super congrat you that you gave birth to second one, coz. I remembered you told me that your husband agreed for one child only. You two got consensus to have one more, super thanks my
God!!
Are your second darling girl or boy??
原帖由 monmantong 於 09-1-12 10:37 發表
yes,,, you are ?
haha, Hayes ma, why did you change your login name ,, i remember you..
yes, he finally agreed with me.. hehe , it takes timeto convince him , and actually thanks God, it is his present for me, my 2nd son..
and his face is 99.9 - me.
you also got 2nd one, how old is him ? ( i guess is boy from your photo ).
原帖由 honey2h 於 09-1-12 10:41 發表
I'm Hayes mama ar!!!
super congrat you that you gave birth to second one, coz. I remembered you told me that your husband agreed for one child only. You two got consensus to have one more, s ...
My dear old nursing friend, very glad to meet you here!!
We also took long time to discuss, consider & decide for the second one....when we both got consensus with prayer, God gave the second one immediately! Maybe God think I'm so old, thus couldn't wait! hahaha
Yes, super thanks God that my second one is Boy too(just reached 9 months!), coz. we did expect Hayes could enjoy very close and good companion, boy sibling is a very good matching!
As you know, becoming parent, we rather consider Hayes's best interest, instead our own preference on child sex!
Can Moses adjust well with his role change and your attention to little brother now??
原帖由 monmantong 於 09-1-12 10:50 發表
haha, Hayes ma, why did you change your login name ,, i remember you..
yes, he finally agreed with me.. hehe , it takes timeto convince him , and actually thanks God, it is his present for me, my 2n ...
Hi! hayes ma,
yes, agree with you, for the parent's point of view, i like one boy one girl, however, it proves that 2 boys are good as they can play and share each other.
Moses is very good to be a good brother, i don't have any problem for his adjustment, he loves his brother very very much, he always helps me to take care of little one when going out, maybe he is five and can take care himself..
i am very happy now.
原帖由 honey2h 於 09-1-12 10:59 發表
My dear old nursing friend, very glad to meet you here!!
We also took long time to discuss, consider & decide for the second one....when we both got consensus with prayer, God gave the second one imm ...
Moses already reached 5? wow, big boy now!! Which month was he born in 2003?
Hayes was only 3 years and 5 months when little brother was born....we put much efforts to facilitate his adjustment and relationship skill with baby.
Daddy just went trip yesterday, we were so touching that Hayes as usual requested Daddy to bring him back some his very interested flight & hotel cards, pampflets or soveniors.
But this time, Hayes suddenly repeatedly reminded Daddy, "Daddy, please bring ONE SET FOR HAYES, ONE SET FOR BROTHER! We share and play together!"
原帖由 monmantong 於 09-1-12 11:06 發表
Hi! hayes ma,
yes, agree with you, for the parent's point of view, i like one boy one girl, however, it proves that 2 boys are good as they can play and share each other.
Moses is very good to be a g ...
time is running so fast, Moses is now a big boy! he is more mature, and he always behaved very well,
i think the difference between your 2 boys are not big, he needs adjustment by himself that he lost some focus from his mom, but sure you did you great job to handle it.. at least breastfeeding for them is not easy, right.
原帖由 honey2h 於 09-1-12 11:15 發表
Moses already reached 5? wow, big boy now!! Which month was he born in 2003?
Hayes was only 3 years and 5 months when little brother was born....we put much efforts to facilitate his adjustment and r ...
I miss little boy Moses in Kowloon park where you taught 05 milk ma to use baby sling,...do you still remember?
Who size is bigger/heavier among your two darling sons??
Congrats that your second boy looks alike you, wow 99.9% same! Good copy!! hehehe!
Most peoples also said my second one looks alike me, but I think silly him should be more handsome, hahha.
原帖由 monmantong 於 09-1-12 11:31 發表
oh, so touching, he grows up a lots!
time is running so fast, Moses is now a big boy! he is more mature, and he always behaved very well,
i think the difference between your 2 boys are not big, he ...
i remember.. did you keep any photo about this gathering, if so, pls send to me,, i need this good memory.
moses was 8 lbs when born while his brother was almost 8 lbs too.
but his brother can gain weight better than him, maybe my bf skill is better now, remember when Moses was infant, i faces a lot of problems to bf him, because of lack of experiences..
but my little one does not like bottles, when my maid feeds him, he always cries, so finally she feeds him by syringe when i go to work, horrible.
原帖由 honey2h 於 09-1-12 11:42 發表
I miss little boy Moses in Kowloon park where you taught 05 milk ma to use baby sling,...do you still remember?
Who size is bigger/heavier among your two darling sons??
Yes, I kept a group photo ar! I've posted a hard copy at my office, all babies looked so small, hehee...
Let me send you when my husband back to HK coz. he is responsible to organize soft copies of album....
same same here! My second one is bigger size than Hayes! Hayes was L size, but XL size for his little brother. I think more mature milk ducts of breasts and with better nursing skill also may help us smoother!!
Do you find with much better milk supply comparing with last time for your eldest son??