My husband's family also like that.
His stupid & lazy big brother, no wife no children, no need to paid anything, e.g. rent, electrcity,water...
lazy to work.After that finish the work, no more money, ask my husband.
I had argue with my husband many time even it is not my money.
First time, i think never mind. He is his brother, ok.
Second time, i voice out. I said this is the last, dont lend him any money more.
He no money is still to his lazy, he not work and he is able to work.just 40 years old. what a shame!
He cannot find a job, because salary too low, need OT, no holiday on sunday, not 9-5.he not work.
No education, not handsome, no experience. if i am an employor, i also not employ him.
Last time, the third he ask for my husband. My husband 同我申, i voice out very very loudly, i said you 自己羅泥, dont told me about your brother anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Last time, he also make me very very angry. He silent lend my car use without me and my husband know!!!!!!!!!!!
Becasue i have a spare key at home, my maid dont know he did not ask before.
My husband also like that, but last time i told my husband.
Ever Ever dont told me you have give money to your brother!
After that, my husband sometimes said: how about his brother, did he have enough money????
You can imagine how angry i am.
I said: None of your business, no matter he did not have 1 cent.
My husband knows me very very angry people borrow money from him.
I always shout that (in front of many my husband's people), i always look down the people who is lazy go for work, but able to work.
But your case is different from me a lot. THat is your husband's father, not brother.
No matter how, his father had take care of your husband when young.
It quite difficult to do for your husband.
But the better way is dont let you know, dont let you unhappy.
If you divorce is due to this problem (your husband's father), i think is not value.
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