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王國長老

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21#
發表於 04-5-7 09:32 |只看該作者

Re: 媽/爸

我老公以前試過一個人同亞仔出去放亞仔car seat在front seat都比個差人話過,一有事個仔比個air bag首當其衝,太危險!我知道後罵到佢死,講明係意外,一次就致命!
可能我在外國一排,以前如果無car seat我地唔會車朋友D仔女的。呢樣唔只係法例,重點係關乎我個仔既人身安全,我唔會博。至於人地點睇,我理唔到,有起事亦係人地個仔有事,提議過做唔做係人地既事。好似成日都有細路跌落街,但仲係成日都有家長留細路一個係屋企比佢再發生!


別墅

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22#
發表於 04-5-7 09:37 |只看該作者

Re: 媽/爸

tt2001,
hey listen, I didn't encourage anybody to put the kids in the front of the car! BUT for me, I need to take care of 2 kids by myself as I'm driving, and I have already indicated in my previous words that ""my 1 year-old baby moved around in the car seat as I put him at the back, the car seat almost fell over that nobody looked after him!!"" What do you think I can do if I don't put him in the front?? Please give me good advise then!!
Please don't just be picky on other people's words.
I didn't encourage anybody to place the kids in the front, I just tried to tell those mothers who drive, if they can't find anyone to look after the kids in the car, it is ok to place the kids in the front, since the mothers can have an eye on the kids.(我冇鼓勵任何人去放d小朋友o係前座,但如果情況唔許可,即冇人o係後座幫你睇住d唔鍾意自己坐car seat既小朋友,咁逼不得已都要放o係前面!咁媽咪都可以睇住佢.)
DO YOU UNDERSTAND? :-x remember your topic is asking "IF there is no one else in the car.......!!" I really hate those people who don't listen to other people and just being picky on words. :evil:


別墅

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23#
發表於 04-5-7 09:47 |只看該作者

Re: 媽/爸

麟媽媽,
如果你個情況好似我咁,要帶住2個細路.個仔係好似我咁其中1個係1歲bb,唔肯坐car seat,試過好多次擺佢自己坐後面但攪到爭d反凳咁滯,又冇人o係後面睇住,咁你會唔會逼於無奈都要連car seat擺佢o係前面呢??起碼可以睇倒佢,有咩事可以即刻停埋一二邊.
而事實上我真係遇過好多次差人都冇野,或者佢地見我個情況都知係逼於無奈卦.因為我仲有另一個細路o係後坐.
我都預左會有d人扮晒野出聲話我架喇.(我唔係話你)
我只係講事實,我亦都唔係拎d細路黎較飛. 而係我真係冇辦法.


王國長老

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好媽媽勳章 王國長老


24#
發表於 04-5-7 09:49 |只看該作者

Re: 媽/爸

hellokitty517,
If that's the case you can't manage your son if you place him at the back seat, another advice for you. If you have to put your baby at the front seat, always place the car seat rear facing, it will minimize the injury if anything happens.
I think everybody's intention here was the safety of the kids, please don't take it too personal.


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25#
發表於 04-5-7 09:58 |只看該作者

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麟媽媽,
In that case, I'm not taking it too personal as you said. I'm just being mad that that person doesn't understand what I'm talking about and just picked on my words. I guess most people would do like me if they're having such a circumstance like mine.
Yes, my baby faces the rear as he sits in the car seat. And I also fasten his seat belts.
That's all I can do, isn't it?
Also I want to tell when I go out with my husband, he will always be the driver and I sit at the back with my baby(sits in a car seat). I really have to take care of the baby and my older son will be seated in the front. It's just because my car is a K-car that only has 4 seats.
I think the police pulled over you guys coz they saw your kids are older and could seat at the back by themselves. But what if mine is just a baby?
Thanks for your advise anyway.


複式洋房

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26#
發表於 04-5-7 10:59 |只看該作者

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我平時帶阿女出街,我個女佢係肯坐car seat。有時候我同老公一齊佢就會扭下計。自從果次之後,我個女就再冇扭計要坐前面,所以我都好感謝個交通警。就算唔係法律規定,我自己都覺得坐後排car seat係最安全,我個女試果坐前面時亂按掣,其實都幾危險。如果真係照顧唔倒,我有時會叫埋工人一齊去,又或者坐的士,若路程短我會搭地鐵。最重要安全至上。

hellokitty517
個交通警冇叫我扭阿女耳仔,而係叫佢自己扭。何來虐兒咁嚴重! (請睇清楚先回應)


男爵府

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27#
發表於 04-5-7 11:08 |只看該作者

Re: 媽/爸

坐後排car seat係最安全

Totally agreed with above.

It does not matter whether you will be prosectued or not - the top priority is the kids' safety.

If I can't manage my kids, I would prefer to get a taxi or get my maid to help.

安全至上
:-P
:-D :-D :-D :-D


別墅

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28#
發表於 04-5-7 11:13 |只看該作者

Re: 媽/爸

duplicated


別墅

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29#
發表於 04-5-7 11:15 |只看該作者

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我搭1程的士帶個仔返學$35-$37, 每日搭2程條數真襟計.
我又冇咁你地咁有錢請工人喎.
供架車都供到氣咳.
我架車好平架咋,每個月供需$2xxx,平過請工人,平過每日搭的士.


別墅

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30#
發表於 04-5-7 11:21 |只看該作者

Re: 媽/爸

ingrid mama,
oh, 咁可能又係香港既法律問題啦!o係美國扭耳仔係child abuse, no matter what.
如果你係我,有1個大bb同一個細bb,又冇人同你睇喎,你係咪都會擺晒佢地o係後面呢?
我個大仔都話識得鬧下佢,唔俾佢坐前面就唔坐.
但我個細既係1歲大bb,你估下叫佢唔好扭計,坐定定佢得唔得呢?我又好唔放心掉佢一個o係後面喎.
如果佢1個人o係後面,佢有咩事反凳整親我又變左疏忽照顧兒童,我好矛盾呀!!


男爵府

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31#
發表於 04-5-7 11:50 |只看該作者

Re: 媽/爸

放大/細bb在前面其實仲有一個危險是會搞手制或其他,可以好大件事

有一次我貪方便叫婆婆抱細bb坐後排, 沒有放car-seat 都被警察叫埋一邊警告, 不過同ingrid mama 一樣, 我都好多謝他的忠告, 一次意外已經太多!

有時bb扭計,又冇人睇住, 我寧願推bb車行路或用
:-D :-D :-D :-D


大宅

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32#
發表於 04-5-7 13:56 |只看該作者

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hellokitty517,
算把啦,忠言往往逆耳,可能我D係你所謂嘅"扮晒野"忠言,更加覺得"un"耳啦。我相信你要HK先立法吾比小童坐前座,咁你可能媽媽叉叉,但就會乖乖地唸到辦法law,到時可吾可以講嚟聽下,等我學下野呀?

我開呢個topic,係想知道下D小童一般肯吾肯坐,等自己有多D心理準備,又或者有乜方法令到佢坐。我都話,如果我攪吾掂個仔自己坐後坐Car seat,我就一於兩仔乸搭車,巴士、地鐵都好。就算有一千個回應話自己比個仔坐前座,都吾會改變到呢個原則。卒之有媽咪同我一樣吾比小童坐前座,又有媽咪會比,咁我咪多事講句,叫人吾好law,我唸吾使要我有個仔,出過事至講得呀?到我係屋企回應你嗰篇"偉論",打吾到中文要好吃力咁用英文,我開頭仲驚英文差失禮人,乜原來我寫到D"扮晒野"嘅英文呀?好開心呀!

點都好啦,各人都會對問題嘅嚴重性有吾同睇法,各人都對後果有吾同深度嘅評估,拿,送個下台階比你使啦.......可能你手車係好到不得了,對自己好有信心,你揸車一定、冇可能有意外,如果吾好彩有人撞埋黎,你仲可以叫架車飛tim,所以你咪冇其他人(我啦下)咁驚law。啱聽啦!


別墅

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33#
發表於 04-5-7 14:35 |只看該作者

Re: 媽/爸

tt2001,
I said 扮晒野 is not talking about your English, okay?
And actually you have a lot of mistakes with your English speaking. I just didn't pick on you. So don't be too happy.
Yeah, I think the way I'm driving is better than you do. At least I have more than 10 years driving experience.
hey, don't you feel the way you act /speak is so immature? Just like a nosy one pointing at other people's noses and yell. It's a kind of depressive that there are more and more nosy memebers like you in bk now.
我以為你想同我講英文我先用英文回應番你,冇諗過你咁吃力都打d錯晒既英文出黎.你唔洗話打d咩o岩我聽喎,你又唔係我邊個.咁鍾意同人鬧交.我唔會咩媽媽叉叉喎,而家好似係你大大聲媽叉.你咁驚咪唔好渣車囉,我唔係話我唔驚,而係真係冇辦法.
如果你好似我咁,屋企窮,住到山卡啦d村屋咁遠.淨係行出村對面再遠d搭車都要行15分鐘(拖1個咩1個要20幾分鐘)先有架車搭下.落車後又要行多10幾分鐘(拖1個咩1個要20分鐘)上斜路先返倒學校.你仲有冇咁好雅興拖1個咩1個咁去搭車行路返學呢? 你估真係好過癮呀? 咩忠言逆耳呀?你講d咩咁忠言呢?我夠想叫你好好練下d EQ, 好好學下英文,咁又係咪咩忠言逆耳呀?
你咁犀利,你黎教我點可以一路渣車一路控制坐o係我後面既1歲bb丫?真係好想聽下.
我唔係你咁,走黎對晒號入晒坐撩交嗌,我係講事,唔係講人.


別墅

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34#
發表於 04-5-7 14:36 |只看該作者

Re: 媽/爸

I'll stop at this point.


別墅

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35#
發表於 04-5-7 14:53 |只看該作者

Re: 媽/爸

各位媽媽,

其實外國真是有案例的, 有個七歲小孩坐在車頭時發生了交通意外, 被本來用來救人的Air Bag的衝力撞斷了脛骨而死亡,七歲都如此, 更何況幼童呢, 請三思呀各位!

Happy Mothers' Day!! :-P


大宅

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36#
發表於 04-5-7 16:24 |只看該作者

Re: 媽/爸

hellokitty517,
你數啦,你數咩都辣吾(hing)我架,你自己露晒底比人知你咩脾性架咋(不過其實你第一篇message已比人知晒lo)!仲有,下次要攪清楚EQ係乜先用EQ黎數人,吾係又瘀多次架啦。同埋吾好拖其他人落水law:"there are more and more nosy memebers like you (tt2001) in bk now"。

比你嗰极下台階啱使,有機會醒多個比你下,等你吾使唸理由唸得咁辛苦,覺得自己叻,真係乜都掂架la!

Anyway,安全駕駛。



其他媽咪:
多謝意見,其實尋晚都睇過Mother Care D Booster,二百零蚊,唸得過,Thank you。 (下次吾會入錯區架la)


洋房

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37#
發表於 04-5-11 02:58 |只看該作者

Re: 媽/爸

Safety First!

to HelloKitty517,

Does your baby carseat fit to your car's model? It's very dangerous if the carseat flips over when it's tightly fastened. There should not be any room for the carseat to move. I'm concerned about your baby's safety.


[quote]
hellokitty517 寫道:
仲有我而家日日都要車大仔返學,咁我細仔(1歲bb)好細個已經要坐car seat跟埋一齊帶哥哥返學. bb坐前面(我隔離)因為試過擺佢o係後面佢周身郁搞到car seat都爭d反.根本唔可能擺後面因為冇人睇.我大仔就坐後面.


男爵府

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38#
發表於 04-5-11 17:12 |只看該作者

Re: 媽/爸

hellokitty51,

唔使咁勞氣吧, 我諗個個都明白好多時做野都係 "迫不得已", 但同時更要顧及安全的, 渣車已經要打醒十二分糊神, 再放個細路o係則邊, 你已經分神了。

如果係我, 我一定點樣都要佢坐car seat, 話之佢喊飽佢。 問題唔係手車得唔得, 你有幾多信心去睇住個細路, 意外既野, 就算你唔撞人, 人地都有可能撞你的, 唔係你既錯, 都可能會係人地既錯, 到人地錯既時候, 唔理你幾多對眼睇住你個細路, 你渣車幾了得都係冇用的。

所以當no one take care of children in the car時, 最好既方法就係交比 "car seat"吧。 最多落車之後tum番個細路既情緒, 總好過將個細路同自己條命較飛吧。

補充: 我所謂既car seat, 位置係指 "後座" , 並不能擺 "前座"。
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