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Dragonbabykwok


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發表於 13-12-20 11:16 |只看該作者
想問下大家，我屋企有圍欄，都幾大係比囡囡入面玩的，廚房望到出黎的，而今日我 cam 見到姐姐就咁比我歲半BB係廳，佢在廚房，我打返去佢仲要多多藉口話佢在廚房洗碗，有望呀囡，但在廚房跟本望不到廳的，我問佢：「u said u are washing in kitchen , then how u look at bb at living room ?」，佢先話只係放一陣，廳有高凳，有電制，係米我太緊張，我真係好想罵佢比佢知BB安全的重要性，不過呢排都成日產佢，又唔想佢冇心機，我好唔開心
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chan328


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發表於 13-12-20 11:17 |只看該作者
no, must put in playpen.
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Dragonbabykwok


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發表於 13-12-20 11:17 |只看該作者

引用：想問下大家，我屋企有圍欄，都幾大係比囡囡

原帖由 Dragonbabykwok 於 13-12-20 發表
想問下大家，我屋企有圍欄，都幾大係比囡囡入面玩的，廚房望到出黎的，而今日我 cam 見到姐姐就咁比我歲半B ...
我嬲係點解咁簡單佢唔放BB入圍欄內
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chan328


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發表於 13-12-20 11:19 |只看該作者
lazy or forget.

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queenmooe


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發表於 13-12-20 11:39 |只看該作者

回覆：係我太嚴定係佢錯呢

佢唔啱,但你咪完全旨意佢，自己個廳盡量baby proof ,我屋頂都係,當然少不免有危機，但自己都盡做
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Dragonbabykwok


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發表於 13-12-20 11:48 |只看該作者

引用：佢唔啱,但你咪完全旨意佢，自己個廳盡量bab

原帖由 queenmooe 於 13-12-20 發表
佢唔啱,但你咪完全旨意佢，自己個廳盡量baby proof ,我屋頂都係,當然少不免有危機，但自己都盡做

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最後我打左一大段 msg 罵佢 rather than 打返去產佢 ，其中一句 「u said u are in kitchen but u look at bb ? I m not easily cheated n don\'t tell me stupid things !」
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Mrs.Wotin


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發表於 13-12-20 12:24 |只看該作者
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I also have a similar situation. In last week, I found my helper concentrated on preparing dinner for herself in kitchen at 7pm and left bb alone in the living room. I looked at the cam again at 7:30pm and she was still in the kitchen, my bb just had a minnie doll with her and walked around outside the kitchen and in the living room. I was super angry that time and called her, she then replied me very loudly that bb did not cry and she was fine, and she had taken out a ball for bb to play. I told her that her responsibility is not only to make sure bb does not cry, but also need to make sure bb is safe. Even though she is preparing dinner, she still needs to keep an eye on bb from time to time as bb now can jump and climb.

Later when I came back to home, I reminded her to take closer look on bb when there was no other adult at home. She still believed she has done nothing wrong and said it's 太太 too nervous and all her previous employers did not behave like this. I asked her what she want and she said she will resign. I said yes and asked her to prepare resignation letter.
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Dragonbabykwok


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發表於 13-12-20 12:31 |只看該作者

引用：回覆+Dragonbabykwok+的帖子I+also+have+a+

原帖由 Mrs.Wotin 於 13-12-20 發表
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I also have a similar situation. In last week, I found my helper concent ...
My maid say sorry to me n I send msg to tell her not to do that again n she say Okok. How old of yr baby n how is yr maid in normal days ? My maid loves my baby since she is the one take care her when I give birth . But she did some careless mistake n she also think I m over concern about the baby
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My girl is 28 months old now, and we employed this existing maid in Mar 2013. She is hardworking and very good at doing housework, but dun know how to take care of bb, even though she said she had experience in looking after young children
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Dragonbabykwok


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引用：回覆+Dragonbabykwok+的帖子My+girl+is+28+

原帖由 Mrs.Wotin 於 13-12-20 發表
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My girl is 28 months old now, and we employed this existing maid in Mar ...
Did she give u resign letter finally ？
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發表於 13-12-20 15:13 |只看該作者

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我工人又係咁，去廚房洗碗，我女就自己喺廳，我見一次鬧一次，鬧左半年先唔使鬧
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Mrs.Wotin


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發表於 13-12-20 15:24 |只看該作者
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She insisted not to provide her reason of resignation in the letter, not even just simply write 'due to personal reasons'. Few days later, as I've already hired a new helper, I told her if she did not give her resignation letter to me, then I will give my termination notice to her.

After I gave my termination notice (with 1 month notice) to her, my mum said one day afternoon, she suddenly loudly shouted that she worked hard at my home but she is now being terminated, and said she dun want to resign now......... (despite we have further asked her twice before and she said she determined to resign). We are now considering whether to ask her leave immediately as we worry if she will do something bad to my family.
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Dragonbabykwok


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發表於 13-12-20 16:44 |只看該作者

引用：我工人又係咁，去廚房洗碗，我女就自己喺廳

原帖由 chichiho 於 13-12-20 發表
我工人又係咁，去廚房洗碗，我女就自己喺廳，我見一次鬧一次，鬧左半年先唔使鬧



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唉，邊睇到咁多次成日 check 住佢好煩，我們真慘
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Dragonbabykwok


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引用：回覆+Dragonbabykwok+的帖子She+insisted+n

原帖由 Mrs.Wotin 於 13-12-20 發表
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She insisted not to provide her reason of resignation in the letter, not ...
Yes , u hv baby with her it is not wroth to let her hv any chance to hurt baby. 明明佢 resign 仲要賠比佢真唔抵，不過冇計，希望你下個工人好好好

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Mrs.Wotin  Thanks!!  發表於 13-12-20 18:03
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lui


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引用：回覆+Dragonbabykwok+的帖子She+insisted+n

原帖由 Mrs.Wotin 於 13-12-20 發表
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She insisted not to provide her reason of resignation in the letter, not ...
Better ask her leave now. Not wise to keep her at home, especially you don\'t have adult at home sometimes
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chichiho


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發表於 13-12-21 12:50 |只看該作者

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冇辦法，睇少一眼都唔掂
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grace318


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發表於 13-12-21 14:05 |只看該作者
洗碗可以遲些洗, 同BB一起玩先, 之後有時間先洗.
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alhkwok


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發表於 13-12-21 14:11 |只看該作者

回覆：係我太嚴定係佢錯呢

我想分享下我嘅經驗，我有兩個小朋友，大嘅而家2歲11個月，細嘅11個月，請咗一個工人，屋企大部份時間只得工人同兩個小朋友，我同老公平時好夜收工，工人要做家務，照顧小朋友同要煮飯。因為要做咁多野，我明白我唔可以要求咁多，工人冇可能貼身望住兩個小朋友，否則冇時間做其他野。我屋企唔大，放唔到網床，只有圍欄封住厨房，露台等地方，小朋友喺屋企多數自由走動，為免佢哋發生意外，喺佢哋活動地方冇尖同冇細小嘅物件，亦冇得爬高（除梳化外），就算真係整親，都應該係「小事」（如撞親）。而小朋友，大囡自小就教佢點爬上梳化，點落梳化，唔要企高等安全意識，有時撞親，我會解釋俾佢知點樣做可以避免，等佢學識點保護自己！因我明白工人要顧咁多野，其實冇乜可能樣樣兼顧，所以唯有喺我能力做到嘅地方做多d，教多d。我有時覺得我揍小朋友揍得好粗，但試問我哋都係咁長大啫！有時小朋友有少少損傷，其實對佢哋成長有幫助！

我唔清楚你屋企家居環境係點，
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Dragonbabykwok


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發表於 13-12-21 16:19 |只看該作者

引用：我想分享下我嘅經驗，我有兩個小朋友，大嘅

原帖由 alhkwok 於 13-12-21 發表
我想分享下我嘅經驗，我有兩個小朋友，大嘅而家2歲11個月，細嘅11個月，請咗一個工人，屋企大部份時間只得 ...
你既分享好好，所以我出 post 問下其實係我嚴定係真係佢唔岩，或者而家d小朋友太受保護，不過我想我工人做野要識分先後軽重
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kufubaby


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發表於 13-12-21 17:18 |只看該作者
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歲半可能重係細左D, 既然有買圍欄, 我覺得叫工人放BB入去都好合理, 否則買來做咩? (我都係咁樣)
我又係兩個, 都有少少分享. 就如樓上有JM SHARE, 我養仔都好粗, 唔算緊張的MAME, 有時工人重緊張過我. 我會話俾工人知跌碰係小朋友成長必經階段, 只要唔見紅(我已經執好個廳確保係危險野)無事既, 佢經歷過下次就識得避. 兩個仔2歲已經開衣柜門柜桶唔會夾到手

歲半已經明白好多說話, 可以慢慢從生活中教小朋友自我保護, 但我都認為2歲半前有圍欄都應該照放入去, 始終佢係工人唔係啊媽, 邊有咁上心
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