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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

老公又去左wet....

heiheima咪,

最近點呀，少左留言既？妳上次有提到HeiHei 學校要做甚麼"海棠"學習簿？係乜東東黎架？聽落好次係比D 家長既功課多D wor?? 近排多唔多去MOS 玩/行下？馬鐵開左咁耐，都未搭過，可能呢個weekend 去一倘 - 報料：有無童裝商店做特價呀？

pauline c.,

乜妳仲未集齊Hello Kitty D 磁貼呀？我見妳話想要75 果個，今晚返屋企找過（"瘋癲"果期儲左成"棟"呀），有74，76 & 78 （唯獨係無75）。妳要嗎？

Christ,

妳D 衫仔好靚，起初我睇o岩件 # 15 ，但再睇清楚，原來只係o岩 1-2歲，"卡諾B" D 衫仔keep 到而家呀？

Ramomo,

Oh, icic.... 我係Rachel 都會驚，希望（亦相信) 老師識點處理

話時話，星期2 接Jackie 放學去 TomLee 時，係Caroline Ctr. 個巴士站都見到Rachel + 婆婆.....BTW, 搵工人搵成點？

Jsmami,

哈哈，妳唔動筆我點"tum" 都"tum" 唔到妳啦

其實妳盡管係度申啦，不過我想提醒妳，妳記唔記得妳打過電話問我好唔好借錢比工人，我係點答妳呢？我話："[size=small]係原則問題，我就唔會借喇" - 妳仲記得架可？

Anyway,，妳都無聽我講啦（話時話，以往妳問左我會點做，妳都 do my exact opposite 既) - 記唔記得之前妳話 in 左2 個工人，一個"後生D"，一個"老D"，我同妳講話"我會請個老D既"? 後尾，妳都決定左請個"後生D"果個啦（結果妳揀果個 in 完連影都無左

）

講番而家呢個工人，妳話若妳唔借$$ 比佢，佢會話妳係 ( quote: not a good boss???:exclaim:) - 呢句我真係唔明 & 唔認同喇- 點會唔借就= not a good boss 架？4 年來，我從來無借過錢比我個賓姐，難道我又唔係 a good boss? 我咁講，唔係想妳聽左再唔開心，反之我想同妳講：每逢決定左既野/事情，決定左就唔好再諗，可能佢唔還錢仲走埋路架，點知呀？雖然妳而家個工人係我介紹比妳，但工人既野，做落先知好唔好（我話好時妳未必認同呢），當妳係朋友既話，我肯定唔會介紹個衰既比妳先（再講，我又唔係agent ，無佣收架wor...) 其次，都係果句： [size=small]唔好比較- 同妳不下子講左好多次，妳越諗以前果個，越係比較以前 & 而家越係唔開心，何必呢？一係連除"炒"左佢

，再請過（反正妳而家仲有多個做 "spare" tim...)

開開心心設計下新屋仲好啦- 遲D 妳游番出"社會"大海，妳仲要需要D 工人幫手架。

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

Yingying,
d 磁貼我集齊哂喇,thx!!
講住咁多先喇,聽日亞仔開始考試.好緊張呀!

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

瑩瑩,

你即講我, 我即出現比你見.
因為我公司暫時沒有得上網, 晚上食完飯回家都好夜, 都有上來留言, 但我都keep 住有上來望望大家近況.

係啦, hei hei 學校派一棵"四季秋海棠"比學生回家種植, 1月頭要帶回校, 等學校轉送去老人院比d公公婆婆. 要家長同小朋友一齊做"四季秋海棠 ~ 成長過程" 報告. 唔係聽落似比D 家長既功課, 簡直係家長做, 小朋友又唔識寫字, 又唔識作文, 樣樣都係家長做. 我就比hei hei 做影相個part (不過都係我影多過hei hei 影). 我重好有心機用相紙print出來, 諗住可以留來做記念, 點知是唔會派回的, 是要留在學校做教材.

我日日都搭馬鐵返工就真, 你去開mos 到時call me 一齊飲茶啦.

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

花花,

唔該晒,我都好想試下玩智樂遊樂場d遊戲,但係要多人至好玩架！

初五(13/2) 或 20/2我都得呀,幾時開始報名呀？

瑩瑩,

你真係叻喇，本來我都好想好似你咁俾多d回憶聰聰,但係太懶,好多機會都無把握,我相信第時Jackie 都會好感激你為佢做嘅一切。

Jsmami,

咁啱我家姐個新工人(8月從菲律賓嚟)又係做咗幾個月就借錢,借左幾千蚊,雖然佢都唔似會呃人,但係又會咁巧合,咁多工人會一嚟做野就借錢？(仲識得有其他人都係咁)我諗如果係我就唔借,但係好彩我個工人無問我借,如果佢問我都會好頭痛。

但係借得俾人最好預左佢唔還,以前我都借過2萬幾俾個教會嘅朋友,結果無幾耐就無左蹤影,成10年前,啱啱出嚟做野,全部積蓄借晒俾佢！間唔中諗起都好嬲！

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發表於 05-1-13 08:56 |只看該作者

Re: 2001年4月BB請進

heiheima,
Justin's school also asked us to plant a 四季秋海棠!!! I agree it's totally the mummy's job, not the child! In fact I thought it was seed to start with, that's why I put it away until weekend. The small plant has already died! I was so shameful to ask another parent who got a spare one such that Justin can have his own plant. BTW, I still have not taken any pictures nor write anything! I must do something!

Kanax,
I always think I feel better if I am the one who borrows money than is asked for money!!! Now that my maid asked me, what could I do? If I don't lend her, what will she do? Borrow from the "big ear hole" & get into trouble!?

Ying Ying,
I know you are a good boss & I am one too. Maxx's performance is ok but can be better. She is the type of person who always has excuses (I don't want to give examples here). Other than that, I have no problem with her. I am not comparing her with Lita. I compare her with her sister. Maxx complained to me twice that her sister worked very slowly! Interestingly, her sister finishes all the critical work when Maxx is on holiday but not the other way round!

Afterall, my complaint is she is very daring to ask me for money when she has barely worked for 2 months!!!! This is an abuse. She should have managed her money better despite being a single mum. Remember she has been working in HK for 15 years! The money is borrowed not because someone falls sick in the family - which I consider emergency - it is for her daughter's wedding! If I stand firm & refuse to lend her money, she said she would not go back now - but when I interviewed her, she requested to go back in Jan as her daughter is pregnant!

I don't choose to do contrary to what u recommend. It's just a coincidence. As for lending her money - I cannot let her go later (within 1 year anyway according to immigration), u know why. My mum-in-law always asks me to be more harsh with the maids. She would fire Maxx if she were me! But I don't have such luxury as her sister may leave too!

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

Jsmami,

It's so difficult to make the decision. Just like what Ying Ying has said, just make it and go forward without looking back, it will be much more easier.

Ying Ying,

Rachel is still not so o.k. at school and even at home these few days. Instead of expressing her requests by voicing out, she will have tears in her eyes and start using handkerchief to swipe it. e.g. Last night, I was playing piano and singing some songs with her, I went to pick up the phone and have the conversation with my phone for less than 3 minutes, Rachel then had tears in her eyes. I asked her the reasons and she told me that she wanted me to play the piano and sing the songs with her. I told her you can express it to me by telling me directly. She said it's o.k. But from my observation, she has been scared since Monday and her emotions is not so stable for these few days. Unless her time is occupied by playing, once if it is silence, her tears will be out.

Her classmistress phoned me yesterday and said it was because after the long holidays, some of the kids will have the emotional problem. However I told her that before she arrived the playground for assembly this Monday, Rachel was pushed by her classmates at the back which has made her scare and shout. (Actually, her classmistress did hear a loud shout). I told the classmistress that I understands every kids at this age will be innocent by performing some bad behaviour and I won't blame this kid. However, I'm not satified with how she handle this case.

You know every day, popo will wait until Rachel passed by her before going up the classroom. The classmistress even asked my mom to leave after sending her to the playground so that Rachel will not be possible to see her againyesterday. However, she totally did not understand if popo just left at that time without letting Rachel know, how will Rachel react?? Rachel is the type : shy, take long time to get used to new things, lack of confidence which I admit it takes time to improve.........

After voicing out my greivances, my mood is better now and I have to start working. Thanks for your patience to be my listener.

By the way, I have not yet got any maid. So if you have any referral , just let me know.

To April 2001 mummies: If you have good referral for part-time local helpers for cooking/tidying up the house, please let me know. Thanks.

Ramomo

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

heiheima,

請問你做秋海棠的生長記錄要寫d乜?

Ramomo,

很明白你的感受,多些鼓勵Rachel,告訴她同學不是有心推倒她.希望過一段時間會OK!

Jsmami,

唔借$=唔係good boss ?-( ?-(

我都唔借$比工人,話比佢聽我自己要供樓,即係借緊bank的$.
如果你借完比佢有排驚就不如唔好借.

乜你仲行緊駱克道,咁咪仲有排搞.有冇野幫到你呀?裝修e家野我都可以扮下半個專家wor

"久疾成醫" 你有冇搵泰安呀?我上個月先thr'佢買左個煮食爐,平好多呀,不過plasma就百老匯平d啦. 洗唔洗做窗,玻璃,鏡等?

Sat Morning會否去步行籌款?

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

Jsmami,

我工人初初黎果陣都有問我借錢, 跟住個個月分期還番比我, 我覺得無問題喎, 你唔借比佢, 如果佢走去財務公司借, 咁咪重煩 :exclaim: 或且佢地想快些還哂錢比果邊o既介紹所啦,
我工人做o左3年幾, 問我借錢都係頭果兩年, 而家無問啦, 唔駛咁擔心喎, 我只係比小小意見你參考, 借唔借錢比佢都要你自己去衡量, 因我唔知你工人的性格各樣, 但基本上我覺得借錢比佢係一種渠道可以幫到佢, 請勿見怪

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

Hi to all mummy,

Matthew 呢兩日咳, 昨晚睇完醫生, 今日無返學呀! (唔知係唔係我傳染佢呢, 我自己都感冒 ?-( ?-( )

Jsmami,

如RCHU01所言, 個工人同出面的財務公司借, 仲煩呀

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發表於 05-1-14 10:21 |只看該作者

Re: 2001年4月BB請進

Ramomo,
我諗女仔比較內向d,怕羞d,所以Rachel有咁既情況,有時小朋友玩就常有碰撞,解釋番件事比佢聽,多d同佢傾計,希望有所改善啦.
你有唔開心都可以上黎同我地傾架,我地都好樂意聽的,講左出黎會舒服架.
我都有一間家務助理公司用過,試過幾個家務助理,都唔錯,不過係九龍區,我諗佢地都有香港區的家務助理,或者你可以入去呢個網址睇下.

家務助理公司

Jsmami,
既然決定左就唔好諗,諗下間新屋點裝修,都好多野要攪喎.
恭喜你,搬大屋,我諗Justin一定好開心,預祝你新居愉快.

瑩瑩,
你真係好細心,諗得咁長遠,我都要以你為榜樣,努力d先.

KLLP,
可能呢幾日轉天氣,要小心個氣管,希望你同Matthaw都快d好番,身體健康!

各位,
請問你地知唔知$150/半小時學鋼琴貴唔貴呀?

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發表於 05-1-14 13:59 |只看該作者

Re: 2001年4月BB請進

hohan,
You want Cyprian to learn piano? Is it the right time to start now? Does Cyprian express interest? Justin is still very baby - he never asks about it. Me? I will take out the keyboard for him after we move & see if he has any genes for it at all?!

Ying Ying, Ramomo, RChu, KLLP, hohan,
Sigh.... I just expressed how I felt about my maid here. Rationally, I could stand firm not to lend her any money. But I am too "sum-yuen". Once I decided to lend to her, I won't look back. I just hope that she won't disappoint me. You don't know, I even advanced her half month salary to her which is not due until she returns to HK. Just now, she showed me her round-trip ticket & asked me to pay for half!!!!! I know I have the obligation to give her a one-way ticket from the Philippines to HK. But she must consult how I want to give it to her before she issued the ticket!!!! I could have the option to redeem a ticket by using mileage instead! This time I play harsh & tell her I will pay her the money when she comes back! Sigh.... sorry, too "long-air"!

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

Ramomo,

睇到你個message 好替你唔開心, 同意 hohan 所講: 每個小朋友既性格都唔同, 經過呢件事後, 係呢段 critical 時期, 你要多D 同佢單獨一齊下 (去supermarket 又好, 去行下公園/公司又好, 參加甚麼班又好), 多D 同佢傾講, 到你見佢心情靚靚 & 平靜既時候, 不妨先慢慢問番成件事出黎 (係呀, 要等佢自己講番, 當然你要等佢講完先再比意見啦), 等佢講左, 你加少少comments, 之後你要轉換話題, 講佢鍾意既開心事 ( eg. 勞作/ 佢個公仔....etc. ) 又慢慢再傾下學校D 生活, 老師呀, 同學仔呀, 甚至學校個嬸嬸著既衫等等, 等佢慢慢知道學校個個人 (包括同學仔) 都唔同, 咁, 起碼第時學校有事, 第一時間話你知先 !

放心啦, 小朋友適應力好強既, 以Rachel 既性格, 佢咁既反應 & 行為係正常架, Jackie 係學校都比人"hup" 架, 但我地成日同佢講, 要用口, 唔好用手, 比人打/ 撞就要第一時間話比老師知, 自己唔可以私自用武力解決囉 ( 唉, 就係可能我地教佢要用口講, 佢9 月到而家, 學到好多好多中文術語, 成日同我地係屋企理論一餐

..... 琴晚同佢理論時, 佢對住我講: "四眼女人"!

.....下! 當時我當堂打個突 - 差D 誤會左佢想罰果時, 我話你再講多次 - 佢原來話"聖誕老人" 呀

(咁你就知佢D 中文幾"正"啦! ) 哈哈.....

RCHU01 & KLLP,

你地咁講都言之有理, 但每個工人借錢既目的 & 原因都唔同, 都係果句: 借錢前, 小心D 囉....KLLP, take care Mathew 呀 , 呢排天氣又凍過, 出入小心包住埋條頸...

hohan,

唔好咁講啦, 大家互相學習至係.....:mrgreen: 我細個爹地媽咪時常要工作, 但點忙佢地係假期都實帶我地2 姐弟去玩, 所以我想, 呢D 都係後天培養出黎, 當然仲要睇個人既性格 & 目的, 好似我老公咁, 佢係唔鍾意出街既人 (返工除外) , 每個星期日既節目, 都係我安排埋比佢架咋 - 偶一我無安排, 果個星期日佢就留係屋企"訓覺"架喇

... anyway, 大家努力啦, 都係為D 仔女...

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

Ying Ying, Hohan, Sheryl,

Thanks for all your support and comfort. Rachel cried so seriously before she got change of the school uniform yesterday. She insisted to have the classmistress accompany her in the toilet and playground (because she was pushed in these 2 spots on Monday). However, popo had explained to her that Ms Chan has to take care of 15 students at the same time, it will be too difficult and impossible.Then Rachel nodded her head, seemed understand .....

Ms Chan did call me yesterday ater school and told me Rachel was very happy today in class. Afterwards. I know the reason from Rachel that it was because no need to queue up in the playground. She told me she did not want to queue up in the playground in the absence of the teachers. I spent several minutes to explain to her and finally she said she will try....... Hope she will be o.k. after the weekend.

Hohan,

Thanks for your introducing of the 'Auntie Clean Company Ltd' and I'll have a try on it.

Ying Ying,
Has Jackie started her Junior Music Course at Tom Lee" Actually, the one at Taikoo Shing did call me end December and said there're class at 6 pm on Monday. However, the timing is not so good and we are on the waiting list again. I'll have a try on the music couse at 'Parson' which is just located in our Shopping Center. For the treble choir, we have to wait for the new class to commence.

Ramomo

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

Jsmami,
其實我一直都好想Cyprian學琴,之前見happyma的仔仔都學緊,亦聽過d鋼琴老師話其實年齡大小唔係問題,主要都係睇過小朋友有冇天份或興趣,所以咪諗住都比Cyprian試下,不過都唔知佢有冇得學架,個老師話要睇下適合否先決定呀.

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

早晨各位
今朝終可以內黎傾下,呢2日天氣好凍.記得同小朋友穿多件衫.
唔好凍親呀!

Jsmami
補祝妳生日快樂,

hohan
Happy仔同我一齊學緊都有成2個多月,係老師屋企學,(各自上堂)初級每人$100.00/30分鐘,價錢我唔知貴唔貴,我最初諗,要找個有教幼兒經既老師,因為始終要好有耐性同佢上堂先得,好幸運而家個老師非常之好,每日 happy仔佢會都會主動去練琴(只係10分鐘左右),不過老師話係好起碼佢有個心會去做,曾經試過我好倦唔想練琴就訓,但佢就話媽咪今日唔記得練琴,結果我又要起身練一陣先俾我訓.係咪同Cyprian一齊學呀?

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

Happyma & hohan,
Where about is your piano teacher? Jsdaddy has a colleague who volunteered to teach Justin piano. She is upto "performance standard". She does fly around to play piano. But I wonder if she is over-qualified to teach my son! You know Justin may not have the patience to sit down & learn! I wasted money & the chance at Music Wonderland in Tom Lee!

Hi all,
Despite Justin's poor cantonese. He learnt "eel" (an exclamation) from school!!!!!!!

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

sheryl,

秋海棠的生長記錄我沒有寫什麼嘢, 因為我太懶了, 唔記下生長程度, 又沒有上網揾資料, 只係全部相片.

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

Told u a stupid thing.

I took Matthew to wait for school bus but to no avail. At first I though I was late so the bus gone. But I suddenly thought I should call the school to see whether Matthew had to go to school since he was on sick leave last friday. I called and was told that today is a school holiday

, what a silly mummy I am

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Re: 2001年4月BB請進

KLLP,
You are not alone. That happened to me once before. It was my maid who brought Justin to wait for the school bus. When she asked me, I thought she might be late. Then I found out it was a school holiday. I felt so embarassed!

Heiheima & Sheryl,
I only took 1 photo on the flower so far! I hope we could keep the flower to ourselves!

Fafa,
How are u?! Give me a call when u have time!

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