why don't you ask your husband to speak to his sister? If i was his sister, i'm sure i will feel bad. Did the "boy friend" buy anything for your mother-in-law?
kongkong,
first , 唔好嬲, 盞激親自已.
Actually, this is just a small thing.
(1) 老人家始於年紀大, always 忘記一D野, 下次咪提下佢, 臨出門前 give them a call.
(2) 一家人吃飯, 緊係齊人先食, 尼D係禮貌
(3) 人地無家教唔叫人, 你米大方D成日叫下佢同佢講下野, 佢自然會唔好意思...
(4) 最重要都是你老公同你姑仔有溝通.....邊個邊個來幾點到, 下次自己執生
你已經very simple family, 有D一出來吃飯十幾人又迫又多細路重有排等.....意見又多
Don't angry la
In this case, I will anger your sister-in-law. No matter her boyfriend's reason is acceptable or not, she won't let everybody wait for long time, she should say something to sooth and let everybody eat law.
kongkong:
我覺得你無乜資格話你姑仔個男朋友唔係自己人,就算你依架結左婚,你奶奶一樣都可以當你唔係自己人,或者你奶奶同老爺已肯定左佢係自己人呢???你都識講佢地同居,根本覺得你(新袍)同佢(已認定佢係女婿)根本無分別,咁你點可以話佢唔係自己人呢???既然叫得佢一齊一家人食飯,仲要一大班人等佢,一定當佢係自己人先會咁做喇!!!
而且佢唔叫人,你又唔係佢乜野長輩,你奶奶同老爺都未出聲,你何必咁小器呢???咁小的事你都可以擺係個心咁耐,你咪好唔得閒???take it easy喇!!!