I have once very happy with my first girl friend, but our connection with stopped all my letters sent to her home were received by her mom and not let she knew any. After a few years later, I followed my parents moved to new home in different district, she told this fact to my mom during they met in the shopping market. It was too late, because this was the time after my marriage with my present wife. My 1st girl friend's fortune was completely distroyed by her mother. (I don't think she has gotten a good fortune in her marriage).
Although my wife is not my 1st lover, but I really treat her very nice after we married. We have loved and lived fortunately in our marriage for 36 years already.
It was not my fault to leave my initial girl friend. It was interrupted by her mother's nonsense to keep my letters out of her, and not to reach her hand, and lost connection after my movement to different district a little far away. I thought I would marry her if there was not of her mother's interruption. I felt quite sorry for this too after my marriage.