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發表於 09-7-2 13:19 |只看該作者
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大宅

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發表於 09-7-4 12:29 |只看該作者
唔駛担心, 大個會好d架啦! 我細仔小時都係咁, 好痴身, 我家姐幫我湊到頂唔順, 話好困身, 行開一步都唔得. 後來我妹幫我湊, 情況一樣, 要屋企總動員出動幫手(即公公和婆婆)才分擔到我妹的辛苦, 因當時我是週末才湊番個仔嘅!佢好怕陌生人, 好似搭lift人地望吓佢都喊!返學喊左好耐, 總之人多就怕, 最怕男人, 有時都唔知佢喊mud, 細時我地湊得好辛苦! 幼稚園第二年我找了一間比較小班嘅學校比佢等佢慢慢適應, 情況亦逐漸改善, 佢地係需要多d鼓勵,讚賞以增加自信心.

而家佢9歲啦, 平時佢都鍾意挨住我, 仍然係咁痴身,但我而家好enjoy佢嘅痴身(當然跟小時的痴身不同啦), 因為好快佢地唔會再痴住你, 也因為這樣,我地嘅關係特別好, 對我好信任並時時同我傾計講心事. 今個暑假佢已經可以自己跟親戚去澳洲住一個月都能應付自如啦!

所以唔駛担心, 每個小朋友的成長過程都不一樣,最緊要有耐心及愛心比多d鼓勵佢地!


大宅

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發表於 09-7-4 13:12 |只看該作者
我有個親戚的女兒,都係咁既情況...2歲後,就返全日N班...現在去別人家時,已經唔會哭,但就唔多講野...唔多識同其他小朋友玩...

佢女兒平時工人湊,無cam,後來發現平日工人係唔理BB,只放BB單獨在床上,工人自己在工人房午睡...而親戚夫婦又係好少同BB出街,但自己湊夜晚+同BB沖涼...

不過,個個BB的性格唔同...


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發表於 09-7-6 09:24 |只看該作者
會唔會係因為佢太黐工人?

不如你地試下唔好甘依賴工人, 自己湊多d, 比多d時間落個仔身上.


別墅

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發表於 09-7-6 15:23 |只看該作者
my toffy 媽,

我覺得我個仔既 case 同你個仔好似呀!

特徵如下, 好既方面:
講野好叻, 學野好快, 識整古做怪 (即係funny 唔似內向), 有要求有表達, 睇人面色都識, 又識 tum 人

唔好方面:
去親任何場合, 總之唔係自己熟既環境(包括 new play ground, swimming pool, libarary,飲宴場合, 朋友屋企, 商場, 有時連地鐵, 奶奶屋企)
都係話之你要走, 要離開"果到", 要返屋企, 我地用晒好多方法, 多數成功拎佢逗留, 但事前起碼要個幾2個鐘頭, 唉, 辛苦又尷尬到我呢, 最慘係要聽埋d 人既閒話, 不過我唔理, 照顧我個仔至上, 我最清楚佢係點.

而家去到學校(playgroup), 佢都係歲半先開始, 反而我唔主張太早上 playgroup 既人.... 成個感覺係佢比人蝦多lor, 因為太唔識反應 (成 log 木) 唉..

我都好想可以點.
原帖由 MyToffy 於 09-7-2 13:19 發表
我個仔仔依家2歲半, 自小已經很怕人, 當去陌生人屋企or 有朋友去我屋企都會喊, 好似好害怕
佢細個時我同老公會諗可能佢仲細大d 會好 d, 但係呢個情況去到今年年頭2歲新年果時都仲係咁,去親友屋企拜年一入屋就喊
係 ...


大宅

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發表於 09-7-13 23:12 |只看該作者
Hi,

My son is 6 years old and was bring up in the environment similar to yours, of course, he also got all the symptoms that your sons have.

The reason was not known until he entered Y1 in an international school in 2008 and he was recommended to attend an Occupational Assessement done by an Occupational Therapist. The report shown that due to my son have had the problem of "Sensory Integeration" and thus, he was so sensitive to the environment including the stranger and adult. After several months' SI training, his situation is much improved but still have rooms to improve especially he would take a longer time to build up the trust and feeling of secure with the adult including the class teacher.


原帖由 officecatcat 於 09-7-6 15:23 發表
my toffy 媽,

我覺得我個仔既 case 同你個仔好似呀!

特徵如下, 好既方面:
講野好叻, 學野好快, 識整古做怪 (即係funny 唔似內向), 有要求有表達, 睇人面色都識, 又識 tum 人

唔好方面:
去親任何場合, 總之唔係自 ...

[ 本帖最後由 chuchuma 於 09-7-13 23:13 編輯 ]


別墅

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發表於 09-7-20 11:15 |只看該作者
HI,

What's the meaning of "Sensory Integeration"? Do you have details about this?
Can you PM me and give me more info about the training and test?

Thanks.

原帖由 chuchuma 於 09-7-13 23:12 發表
Hi,

My son is 6 years old and was bring up in the environment similar to yours, of course, he also got all the symptoms that your sons have.

The reason was not known until he entered Y1 in an inte ...

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