me too…我今年5月終於笫三次成功了,女女出世有8.2磅,而家已8個月大了! 其實真係要睇下你有冇想做母親的決心,我深信做任何事,只要堅持一定有成功的一天! 諗番呢4年間的懷孕經歷真係唔容易過,even今次陀10個月就驚足咁耐,成日發惡夢BB今次又唔得…雖然辛苦,但而家見到女女就覺得再辛苦都係值得的,所以加油,希望你都和我一樣…先苦後甜,感受這失而復得的喜悅!
Everything that happened must come for a reason. If BB didn't develop good, it might be a good for BB to leave peacefully.
I was preg end of 2009.....twins, and then further split into triplets, although the 3rd BB got no heartbeat all the way, the twins grew very healthy until at their 4th month. On the Dr visit day, which I should be able to know they sex....no symptom of any pain or discomfort......during the scan, Dr told me both BB got no heartbeat already.....although it was super heart broken, but i accepted with tears. Because they got certain size at 4th month, couldn't do any surgery and had to wait for them to come out naturally. So, I carried their dead bodies inside for another 3 weeks, which was a very difficult time for me. I still thank them for giving me the happy moment while they were inside me and I kept telling them one day in the future, when they are ready, I hope they will come back to me.
Since then, I concern more about my own health as I want to have a better body condition to welcome my BB again. So, I actually quit my job cos my workload in the office somehow made me too stress and exhausted for having baby. 6 months later, I got preg again....I also got a bit pressure before the 4th month period because of the last incident....but i always believe, if it's yours, it'll be yours..........so I now just take everything easy....
I'm sure your BB knows your feeling too.......if a child is not healthy, he/she will suffer even he/she comes to this world, not just you..........
Don't let yourself regret in the future......if you're still at the age of trying.......add oil ar!!!