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deewindou


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發表於 05-8-8 09:09 |只看該作者

請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

如題
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chanrebe


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Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

有!我有孖b在05年4月出生

rebecca
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acintl


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發表於 05-8-8 13:33 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

有
我有個囡9歲, 小b會係05年12月出世
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mabelc


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Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

我係full time mami, 都諗住請工人,不過又好似開支好大, 雖然老公話no problem, 但都怕佢負擔重, 所以諗咗好耐都未行動.

My baby was born on 26Nov04
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deewindou


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Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

mabelc,
我同您都有同一個問題,我得一個小朋友,如果請工人好似又無咁嘅需要

mabelc 寫道:
我係full time mami, 都諗住請工人,不過又好似開支好大, 雖然老公話no problem, 但都怕佢負擔重, 所以諗咗好耐都未行動.
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mabelc


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Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

deewindou,
咪係囉, 又好似唔係咁好, 又怕老公屋企人唔知点諗, 但事實上凑小朋友加上做家務都好辛苦, 都唔知点好??
My baby was born on 26Nov04
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jane9898


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發表於 05-8-10 10:35 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

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zenith


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發表於 05-8-10 18:06 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

same as u. I got a little bit "post natal depression" because of doing the housework and taking care of baby together ah, and always got sick and bad tempered..... though I had a part time maid to help me.... she only did the housework.

Finally I got a maid, and I can concentrate on taking care of baby now.

mabelc 寫道:
deewindou,
咪係囉, 又好似唔係咁好, 又怕老公屋企人唔知点諗, 但事實上凑小朋友加上做家務都好辛苦, 都唔知点好??
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sunnyfamily


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發表於 05-8-11 00:55 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

真係好羨慕妳地可以請工人幫手,我都成日為咗無時間做家務唔開心呀,覺得自己唔叻囉,間屋亂過咩咁呀. 不過老公搵錢辛苦,我地又想儲吓錢,所以唔諗囉!
妳地老公係唔係賺好多架?真係羨慕妳地呀!可以做少奶奶!!
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vic-wing


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發表於 05-8-11 04:32 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

揍bb又要做家務真係夠晒忙架 回想起以前年代...個個都生幾個小朋友,有些水上人仲勁添,十個八個閒閒地 咪又係咁樣揍大？我暫時生完個女後都冇煮飯,只做家務和揍個女,咁樣會興鬆d囉,叫外賣或落街食,快靚正 但個女食緊粥/爛飯仔係我煲既,冇食外賣haha~

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garon


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發表於 05-8-11 11:47 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

我以前都一直有請工人,直到舊年停
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mabelc


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發表於 05-8-11 14:49 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

zenith,

係囉, 生完之後成日病, 唔知係補得唔好定係太辛苦. 而且老公又係想我concentrate take care bb. 我都請咗part time maid, 1day per week. 但都幫唔到太多, 如果叫佢嚟多d其實價錢又同full time 差唔多. 不過最大問題係驚請得唔好. 咁你請印印or bunbun 呀?
My baby was born on 26Nov04
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zenith


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發表於 05-8-11 17:46 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

mabelc,

我生o左bb咁耐就病足咁耐, 仲要係病都唔得閒睇醫生, 攬到有幾次都傳染o左bb。做full time mami真係要樣樣親力親為, 有時我亞媽叫我唔駛咁緊張, 以前我細個時又係乜都無兼父母返工都係咁！我心諗如果生得個bb出o黎, 而又唔用心湊佢同栽培佢, 就同俾人地湊無分別。

其實我一開始都係有個part time maid一個星期三次, 剩係負責清潔, 都唔係好乾淨，同埋一個月都要成$2,xxx, 極唔抵, 老公放工後就買飯盒, 請工人抵d, 我請o左個印印, 佢so far so good, 衛生意識高, 勤力同聽話, 算係咁。而家工人負責所有家務同煮食，每晚亞b又有湯飲, 我專注帶bb返playgroup、多d教佢o野同比以前更貼身照顧佢, bb好似對我好o左tim!因為而家少o左向佢發脾氣 :lol:

因為全家得老公一個搵$, 又請o左工人, 我真係而家好慳,除o左買菜同買教材比bb外, 我都無乜用$, 而家咪就o黎變肥c9

mabelc 寫道:
zenith,

係囉, 生完之後成日病, 唔知係補得唔好定係太辛苦. 而且老公又係想我concentrate take care bb. 我都請咗part time maid, 1day per week. 但都幫唔到太多, 如果叫佢嚟多d其實價錢又同full time 差唔多. 不過最大問題係驚請得唔好. 咁你請印印or bunbun 呀?
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CL322


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14#
發表於 05-8-11 17:48 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

我打算做全職媽媽後, laid off個工人, 但又怕自己handle唔到d家務, 你們可俾d意見嗎?
(唔要個工人不是她做得唔好, 只是想試吓自己親力親為照顧bb, 又可慳番d錢俾bb學野)
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zenith


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發表於 05-8-11 17:58 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

sunnyfamily,

其實我地呢班全職媽媽真係任勞任怨, 最想得到老公多d關心同尊重，當然bb健康快樂就更重要啦。老公一個人賺$真係好辛苦, 家庭開支又大, 搵埋返o黎又要進貢俾稅局, 所以我地都好難儲錢 :-(

sunnyfamily 寫道:
真係好羨慕妳地可以請工人幫手,我都成日為咗無時間做家務唔開心呀,覺得自己唔叻囉,間屋亂過咩咁呀. 不過老公搵錢辛苦,我地又想儲吓錢,所以唔諗囉!
妳地老公係唔係賺好多架?真係羨慕妳地呀!可以做少奶奶!!
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mabelc


大宅

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發表於 05-8-11 18:29 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

zenith
嘩, 你講嘅嘢同我諗嘅一模一樣呀.
My baby was born on 26Nov04
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honeybbb


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發表於 05-8-11 20:52 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

zenith
agreed! 做左全職mama反而重加要個老公疼錫同尊重, 以前返工反而無咁緊要
我都有個工人, 佢主力做家務+照顧隻狗only, cooking係我/老公/媽咪, 我小朋友升k3, 我有時都覺得仔開始大, 自己可以做埋d家務, 但用開工人真係會倚賴左, 再加上有工人時自己可以行開行埋, 工人又叫o.k. 所以而家想搵份part time 搵返工人份人工都好, 仲可以有返d自己生活
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sunnyfamily


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發表於 05-8-11 23:52 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

Zenith,
Yes, Agree!好難儲錢,但小朋友的洗費(Playgroup,書本,衣服,玩具)樣樣都貴,佢d野好難慳,惟有慳自己到啦!
仲有呀,得老公一個人賺錢,佢有好大心理壓力.所以都要得閒錫返老公.

zenith 寫道:
sunnyfamily,

其實我地呢班全職媽媽真係任勞任怨, 最想得到老公多d關心同尊重，當然bb健康快樂就更重要啦。老公一個人賺$真係好辛苦, 家庭開支又大, 搵埋返o黎又要進貢俾稅局, 所以我地都好難儲錢 :-(

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sunnyfamily 寫道:
真係好羨慕妳地可以請工人幫手,我都成日為咗無時間做家務唔開心呀,覺得自己唔叻囉,間屋亂過咩咁呀. 不過老公搵錢辛苦,我地又想儲吓錢,所以唔諗囉!
妳地老公係唔係賺好多架?真係羨慕妳地呀!可以做少奶奶!!
[/quote]
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mabelc


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發表於 05-8-12 09:02 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?


係呀, 其實爸爸都好偉大架.
My baby was born on 26Nov04
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ToToPiggy


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發表於 05-8-12 11:53 |只看該作者

Re: 請問呢度有無full-time mami有請工人ga ?

Hi Sunnyfamily/Zenith,

I'm also thinking to become a full time mama, and yet I don't want my husband to bear all financial burden. On top of daily expenses, there are also tax, saving for each month, and money to our parents. His family is extremely demanding financially. If we give less, they cry and say we treat them like begger! On top of monthly payment to them, there are many sudden extra payments, eg. educational expenses for younger sister, renovation expenses for their house, lend them money to buy now apartment etc. He has to pay for his grandparents' hospital expenses because his uncles and aunts have retired and don't want to pay for private hospital expenses for their parents. And my husband is a very kind person and want them to go to private hospital for better treatment, of course, he has to pay. And that is only his grandparents, when they die later, then there is is parents!

Therefore, if I decide to quit later, they (his whole family) probably want more money as we can survive with just him working.

Are your families like this? Are they supportive and understanding? Do you still give money to your parents?
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