ptsamm,
I will say I am sort of Doman mom. I do buy his theories and mean to follow. However, due to laziness in preparing the teaching materials and some technical difficulties, I do not adhere strictly to his teaching method. Nevertheless, I always like to employ his principles of teaching when I teach Charis, e.g. the concern on the environment, atmosphere and moods of parent & kid, etc..
Yes, I let her watch both Phonics Kingdom and Starfall in a day. Although it seems that Starfall and Phonics Kingdom are similar stuff but I will say Starfall is far more vivid, dynamic and interesting. I am pretty sure your girl will love it. Phonics Kingdom is very boring. At the beginning, when I have not yet known the specific method to use PK, Charis is uninterested in it. She would go away after a few letters. I gave up and put the PK aside for several months. I once thought that it will not be seen forever until I learnt the right way of using that teaching kit. Then I can finally keep my girl in the sofa to watch it.
I handle all the visual equipment (computer/VCDs/DVDs) myself. To tell you, ever since I return to work from my maternity leave, I have given up watching TV Programmes broadcasted during golden hours. When Charis was small, I took care of her when I was back from work. Now, I spend all the time with her, reading, teaching, playing, watching VCDs/DVDs... until she goes to bed. Then I may still have some TV before going to bed. That is really an unexpected change to me! So there is really a price to pay.
Of course you can still play Baby Einstein from time to time. But as you said, you are working and time is limited, you may let Angel try other different things if she has already watched the video for some time.
You can ask your mom to read Chinese books with Angel or play the CD during the day (Phonics Kids or other nursery rhymes). Listening is also very important. You can systematically do some interesting teaching for Angel in the evening, if you desire.