼兒園仲有其他小朋友同佢一齊玩, 但係就千其唔好比佢係幼稚園讀全日班,因為其他小朋友一般都會放半晝, 所以佢會覺得自己好唔同,可能會唔開心。
不過都唔使咁早比佢返(除非家境需要), 一般我覺得2-3歲先比佢返幼兒園咁就OK架啦


複式洋房

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發表於 05-4-14 15:23 |只看該作者

Re: 放棄做全職媽媽走返出去返工?!

My situation is just opposite. My contract is due in the mid of next month May and I had discussed with my husband half year before that I will be a full time mom after that. However, when the due date comes closer, I feel much inertia to my job as I have worked there for 6 years and the salary is also very attractive. Yesterday night i was suffered from insomnia due to this matter..my bb is 2 years old and am going to attend am nursury class in the coming Aug..i am very confusing if i should renew the contract or not..if yes..i need to plan to employ domestic helper that's another annoying issue..if any BK members can give me any advice?


大宅

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發表於 05-4-14 16:55 |只看該作者

Re: 放棄做全職媽媽走返出去返工?!

Hi Jocaster,

My situation is similar to u, i 've a daughter who is 2 yr old and i'm planned to work again. I 'm also gradurated and resigned when i have bb.
Then i have worked for a month of job when my girl is 9 mths old. But lather i feel my boss is discriminate me for i 'm the only staff who have a daughter to take care. He worry (and said to me) that i would not put much effort on my job. Besides, my bb always ill at that month and finally i resigned and to be a full time mother till now.
I just worry that if i should tell the future employer about my family background when i have interview later. Pls suggest. :-|


別墅

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發表於 05-4-15 14:09 |只看該作者

Re: 放棄做全職媽媽走返出去返工?!

其實真係好睇你自己想點,首先如果唔係經濟問題,就要睇下你想自由d定係想揍bb多d,始終如果在於bb立場,當然係"爸爸上班返工,媽媽家庭主婦"好啦,但好老實,好多媽媽都唔係好想全日對住屋企同揍bb(當然我係講經濟ok既家庭啦),而又要視乎你個人喜歡enjoy獨立還是enjoy full time 家庭樂啦!不過以我自己既case就係,仔仔3歲返學後我就返工,依家佢10歲,我地一家三口傾過,等到仔仔讀中一我就會唔做野,因為上左中學,仔仔會仲需要我比多d時間佢,一定要花多d心機比佢,因為大多數學壞都係初中生呢個年紀既,如果我返工,我會比唔到佢需要既時間同精神佢,so,我個人意見就會係咁囖 希望可以比到意見你啦 :wink:


複式洋房

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發表於 05-4-15 17:26 |只看該作者

Re: 放棄做全職媽媽走返出去返工?!

請問搵到工既媽咪搵咩工多呢? 我個女36個月大啦,已經返緊學,我有個幾好既菲傭, 所以好想返出黎做工, 但係又有D擔心三年冇做野會初時會應付唔黎, 仲有就係宜家D工十份九份都要OT, 我當初就係唔想朝九晚九至唔做,你地宜家多數放工放幾點架,人工比起前一份工又爭幾遠呢?

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