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民房

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發表於 04-9-9 00:30 |只看該作者

我決定要換走上工個多月的菲傭

各位你們好﹗我是一個新會員,我己決定換我的菲傭。因為她每次我要求她工作時,總是講價,不是說昨天已做了,就是給我面色。最離譜的是她在我們吃飯後,她便會走回自己的房間,那時多數只是八時多;此外,我們又發現她在清洗奶瓶時沒有清洗乾淨,令奶嘴發出臭味,還有白色的污物呢?她己在我家工作個半月,但我的兒子還不肯跟她,不但不肯和她睡,問他喜歡不喜歡她,我的兒子也說不喜歡她,這是因為她很少和他玩所致,現在我有一個問題,我應該換菲傭還是印傭,我只希望她能看顧我的兒子,讓我安心上班,現在我己叫agent給我看印傭的資料,但是看見這裏這麼多有關印傭的不好評語,我也不知怎樣才好,有人可以給一些意見嗎?多謝﹗


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發表於 04-9-9 08:40 |只看該作者

Re: 我決定要換走上工個多月的菲傭

eddie1817

其實請工人真的很講彩數的。不是每個印印或賓獺都是這樣差的,很視乎本質的。

有些工人自己識得自動自覺做野,有些叫一次做少少,再叫先再做多少少,有些甚至口話會做,轉頭又唔做的。

其實請賓或是請印都無所謂,最緊要你要自己你自己想她perform些什麼。有些人話請賓可以俾多些機會個小朋友講英文,但是不是每個賓都講到好英文?我聽聞有些賓根本連最基本的英文應對都唔曉。請印的話,又如何與她溝通呢?agent通常都話印印識講cantonese,其實都唔係的。只不過她們就真的學得很快。其實請賓請印都無所謂,因為都是博一鋪。

不如你問下你自己當初點解你想請賓的原因,其實你自己心裡都有數。 :)

你或者可以同個賓賓講清楚你的要求,亦要求個agent做follow up看看她的情況有無改善先再決定,俾個機會她,亦俾個機會你自己。


大宅

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發表於 04-9-9 09:30 |只看該作者

Re: 我決定要換走上工個多月的菲傭

我兩種工人都請過, 有以下見解:

我覺得菲傭係比印傭醒目, 容易溝通.

但相反, 菲傭亦容易練精學懶, 服從性無咁高, 做多少少野會覺得好辛苦, 又周不時要求呢樣, 要求果樣, 下下要講權利時又吾記得自己既責任. 我覺得就算我同菲傭溝通無問題, 但佢無吾服從我既指示, 咁溝通到又如何?! 只會聽到更多佢既控訴, 借口, 十萬個理由...

印傭比較學野慢, 初頭同佢都係用身體語言溝通多, 加埋本天書. 但吾駛半年, 佢已經聽得哂我講既廣東話. 服從性比較好, 要佢做佢吾會say no. 最緊要係佢放假返到屋企會自動自覺洗碗, 洗bb衫. 我都幾appreciate佢. 而且佢知我吾鐘意佢傾電話, 佢放完假會將部電話放係佢抽屜前方, 因為膠抽屜又少少透明, 我入bb房便會見到佢部電話.

所以我再請工人都會請印傭.


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發表於 04-9-9 13:20 |只看該作者

Re: 我決定要換走上工個多月的菲傭

I seldom give comment here. I have " bun bun" taking care of my baby (from newborn to 1 year), she is fine on average. she is a experienced bun bun in taking care of newborn too. so far i have good relationship with her and she can perform well to me; but sometimes, when i am not satisfy with her on certain jobs, i will tell her directly, or sometimes i will use other cases to let her know what i want , for example: i told her my friend's bun was fired because she has stolen my friend's belongings. and i told her my friend's bun did not take care well of baby and only phoned, and did her own things which finally fired, ( all are true), then i told her her 1st proiority is taking care of my baby.

even when she came back home from holiday, she will wash our dishes, do some cleaning in kitchen, and prepare the congee for my son before leaving home.
so i think if you try to have more communication with your bun or indoesia , the relationship wl be better.


大宅

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發表於 04-9-9 13:45 |只看該作者

Re: 我決定要換走上工個多月的菲傭

monmantong:
哈! 你呢個方法我以前都用過: 如果我吾想正面話佢, 我會同佢講人地既case.
點知後來佢又學番我, 放完假返到屋企同我講佢聽返來既真實case, 佢好強調"mum, it"s ture!".
例如佢話佢個friend人工有成$5000.00
又話有個工人告僱主, 因為僱主叫佢去婆婆屋企做清潔.
又話佢個friend放假可以12:00先返屋企, 連我工人都覺得好過份喎!
真係比佢激死.

但無論菲傭定印傭, 都要睇佢既本性同埋來香港打工既目的.


民房

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發表於 04-9-9 15:24 |只看該作者

Re: 我決定要換走上工個多月的菲傭

多謝各位的意見,希望在這裏能跟各位互相交換心得。我已買了機票在星期六送走這個菲傭,希望我能找到一個好的傭工吧﹗希望各位為我禱告﹗


大宅

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發表於 04-9-10 19:14 |只看該作者

Re: 我決定要換走上工個多月的菲傭

I try before to share cases with the maid like the other mother mention here BUT Now I got a new method.

After I find this website I like very much !
我以"其人之道還治其人之身"佢有church we have Bk""

Every time she ask me the question I will said let me ask all my friend and will answer you later. :-P

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