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發表於 07-8-1 16:33 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

:-( Just yesterday night I came home with a lunch box specially bought for her (Bun) from OK store. This is normally done when I dine out with my C6 and come back cuz I think it is a favour to her by not requiring her to eat instant noodles.

I asked her to microwave and eat. Then 1/2 hour afterwards it so happened I took a look at the rubbish bin. Surprisingly, the whole thing, hot, including the poiece of minced pork uneaten, was there.

I asked her why, and she said, "because I'm full". Then I got a bit emotionall and kept asking why and if you know you are full you can keep it in fridge or tell me you don't need. Here's what she said, "I have already given you the reason! As I have just said, mom! I am full and don't need to eat (firmly). And I don't think I need to explain anymore!" Then went back to hide herself in the bathroom. I think this is not the only one time she did so, but it just so happens that I discovered this last night.

Then I told C6 that I would from now on offer her only instant noodle all the time. SO even if she throws that it will not be such big amount of money (noodles only cost at most $3), or I may offer her $300 for her food allowance without letting her eat any of the food in the house. But C6 said "don't you consider the result if you play this trick to her? If you do so she will have other tricks on you! That will be never ending! If you offer her $300 for a month to "eat herself", what if she says she needs to go to restaurant to eat for an hour everynight?" And I had a quarrel with C6, he said, " you derserve it as you been spoiling her so much!!!"

Her performance is not bad (but not good) cuz I did quite a lot of housework on my own. I got angry not because of the money, but because I was always considering her, and doing her favours, but she ends up doing this and answered me in this manner.

She's treating herself so superior:-( :-(

[ 本文章最後由 pollyw 於 07-8-1 16:50 編輯 ]

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叻叻勳章 wyeth冷知識勳章 2011至尊種植勳章畀面勳章環保接龍勳章大廚勳章親子達人勳章

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你將個　飯盒　比佢時，　佢有冇即時話　飽　呀？？

如果佢冇講，　佢丁左只食小小來出氣就唔岩．．．．．

但佢地　ｄ　邏輯好怪的，　佢地個腦可能覺飽，　但係你叫佢丁來食，　佢只做你既指令，　就走去丁，　跟住丁完，　食２啖，　ｆｕｌｌ∼　咁就掉．．．．．．

真係鬥唔　ｗｉｎ　佢地嫁，　點都係佢地ｗｉｎ

原文章由 pollyw 於 07-8-1 16:33 發表
Just yesterday night I came home with a lunch box specially bought for her (Bun) from OK store. This is normally done when I dine out with my C6 and come back cuz I think it is a favour to her b ...

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原文章由 moonychan 於 07-8-1 16:53 發表
你將個　飯盒　比佢時，　佢有冇即時話　飽　呀？？

Of course she did not la! If she told me beforehand I will ask her to keep in fridge la! ANd that is what a normal person should be doing . JUst can't comprehend what is in her mind...:-( :-( :-(

"Treating her with heart but she treats my heart as a dogg lung"

[ 本文章最後由 pollyw 於 07-8-1 17:00 編輯 ]

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very inch and impolite :tongue: 唔食就唔好叮熱啦．真折墜　！　

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發表於 07-8-1 17:17 |只看該作者

我覺得工人唔會珍惜你提供的食物, 所以我只會提供最基本的, 佢唔鐘意可以自己買, 工人永遠唔會將心比己去對僱主, 都係平常心啦:-|

我係你只會買instant noodle比佢, 因為唔洗佢煮巳經好好, 仲要幫佢諗埋食咩就無需要囉

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咁巴之閉o既工人，俾錢請佢，買埋飯佢食仲要受氣，唔好話佢係工人呀，你屋企人係咁浪費你心意，你都會

啦！佢對波士有咁o既工作態度，唔荒會係好工人，我寧願請過個，爭在遲早。不過，如果你唔想咁快行呢步，你咪以後由佢食即食

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唔好勞氣啦，我出街食都唔會特登買野俾印印架，屋企有蛋有腸有麵有米，佢想食乜都得啦，仲要唸佢會食乜野favour，真係無咁好氣。

無期望，就唔會失望，妳有instant noodles俾佢食仲想點？

俾＄300伙食？side氣啦，一時之氣o者，妳點知佢會煮乜野俾妳食？（反正佢都無份食）

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發表於 07-8-1 17:33 |只看該作者

haha.. i agreed... "佢地　ｄ　邏輯好怪的, 但係你叫佢丁來食，　佢只做你既指令"

so, we have to be careful to tell them anything... with a lot of minor details

I only will store some instant noodles .. rice noodles.. and a few frozen sausages... some frozen meat ... and a couple of microwave dinners (since mine is a thai, just bought a couple thai curry microwave dinner for her).... so just in case we are not home for dinner.. she pick whatever she wants to eat.

I guess they also like the "freedom" to pick what to eat while you are not home...

原文章由 moonychan 於 07-8-1 16:53 發表
你將個　飯盒　比佢時，　佢有冇即時話　飽　呀？？

如果佢冇講，　佢丁左只食小小來出氣就唔岩．．．．．

但佢地　ｄ　邏輯好怪的，　佢地個腦可能覺飽，　但係你叫佢丁來食，　佢只做你既指令，　就走去 ...

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原文章由 eshiro 於 07-8-1 17:33 發表
haha.. i agreed... "佢地　ｄ　邏輯好怪的, 但係你叫佢丁來食，　佢只做你既指令"

so, we have to be careful to tell them anything... with a lot of minor details

I only will store some instant n ...

From time to time, during chatting she will tell me she doesn't like eating this and that. Like, this time she telss me she doesn't like, fishball, another time she tells shedon't like rice noodle. Alltogether, I found that she don't eat curry, fishball, rice noodle, sausages, egg and many, all of which are instant frozen food most convenient to cook. It's difficult....

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Don't get too upset. The more upset you are, the happier your maid feels. So, you learn the lesson now. You don't need to black face to her, just behave as normal. From now onwards, you make sure to have some can food, instant noodles, rice, frozen meat at home. Whenever you need to go out, just tell her that you are going out for dinner. They will know where to look for the food.

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原文章由 vickynicky 於 07-8-1 17:46 發表
Don't get too upset. The more upset you are, the happier your maid feels. So, you learn the lesson now. You don't need to black face to her, just behave as normal. From now onwards, you make ...

吾食吾緊要, 係佢d 態度好差

總之你係屋企有米, 有蛋, 有魚蛋腸仔果d 野, 就吾好理佢食乜, 你出街食飯就話我們吾返黎食, 你自己整野食啦, 佢鍾意食就食, 吾食就罷

佢係吾鍾意食, 吾係我吾比佢食, 你同佢講, 我都教小朋友吾可以揀飲擇食, 我做吾出要就你吾食就吾買呢d 食物

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發表於 07-8-1 18:18 |只看該作者

She has a right not to eat the lunch box, but you need to tell her that she has no right to waste the food you bought. This is very bad attitude. You don't need to scold at her. Just tell her that u don't like people wasting food and next time she needs to seek your permission before throwing ediable food away.

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發表於 07-8-1 19:58 |只看該作者

If I dine outside, I'll just tell my maid to cook for herself with the food she can find at home. I wouldn't care about if she eat or not as long as I have food at home. Your maid's attitude is bad, if i were you, I will just leave fishball, egg, instant noodle, sausage at home. Who cares if she eat or not? She comes to work and not enjoy life.

原文章由 pollyw 於 07-8-1 17:42 發表

From time to time, during chatting she will tell me she doesn't like eating this and that. Like, this time she telss me she doesn't like, fishball, another time she tells shedon't like rice ...

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Now I know what is

敬蕉唔食食罰蕉

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發表於 07-8-1 23:57 |只看該作者

Dont get upset. Just leave tin food, instant noodles or sausage at home and tell her to eat those when u dine out.

And dont agrue with your hubby about your maid coz she is not important to your life at all. Be happy :)

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我由第2個工人開始（第一個教精我）從來唔會問佢仲意食咩,唔仲意食咩, 廢事特登就佢. 佢地出得黎打工,預左無得簡飲簡食. 唔食fishball, rice noodles, suasages ... 你教我買咩餸 ! 如果佢話仲意鵝肝,魚子醬,唔通我又要買呀 !　總之我食咩佢食咩，我唔迫印印食豬就得啦．　

原文章由 pollyw 於 07-8-1 17:42 發表

From time to time, during chatting she will tell me she doesn't like eating this and that. Like, this time she telss me she doesn't like, fishball, another time she tells shedon't like rice ...

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發表於 07-8-2 10:49 |只看該作者

Because of this, I didn't talk with my C6 for 2 days la! Bun also long face to me for 2 days, as though I'm punished by the BUn. I had almost no conversation inside the house in these 2 days. THe whole house's silent except noise of my kids.:-( :-(

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d工人好小氣o架. 如果你真係俾300元佢乜都唔准食, 佢實玩o野啦. 係你d o野食到加o野咪仲死. 對答態度差, 原來個個工人都係一x樣. 我個工人又超差, 諗住炒佢, in工人時d現成工人都係無個好, 打俾佢地d僱主問, 佢地話態度都係唔好的. 密月期得一年咋..... 咁我都唔知點算好了. 我平時買定好多丸,腸仔,猪扒,菜, 但我從來都唔知道佢幾點食晚餐, 食過d乜o野. 只時我放工叫佢煮乜俾我同c6食咋. 無佢份的. 佢自己攪掂自己個晚餐.

原文章由 pollyw 於 07-8-1 16:33 發表
:-( Just yesterday night I came home with a lunch box specially bought for her (Bun) from OK store. This is normally done when I dine out with my C6 and come back cuz I think it is a favour to h ...

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發表於 07-8-2 12:14 |只看該作者

我想你工人一定觉得，你两个出去吃好野，而她就只有丁丁饭盒！所以发脾气！

所以，我都觉得好似其他mami讲，不如叫她自己煮。。。由她食就食，不食就罢仲好！

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