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jaca

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要數外傭不是，十日十夜也講不完，唯一方法是忍，忍唔住就唔使佢做！但心血少者還是不請為妙。以下分享個人少少經驗；
我請過印也用過賓，各有好壞！

印：
1• 蠢但乖，叫佢做咩都會跟。
2• 大食、貪心，家鄉窮，比咩都要，但少食好野，來到博命食。
3• dirty: 跌落地都可以食，唔洗手比野bb食

賓：
1• 較印清潔，會注重儀容
2• 唔聽說，有自己一套，你有你講。
3• 無禮貌，比嘢佢唔會多謝，唔叫早晨！因為佢唔認為自己低過你。
4• 唔食隔夜野，你叫佢食，佢會倒左佢

總括一句，佢地來只為錢，唔會有心做好呢份工，因為做又36，唔做又36，唔會同你博。
家裡事、小朋友唔會真關心，唔害你已經偷笑！
你心態只能當佢地junior officer 看待，仲要係博炒個隻！咁會平衡d!
祝大家好運！

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333s 好分折能力, 我會針對其缺點著手. 發表於 11-12-2 07:32

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小mama

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引用:Quote:333s 發表於 11-12-4 14:32 家里八十

原帖由 ferferfer 於 11-12-05 發表
yep，我亞姨都係80年代末已經請工人，
亞姨試過請左個新工人，agent 8am帶佢黎，亞姨講低d奶粉響邊就交個 ...

係呀!我老公既阿叔係90年代請左個賓，一用就二十年。我見過佢都覺得佢好好。以前工人質數好好多。

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本帖最後由 pineapple0983 於 11-12-5 12:39 編輯

唔駛咁灰心既，差的印妹大概佔3成左右；好的佔2成左右，其余的都是一d平平無奇的；可以想深一層，好醒好叻好惦嗰啲，做咩要同你打工？撞到ed係好彩，要感恩~

有時要秤下個妹優點多定缺點多；同埋問自已請佢番黎目的係咩；如果佢達到你請佢番黎的目的，又優點比缺點多，d缺點又唔係死罪既，咪忍下囉；希望時間可以慢慢改變佢的缺點啦~

忍唔到咪換囉；下個可能係好妹都未定呢？

自已貴重野一定要鎖好，小朋友一定要睇緊d；總之，佢始終係外人，唔好以為佢會替你著想囉；ed野平常心啦~

我見有d完美主義媽咪，見人地個妹好好；自已個妹做唔到佢要求就啄住個妹，搞到個妹好難做，最後當然係炒啦。我睇個妹其實都唔係咁差遮；可能我要求低掛~

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333s 優點多於缺點还炒她? 事先先平估損失. 發表於 11-12-5 13:03

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ming0314

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我都唔想煮比佢食架! 佢一來到問佢識唔識煮佢話唔識...都算喇咪教佢囉.個老人家教佢煮時佢睇下就走咗去! 個老人家咪唯有自己煮仲要煮埋比佢食!

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333s 我媽的就是, 我問她你來HK做什么? 不如你比錢我來煮給你吃好不?? 發表於 11-12-5 12:07

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333s

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廿一世紀, 工人進步了... 不再單純了. internet 世界
而是我地一雇主不進步, 反而仍停留在 60年代里!
雇主有要求, 不是罪過. maid 想享受, 佔在她的立場非罪過也.

造成今時今日好多善良的雇主, 被工人玩...., 有苦自己知.
人受了傷, 苦過, 痛過, 失敗, 挫折感 ... 要懂得學習如何應對, 也是上上策. 工人強, 自己要不斷的令自己強大.

方法總比困難多.... 努力不斷學習才會進步.

想不開、就別想. 得不到、就不要. 失去了、繼續笑. 擁有了、要珍惜。
快乐不是拥有的多，而是计较的少。

生悶氣，發脾氣，煩躁，焦慮，失眠. 是指因生气（生闷气、怒气、着急上火生成的火气、思虑生成的郁气）。
理性討論交流者。

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ferferfer

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333s 發表於 11-12-4 14:32
家里八十年代有工人了... 都卅年

近十年工人的素質 down, 不斷在工人身上學了不少手段..

yep，我亞姨都係80年代末已經請工人，
亞姨試過請左個新工人，agent 8am帶佢黎，亞姨講低d奶粉響邊就交個仔俾佢出去返工，
你話我地宜家有無可能咁做？

90年代末都請過一個印印照顧公公，好乖好純，因為後來公公過身所以不續約，
最近講起先知果個印印原來係＄2000一個月，365日都無假期......

以前d工人真係好好多，宜家愈來愈衰......

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發表於 11-12-4 20:18 |只看該作者

我而家呢個工人, 一個字 '唉!'
唔帶腦返工, 等人比野佢做, 唔識得去搵野做,
d衫洗好掛好, 唔叫唔識收,
食野大食不在講, 至慶係佢留比自己食果份就大大份,
比我一家3口的比例就偏細.
買送唔會幫我格價, 唔貴ge佢唔買.....
總之有佢又煩, 冇佢又煩.

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333s 中國有句 : 人不為己, 天朱地灭發表於 11-12-5 11:29

333s 中國有句 : 人不為己, 天珠地灭!!!!!!!!!!!! 發表於 11-12-5 11:27

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本帖最後由 29XX86 於 11-12-4 16:33 編輯

咁我諗我都幾好彩, 請個印用左4年(完約走), 佢老實, 湊女好, 會慳錢, 當然缺點也一大堆, 我都好頂佢唔住, 但都叫HAPPY ENDING.

而家個賓用左一年, 暫時都OK, 細心聽話有禮貎, 英文發音非常好, 熟於純既女仔, 但留意到佢有貪心野, 所以我會MARK得佢好實, 唔會比佢落到手. 到現時為止, 我就中意賓多過印好多, 因為我個賓話頭醒尾, 夠細心, 以前個印, 自以為醒兼自大狂, 又係喊飽, 我對同佢一萬個唔夾. 不過我舊印遲D都會返黎幫我舊同事湊NEW BORN.

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333s 古人說 strict 師, 出好徒! 一點都不错. 發表於 11-12-5 11:26

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333s

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家里八十年代有工人了... 都卅年

近十年工人的素質 down, 不斷在工人身上學了不少手段..
用於其身上方才能平復心情. 以其人之道, 还其人之..

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Throughout the 22 years experience of hiring more than 20 overseas bun & yan, my expectation now on FDH is almost none! The 1st maid worked 8 years for me, the 2nd 3 years but I fired her when I discovered she borrowed more than $100,000 from fianacial companies & also asked my relatives' maids borrow for her. The 3rd to 7th maids completed their 2-year contract peacefully. Starting from the 8th, nightmare began. All were terminated because of inferior performance & poor sttutude; or resigned with lots of rediculous reasons(home sick, lost contact of husband, etc......). Now the 2 new buns arrived the same date. They are quite "co-operative" & finish the household core according to my schedule. They'd rather stay home when day off cause they need to repay money to the agency. But who knows if they still keep the same work quality after their repayment???
I was very depressed throught the last 3 years by dismissing maids repeatedly & spent lots of money to kick them out! The key is if the agency is responsible & willing to co-ordinate, my life would be easier & relaxed. But it all depends on how lucky we are to find the right agency who offers the appropriate FDH & fullfil my requirements.
I do agree & welcome to see a reliable database of FDH's employment history that really helps employers to sort out those 混吉 creatures. I don't mind paying membership fee to see the files.
Let's cross our fingers & hope the new 特首do something to protect all FDH's employers who are the victims of the current out-dated labour law.
Good luck to all FDH employers!

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333s 22年..由工人身上學了不少東西! 值的大家向你學習. 發表於 11-12-4 14:26

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Jsmami

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10 days of work got a round trip ticket & medical check? What a good deal! At least your agent is conscientious not to refer your maid to another victim, but who knows?!
I think of coming up with a database of foreign domestic helpers in HK, data supplied by employers, stating how long the maids have worked for us, their work performance and reasons for termination / resignation etc. If this database is big enough & prospective employers always look up this database before they hire their maids, FDH will try to do their job better if they care to work here. I have to hire 5 maids in 2 years, 4 resigned in less than 6 months for various reasons - to work overseas, to rescue her marriage & the current one who herself feels useless (I always give her chance to improve)........ This is not fun - keep on changing maids, training them, paying the overheads.....so unproductive. Even my kids no longer have feelings towards the maids now.

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工人識 24 式太極拳; CEO 的你, 非要懂 48式太極拳

以智慧來菅治 /菅理 - 不但是菅还要理!

家里要有系統及一致性, 不然天下都會大乱.

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最嚴重係無安全意識, 無警覺性,
試過沖完支勁熱嘅奶, 放响bb隨手可取嘅地方, 歲幾大嘅b見到有奶就自然攞黎飲, 事後問佢做咩咁熱都放出黎; 居然仲講佢無比亞b飲, 係亞b"自己"拎來飲, 你話激死未?

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333s 似一首歌, 你愛她, 她愛他... 發表於 11-12-5 11:23

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jaca 發表於 11-12-1 08:51
要數外傭不是，十日十夜也講不完，唯一方法是忍，忍唔住就唔使佢做！但心血少者還是不請為妙。以下分享個人 ...

agreeded.

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Yes! My last 31-year old bun just worked for 10 days then cried seriously in front of me saying "mam, I can't clean the underneath of the carboard because I had operation before. I can't knell down(she then lifted up her t-shirt & showed me & my C6 her 垂直整個肚皮嘅大拉鍊!!!). I stopped her then she cried even more seriously & repeated saying "I am very home sick! I want to go back to Philippines. Maam, please, woo woo!!". So I sent her back to agency & booked ticket of the same night to kick her out of HK!
The agency just told me that she requests them to find her job in HK again. But the agency rejected her instantly because she can only clean the shell of furniture(she can't bend her stomach) & who knows when she feels home sick again!!!
What a sick bun!

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333s i hate my maid, my employer has many excuse. 發表於 11-12-2 07:30

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jaca 發表於 11-12-1 18:34
今日比我發現多一樣野, 我隻賓原來一直以來洗奶樽都是但, 個蒸奶樽機, 側邊有跡, 奶樽亦有, 初時我以為用得 ...

佢個心同腦都無帶嚟,又點拎出嚟喎.

我們都以為，很努力去做，就可以做好一件事。但原來我們是很用力地，去做錯一件事。

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yesmam 發表於 11-12-1 17:41
印印 - 仲有唔冲涼, 唔洗頭, 唔換面衫, 底衫衭就咁瞓. 奇裝異服, 染金
毛, 一邊剷青, 一邊連住 ...

Agree 100%. My Philippino maid resigned giving me 1 month notice, 2 more weeks to go. She admitted she failed to do something this morning, she cried saying she had tried her best but I was still not satisfied (she admitted she failed to do it properly - I demo, I repeat, I even ask her if she can't do it, I'll do it myself instead). She asked me to fire her. I said if she wanted to leave, she had to pay me in lieu of notice. She refused to pay. I asked her to work hard until her last day.
How easy is it for maids to ask their employers to fire them! They don't have any self respect. They just think of their own benefits. Shame on the whole country.

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333s Maid just think of their own benefits. so 我地要向她學習如何為自己利益作想. 發表於 11-12-5 11:21

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發表於 11-12-1 19:14 |只看該作者

唔可以俾佢"next day la"!!!
你要佢即刻做or瞓之前做咗佢!!!
唔通要你就佢嗎??
仲要叫佢唔好求其, 如一發現有小小唔clean, 要再即刻clean成間房一次!!
Until I think it is ok!!!
如果佢黑我面一定唔到12都唔洗瞓!!
因為我C6好惡，好strict, 所以我地叫佢做咩都要即刻做!!
This is their job anyway!!!
做咩請你要受你氣?
你以為你係太后嗎？
真係要對佢地strict D架~~
做得好咪對返佢好D lor~~
先苦後甜好work ga ^^

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333s 做咩請你要受你氣? i like it, 我地共非免費請个maid. 我要付出$$$. 發表於 11-12-5 11:18

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今日比我發現多一樣野, 我隻賓原來一直以來洗奶樽都是但, 個蒸奶樽機, 側邊有跡, 奶樽亦有, 初時我以為用得耐, 點知用隻手一抹, 全部抹得到, 佢仲同爭辯, 話抹唔到所以唔抹, 我洗俾佢睇, 佢就話, i can't see the dirty, 死都同你拗, 總之, 佢唔會錯既, 從來唔會say sorry, 整爛野都係話,oh no! 咁就算!
我話你做野, 可唔可以認真d, 比個心出來?
唔怪得你咁得閒, 日日可以午睡, 是是但但咁......
仲有, 佢習慣朝早洗地清潔, 我有時訓晏左, 佢就唔洗我間房, 有日忍唔住問佢點解我間房咁dirty, 佢話 i wash it this morning, but you sleep late, so next day la!!! 頂!

但無法, 我第二個b就出世, 都要忍下去.......
香港人, 真可憐!