I seldom give comment here. I have " bun bun" taking care of my baby (from newborn to 1 year), she is fine on average. she is a experienced bun bun in taking care of newborn too. so far i have good relationship with her and she can perform well to me; but sometimes, when i am not satisfy with her on certain jobs, i will tell her directly, or sometimes i will use other cases to let her know what i want , for example: i told her my friend's bun was fired because she has stolen my friend's belongings. and i told her my friend's bun did not take care well of baby and only phoned, and did her own things which finally fired, ( all are true), then i told her her 1st proiority is taking care of my baby.
even when she came back home from holiday, she will wash our dishes, do some cleaning in kitchen, and prepare the congee for my son before leaving home.
so i think if you try to have more communication with your bun or indoesia , the relationship wl be better.