而我有兩個小朋友讀幼稚園，一直都要返工，雖有份不錯的收入，但因家庭支出很大，供樓、幼稚園學費、only水電媒管理費都要$3000一個月，又要供保儉，又要比錢養阿媽，又要比錢奶奶，請菲傭....起碼$40,000/ per month基本家庭支出。縱使份工壓力大，但唔返工做全職媽媽，好像是不可能的事。 :-(
I think you can understand the fact into 2 ways, the first one is you can use the money freely, no need to report to whom that how many have you use or why did you use it because you earn it by yourself, you can speak it up loudly, right? On the other hand, you prove that you have the ability to live independently, also your big b-i-l and s-i-l will be looked down by their brothers and sister, but you won't, right?
I deem what if you put today that what have you got on tomorrow.
Nowadays, the next generation of today are really different from us. What they have asking are more complicated, I believe that a working mother is a way to keep us up-to-day, you can easy to get what your childern thinks and needs. So I believe you will get the best communication your childern and also for your husband because you are a working mother. No need to think about others who are getting everything by free, because one day the supporter stop for funding, then they cannot support their own life independently.
Sorry for keep you seeing my long long bad english, I hope you can feel better now. Because we are proud of the working mother.
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