My husband is a western as well.. Just like you, I was just miscarriage. I saw you in the other topic. I understand how you feel.
the difference is my husband have no relatives in HK, but 1 of his cousin came during this time. I also angry with him leaving me at home and spending all time with his cousin during my sick leave..He even asked me to go out to join the dinner by myself. that make me mad..
Sometimes, I wonder, it just they have not thinking at our point. I talked to him on the same night..
So, just talking to your husband how you feel. It should help.