Surveyor 發表於 19-7-12 17:18 
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Just interest, whether your ex-HB has new wife. He take care two grils?
1. He moved out from our metropolitan neighborhood to a small town in a suburb and he is a biblical follower who only take christian as his wife. These 2 conditions cut down his choice for a compatible one. Every friend I introduced to him (mostly christians), he had some negative comments about their compatibility with him and wanted to limit the time being with him/her to less than 30min in a session. My current Sir husband (an atheist) is the only person make to my ex-HB's "hall of fame" in the past 25 years.
2. Before he met me (he was about 35 years old and a ), he had a hard time to get or allure anyone to a point she was willing to marry him. I am the only one who is truly commit to him unconditionally in a life time marriage life.
3. He knows himself enough to better be content with remain single and no sex. He rather use my money to hire someone taking care of him physically like a stay home nurse or nanny.
4. He still define me as his soulmate. And he hasn't fine any replacement yet. I doubt he ever will fine one after me. No one before me.
Yes, he takes care two girls and he is obsessed to be in charge of them since they were born. Whenever I take care of them, he challenges my way. Other people (including my parents, his parents and siblings) are worst than I in his list. He even fired the nurse or nanny he himself fully control in the interviewing processes. I think this is what happen.... subconsciously he take our daughters away from me when he see I can stay home full time to be their influential Mom is coming. I found no place to fit in his household but a bread maker (financial provider) and maid all along in our marriage relationship. He has been homeschool our daughters until he moved them far away from me, then, he put our daughters to public school. Recently, as I have some resource to do a review on his decision making pattern since we married. I have a hard time to justify his heart and will to support me stay home full time to be a wife and a mom as he agreed.
Love is when the other person’s happiness is more important than your own ~ H. Jackson Brown
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