me too....... 好唔開心
琴晚我好惡好大力用滕條打阿仔(2.5yr),今日見到佢隻腳仔有滕條印,好後侮,佢仲好痴爸爸,有d抗拒我,真係好後侮
其實最初我地都唔主張打,但我6299就成日話我地縱佢,佢d脾氣又大,又活躍,鐘意搞搞震,6299揍得辛苦,好多時都 ,我又成日比6299話,我仲比99訓話過,係佢教我打仔嘅!唉!
琴晚佢發咗幾次脾氣,終於我係99面前狠狠地用滕條打阿仔,99走黎噤住我,我知99好肉尺(me too!)
我發覺自己開始失控,esp當62or99在場(becoz我想比佢地知我能管教好阿仔 and my husband has no power in his home!)
但我唔知after琴晚一打,and I note my son's response today,我點面對佢!!?? :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(
I cried many times today when I recalled my act last night! I regret what I have done to him!! :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(
若能全家管教方法一致就確係對小朋友最好,問題在於怎樣令全家配合,特別是老人家!
for my case
用他們教上一代的方法(打罵)--->久而久之破壞親子關係之餘,阿仔長大後分分鐘有陰影 & other unforeseeable 問題
用自己套方法(講道理)--->與6299會起衝突,自己又因家人未能配合而未能堅持,老公又無power,幫不上,總之我教仔時梗有62 or 99其中一個插手!
我地仲要晚晚一起食飯
我都唔知點教好?
ChloeMammy
thanks for your advice, I'll try your method to recover with my son
my son has been attending a whole day nursery school
I found that he is very polite and behave himself very good at school, he's a good student at school
I hope that I could 堅持 our method of teaching and be more patient
u'r right, I hate 6299 but on the other side, I 體諒 them for carrying my son and I know that they love our family, so I'll try not to conflict/ argue with them, unluckily, I found that what I've done is totally breaking the relationship with my son and I'm frustrated, I also afraid that if I insisted to do my own teaching, I believe that it's hard for my husband to balance with 6299 & me, it will be a very hard time for him
I know I know I couldn't change their mind and their method
my son will not follow our instructions and is very naughty when 6299 are here with us
at the same time, my husband will not leave 6299 and separate my son with them (although I'm much much eager to leave them)
oh! what should I do?
,我又成日比6299話,我仲比99訓話過,係佢教我打仔嘅!唉!
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