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別墅

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發表於 09-9-28 11:36 |只看該作者
Hi there everyone

Iam currently experiencing a major problem, hoping someone could give me some advice as what I should do.

I have two childrens now (a boy at 3 yrs old and a girl at 1 ys old) and have just found out that I'm pregnant with Number 3. The problem is I don't know whether I should keep the baby because my husband really dont want the baby and I'm really worry that I won't be able to look after all three kids at the same time.

I don't have any helps at all as my parents lives too far away from me so I am all on my own.

Is there any mothers at the same situation or does any mothers have three young babies so close together and are able to look after them without stress. Please help and advice.


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發表於 09-9-28 11:52 |只看該作者
Why you dun use condom or pius if you dun want a baby! better keep it, this is gift from god. Dun kill life...


複式洋房

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發表於 09-9-28 11:52 |只看該作者
如果經濟許可,咪請多個人幫手湊囉...
大仔3歲都可以返學啦....


水晶宮

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發表於 09-9-28 12:02 |只看該作者
我雖然無經驗,但係有BB係一份福氣,係上天腸比你同先生一份禮物,唔好唔要BB,請人幫下手,如果你係全職媽媽,之前又已經有照顧小朋友經驗,大仔又可以返學,其實都應該可以應付到!

好多人想有BB,都唔得....珍惜擁有一切.....

祝福你!


大宅

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發表於 09-9-28 12:18 |只看該作者
原帖由 cheeki_kaka 於 09-9-28 11:36 發表
Hi there everyone

Iam currently experiencing a major problem, hoping someone could give me some advice as what I should do.

I have two childrens now (a boy at 3 yrs old and a girl at 1 ys old) and h ...


If you' re financially capable, you better keep it, else you will regret for the rest of your life.

During SAR, I got the similar problem as yours but my doctor suggested not to take the risk since I got big electricity current for slimming body and my husband did not want it due to financial issue.

And at the end of the day till now, I still miss it.


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發表於 09-9-28 21:38 |只看該作者
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等待驗證會員

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發表於 09-9-28 22:13 |只看該作者
It is a gift.

And if you don't want any baby anymore, use condom next time...


大宅

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發表於 09-9-28 22:16 |只看該作者
當初你冇避孕,而家有左好合理!你地唔係想開心完就當冇事發生呀~ 有經濟能力就唔好放棄,好多人都恨唔到呀!


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發表於 09-9-28 22:23 |只看該作者
原帖由 cheeki_kaka 於 09-9-28 11:36 發表
Hi there everyone

Iam currently experiencing a major problem, hoping someone could give me some advice as what I should do.

I have two childrens now (a boy at 3 yrs old and a girl at 1 ys old) and h ...


我都有朋友3個, 係辛苦d, 但好開心架,
你細女到時2歲, 入埋 n1 囉,
咁你仲無咁辛苦.


伯爵府

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發表於 09-9-29 00:18 |只看該作者
我都係3個女ge ammi,當我知道有左第3個BB時我都好迷茫,而我第2個女當時都已經3yrs,可以話已經甩身無咁辛苦....當時我同老公都有唸過唔要,因為經濟上真係唔可以再有第3個小朋友.....但我同老公只係用左好短時間就決定生埋第3個女...佢而家已經6yrs....係呢幾年真係好辛苦,由其佢讀埋小學....再加上我係要返工....又無工人只得mami幚手湊....真係好唔夠緊時間用,但睇見佢地3姊姊一日一日成長,我同老公都好開心,但當中一定有d辛酸ge事發生....不過我同老公都無後悔生埋第3個女....因為佢係個天賜比我地....而家都好多朋友都話第時3個女大左之後我同老公就好開心,仲會好多人羨慕我地天.....
樓主,唔好比自己做一d第2時會後悔ge決定,有時都係多有多食,小有小食.....我都係用原本一個餅分2份,但現在都係用同一個餅來分3份.....但佢地同樣都係咁快樂地成長

[ 本帖最後由 vkk 於 09-9-29 00:24 編輯 ]


伯爵府

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發表於 09-9-29 02:03 |只看該作者
樓主請恕我直言, 唔明白點解要發生左先搵解決方法, 唔去做事前功夫有左bb今本真係好正常既事, 好多人恨都恨唔到, 如果一早知道c6今本唔想生第3個, 點解唔係事前做安全措施, 依家上來問人地比意見你, 其實來來去去大多真係最多叫你請個工人or盡可能搵親友幫下手, 如你再唔正視, 只會遲d又再上來問同一個問題. 請努力去保護同愛惜上天所賜比你既小生命. 佢地唔係一件玩具.


別墅

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發表於 09-9-30 15:52 |只看該作者
Hi all

Thank you for all your sincere advice.

My husband didn't want the baby at first because he's worried that I might not be able to cope with three kids all by myself during the day, however we have decided to keep the baby now.

Thank you all again.


大宅

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14#
發表於 09-9-30 16:39 |只看該作者
good to hear that

原帖由 cheeki_kaka 於 09-9-30 15:52 發表
Hi all

Thank you for all your sincere advice.

My husband didn't want the baby at first because he's worried that I might not be able to cope with three kids all by myself during the day, however we ...


瑪瑙宮

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發表於 09-9-30 19:08 |只看該作者
bb, 您父母無唔要您, 您出世得要乖乖地, 精精靈靈, 知無?


複式洋房

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發表於 09-10-1 08:32 |只看該作者
BB


伯爵府

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17#
發表於 09-10-1 11:05 |只看該作者
我生第一個仔之前宧猜左一個,我媽咪話緣份唔夠喎,當時真係好傷心,好似世界未日咁,有時都會恨天主,點解咁恨心,比左我又攞走,但依家我知,佢做每個決定都有原因,佢係想我為帶來更美滿的婚姻同家庭,依家我生左個仔,個個都好錫佢,好重佢,有朋友叫我諗,如果第一個生個女,我會唔會好似依家咁幸福呢(因為我6299係重男輕女既人,我同我老公都鐘意女,不過冇所謂,仔女都係自己既),我依然miss第一個。

如果你下次唔想有bb,可以有好多方法,唔知可以上網search下。

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